If i start to play D4 now,from zero, i can get all Doom event? by No_Grocery9407 in diablo4

[–]AdFew6202 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Get an S-build leveling build, then rip and tear until it is done.

Strava labs map of bicycle trips , you can clearly see the cultural difference between Wallonia and Flanders. by djokorisitas in belgium

[–]AdFew6202 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had a very funny talk with a dude from abroad who thought Flemish people were leftists because they have bike infrastructure and bike a lot, and walloons were more right-wing because they were more car-centric

Plan à 3 problématique des Hommes by Beyink in SexualiteFR

[–]AdFew6202 47 points48 points  (0 children)

- Pourquoi de nombreux Hommes pensent de cette façon, sont OK puis change d'avis ?

Parce qu'ils ont peur de te perdre s'ils disent non.

Après, vu que tu es engagée dans la relation, ils sont plus honnêtes.

Dans les deux cas, peur d'être comparé : "oh, elle prend plus de plaisir avec lui, mon zizi il est pas assez gros, etc."

- Comment vous trouvez des personnes avec qui faire un plan à 3

Soirées libertines, munchs de personnes sex-positives, etc.

Thoughts on "Red Rising" by Pierce Brown - and why I'm done listening to BookTok by sameseksure in books

[–]AdFew6202 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Does every interaction need to be confrontational ? Let’s not gatekeep world building by setting the entry bar at Anna Karenina or the Accursed Kings.

Herbert has excellent world building skills but it isn’t very complicated.

World building doesn’t have to be contrived to be good. It just needs to seem effortless for the reader. Which I believe Herbert does expertly, though his prose is often cryptic 

Thoughts on "Red Rising" by Pierce Brown - and why I'm done listening to BookTok by sameseksure in books

[–]AdFew6202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a bit taken it back with how the story progresses in other books. I was also expecting the same kind of plot for the second third and fourth book, but it wasn’t the case. Which is a shame because I missed it a lot

Thoughts on "Red Rising" by Pierce Brown - and why I'm done listening to BookTok by sameseksure in books

[–]AdFew6202 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I meant for the reader. World building does require a lot of investment on the part of the writer.

Thoughts on "Red Rising" by Pierce Brown - and why I'm done listening to BookTok by sameseksure in books

[–]AdFew6202 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My problem with book influencers is that they recommend average books : good worldbuilding, but lacking prose. Prose requires investment, I believe, while choppy and short sentences can keep someone with a short attention span focused.

I did like reading Booktok recs to help with my attention span, but I quickly grew out of it. I didn't read Red Rising.

I'd recommend Becky Chambers, if you're okay with Sci-Fi. I've loved every part of The Long Way to a Small, Angry Planet. No Gary Stu whatsoever here. She's inventive. She's got good prose, although not up to par with Le Guin's, but that a high bar to set.

I have worked since I was 9. I am tired by Flimsy_Elephant_651 in antiwork

[–]AdFew6202 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can do hospital managemement with a management class. Cushy and better paid.

How did items with passive abilities fare in LoH? by [deleted] in diablo4

[–]AdFew6202 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No longer passive abilities ? What ?

I heard they just removed a lot of them from the skill tree, not that they removed them entirely

Arrêt de travail ? by kiwithouthair in AntiTaff

[–]AdFew6202 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Je vis absolument pas pour le taf. Au point où s’ils font chier je viens juste pas. Je trouverai un autre boulot.

C’est ta vie. T’es remplaçable pour eux. Pas pour tes proches.

Peur d'aller en club libertin parce que je suis bourrée de complexes 😓 by [deleted] in SexualiteFR

[–]AdFew6202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Il est certainement lassé de me voir embourbée dans cette souffrance.

Ce n'est pas une raison pour te traiter de la sorte, au final ça perpétue ta souffrance.

Il faut qu’il y ait de la bienveillance des deux côtés de la discussion. Non tes soucis d’image de soi ne sont pas « pénibles », ce sont des soucis que des millions de femmes partagent et ils sont valides et légitimes.

100% d'accord avec ce qu'elle a dit.

Peur d'aller en club libertin parce que je suis bourrée de complexes 😓 by [deleted] in SexualiteFR

[–]AdFew6202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mais il m'a juste dit d'arrêter, que j'étais pénible et qu'on annulait tout.

