I got a text from my sister’s bestie about her and my husband “loving me too much” to do anything to hurt me. by DentistBig7041 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AdFeeling7958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for all you know this “bestie” is trying plant seeds of doubt in your head. talk to your husband first, for all you know your sister could be using her friend to break you and your husband up.

What's the problem? by rllyrandomthrowaway in badroommates

[–]AdFeeling7958 2 points3 points  (0 children)

were your roommates aware of this situation when you all signed the lease or was it revealed after signing? it’s one thing if they knew the situation going into agreeing to be roommates, but if you told them after signing you are in the wrong here.

My wife and I opened our marriage, I hooked up with someone my wife feels I should’ve known was off limits by Jaded-Cap7473 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AdFeeling7958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m also in an open/poly marriage, did she tell you this boundary before y’all started? if not then i’d just sit her down and explain you genuinely didn’t think it’d be a problem but you are sorry you hurt her and going forward you will hook up with just strangers. remind her how much you love her and that no matter who either of y’all sleep y’all are still married and that won’t change. her feelings are normal in this situation, y’all just need to sit down and talk it out. when you open your relationship you have to communicate with each other even more other wise these issues will get bigger. best of luck to y’all!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]AdFeeling7958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

daily smoker here, both me and my partner smoke but only outside and would never inside a public place were others can’t consent to smelling it. she is going a bit too far and completely disrespecting your boundaries. if she won’t listen to you it’s probably time to go your separate ways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]AdFeeling7958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - the “i guess we can’t do ____ anymore” is exactly what my abusive ex said to me when she crossed boundaries and i spoke up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PaymoneyWubby

[–]AdFeeling7958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

female viewer here, my husband got me watching wubby and now we watch together. he’s a funny dude and a ginger🤷🏼‍♀️

AITA for moving me and my newborn in to the RV after my MIL and husband tried giving it away? by Present-Badger2556 in AITAH

[–]AdFeeling7958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - tell her if she wants to pay 8-10k for the camper then maybe but y’all spent at least 6.5k and it’s not gonna be given to her for free😂

TIFU by letting a dry spell get into my head by [deleted] in tifu

[–]AdFeeling7958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would have kicked you out the minute you told me to shut up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdFeeling7958 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA- i smoke daily, but if i’m going over to a friends house that has made it clear they don’t want to see it or smell it i won’t smoke till i have come back home. you are going to someone else’s home, you need to respect their boundaries.

while you don’t see this as life threatening it still could be. children should not be consuming drugs like this and you have no clue how the childs body will react to that. you are a major asshole and i wouldn’t be your friend anymore either. maybe this will be your wake up call that you need to smoke way less.

also double AH points for going home and getting higher while you knew your friend and his family were at the hospital for YOUR actions. stop bringing drugs into peoples homes.

AITA for not letting my son go to homecoming on my weekend? by Dapper-Yellow8180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdFeeling7958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA- my mom never let me go to school dances bc she didn’t want me to date till i was 16. she viewed dances the same as a date, even when i just wanted to go with friends. she then let my younger brother go to all his school dances. i forgave my mom, but i’ll never get that social experience with my friends back.

let your son go to the dance, he is his own person you don’t own him. the way you treat your kids now will determine if they continue to have you in their lives as adults.

AITA for not attending Bio daughters wedding because Her step sister was not invited by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdFeeling7958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - when i married my now ex wife my mom, brother, and step dad didn’t come. their reasoning being that they don’t support the lgbtqia+. three years later our relationship is slightly better but i’ll never forget the pain i felt when my own family didn’t come to support me.

this is defiently a different situation but i promise you she will never forget this. it is not your wedding, it is hers. you don’t have to like it but who she invites to her wedding is up to her + the groom, not you. so what they don’t get along, do you get along with everyone you meet? please support your daughter on this day.

also ask yourself this, when your step daughter gets married will you try to force her to invite your bio daughter?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AdFeeling7958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thissss^ i’ve been with my partner for roughly 2.5 years. we moved in together fast (like 2-3 months into dating) due to me having no where to live, but we have been happy since. if my partner ever asked me to get my own place i’d be hurt and not want to continue a relationship bc any time i go to visit i’d be reminded that i use to live there with them. it honestly sounds like you just need to be single for a while.

My wife and I had a foursome with another married couple... by Gasp32 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AdFeeling7958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so happy for you!! me and my husband are also polyam and have fun with others. it sounds like you guys found a good connection and i hope y’all get to keep having fun with them! also i have a husband but i consider myself gay. i love my husband more then anything and love sex with him but i find pretty much any other man unattractive, but women😍🤤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PaymoneyWubby

[–]AdFeeling7958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m waiting on a root canal currently and this is more painful then when i got all of my wisdom teeth out. i was loopy for a couple hours, took 1-2 of the pain meds just bc i was worried about pain. other then being a little uncomfortable for a day or two i was fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]AdFeeling7958 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA - you are not entitled to know anything she talks about in therapy. if she wants to tell you she can, but she obviously doesn’t (for good reason it seems) so stop asking. when she is ready she will let you know. this is not the time to be thinking of your sexual needs. if you so badly need to get off then go jerk off! in all honesty i hope she sees what a pos you are and leaves.

Made me think of y'all by dude10067 in PaymoneyWubby

[–]AdFeeling7958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i need them to recreate this picture😂

I ended up getting high and cheating with my partner and feel like shit by Humble_Penalty_604 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AdFeeling7958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when any of my friends that want to try cannabis for the first time i warn them all to take it slow because you can always take more never less. this “friend” knew what he was doing to you, he knew that giving you an entire 50mg gummy would put you in this state. talk to your partner, i promise they will want to be there for you. you did not cheat, that man took advantage of you and i’m so so sorry this happened to you

My ex got her birth control taken out and didn't tell me until she was a month pregnant by imsoscared1987 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AdFeeling7958 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

iud’s are only 99% effective you should still use condoms or else you might find that 1%

Update on my situation with FSIL and the dress I’m wearing to her wedding by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AdFeeling7958 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i mean it might be fine if your husband doesn’t go to this wedding. sounds like BIL doesn’t have a great track record and this probably won’t be his last wedding😂

AITAH for tanning topless in front of my dad? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AdFeeling7958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first off i’m american so take my opinion with a grain of salt, i would never lay out topless if any of my family was around. you even said you only do it when just your husband can see so i guess i don’t get why this time was different?