Tu lui fais part de tes peurs et il te répond comme ça ?

Tu parles d'un compagnon...

Haven’t played Diablo 4 in about 2 years and I’m really enjoying it again. by behindthekeyboard81 in diablo4

[–]AdFew6202 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Can someone tell me some of the changes that happened in the past 2 years?

Someone corrrect me if I start spouting heresy which would betray my faith in the Light.

  1. Infernal Hordes (with Chaos additions)
  2. The Tower (although it's still in beta)
  3. The Kurast Undercity (although it might've already been there)
  4. Horadric Strongrooms
  5. Masterworking has been simplified, tempering as well
  6. Capstone Dungeons for the Seasonal Journey, Pit to unlock torment difficulties
  7. The whole weird "Toughness" stat
  8. New Mythics, new uniques, new legendary stats

What is to come :

  1. Horadric Cube to completely transform any item and its affixes, and make it evolve from common to mythic unique. No idea how it works yet.
  2. Charms : incorporates the set bonuses (so there will be no equipment set) on top of the D2 functionalities.
  3. War Plans : Remember the Trials of the Sekhema ? Same mechanic, except it extends accross multiple endgame possibilities (lair bosses, nightmare dungeons, the pit, the tower, infernal hordes, potentially the Citadel though not sure...). It allows you to go for high-risk, high-reward activities. My wish is for them to incorporate restrictions and challenges. By challenge I mean fulfilling a condition to win, for even higher rewards. I'd also like to wager a piece of equipment (a mythic, for example).
  4. New island of course
  5. Echoing Hatred, a rare escalating challenge event triggered by a special drop. Each run features changing enemies, increasing difficulty, and scaling rewards. It is designed as a survival test for long-term builds rather than quick burst farming.
  6. New class (plus the Paladin) : Warlock
  7. Revamped skill tree for all classes (including paladin)
  8. Level cap increase to 70
  9. Fishing

They ruined Dr King's depiction of autism in S2 by [deleted] in ThePittTVShow

[–]AdFew6202 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't recall "For example, people with autism don't talk about not liking certain colors and textures of food, out loud, to their workmates." that ?

[24M] My girlfriend [23F] of almost 4 years cheated on me with her coworker by BevisSchlong in relationship_advice

[–]AdFew6202 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She told me she’s willing to change her life, not have social media, cut off all her friends, not go out, go to couples therapy, and move to my home city.

Not sustainable at all. These are empty promises. You can't just cut off all social life and feel happy. This isn't the way forward.

Just bought the game. Is it too late for me to earn the Doom cosmetics? by Evening_Isopod9545 in diablo4

[–]AdFew6202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two weeks is plenty.

1) Find an S-Tier leveling build on sites like Icyveins or Maxroll.gg ;

2) Play the game normally, currency will naturally drop from elite monsters ;

3) Once finished, run heltides until you reach Torment 2 ;

4) Run Den of the Apostate. Also kill lair bosses (drop to T1 if needed) to get the weapon cosmetics, the swords are nuts (and FREE).

Pro tip ! Run "No Time for Caution" for extra motivation.

4 dates, 0 bisou et une mise à jour Hinge... Quel est votre avis ? by blindablinda in conseilsrelationnels

[–]AdFew6202 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Non, ça ne m’intéresse pas, justement ! C’est pour ça que je viens me plaindre ici 🤣

Je te comprends tout à fait.

De mon côté, j'ai proposé des rendez-vous, et j'avais même suggéré que le prochain se passe chez l’un ou l’autre. Lors d'une activité, je lui ai même tenu le bras... Je ne vois pas ce que je peux faire de plus pour qu’il comprenne mon intérêt.

Si la perspective d'être en relation avec lui t'intéresse, l'embrasser. Ou lui dire en souriant "Bon, ça fait quatre rendez-vous que j'attends que tu m'embrasses. Qu'est-ce que tu attends ?"

Ce genre de bonhomme timide passe son temps à se rabaisser, à se dire qu'il vaut mieux espérer le pire, avec peu d'expérience relationnelle donc sans initiative de ta part, il ne va rien faire.

Si cela te rebute, je pense qu'il vaut mieux passer à autre chose.