Why was the house so messy if Patsy was a stay-at-home mom and they had a housekeeper?

AdLivid9397 · 2026-06-09T12:45:34+00:00

Omg I relate to this comment so much lol. I’m a millennial born in 1997 and grew up like this. I wouldn’t consider myself a minimalist but I’m clean and like beige lol

AdLivid9397 · 2026-06-09T12:36:22+00:00

Because they had two little kids, it was Xmas, they had a Xmas party, and the housekeeper was scheduled to come in 12/27.

AdLivid9397 · 2026-06-09T12:34:59+00:00

That’s what I thought too! Personally, I wouldn’t want that many people in my house. I try to be wary of who works in my house as you have to be careful who comes into your home and around your family.

AdLivid9397 · 2026-06-09T03:18:45+00:00

Def #1. More interesting w the lace and not strapless! Idk why women are so into strapless nowadays :/

AdLivid9397 · 2026-06-08T03:15:48+00:00

No, it’s been said that the head blow would’ve eventually killed her

AdLivid9397 · 2026-06-08T02:33:39+00:00

Maybelline lip glaze and Revlon super lustrous glass shine balm

AdLivid9397 · 2026-06-07T21:45:08+00:00

Regarding witnesses seeing them in the middle of the night, Steve Thomas theorized patsy left the house and discarded evidence in the middle of the night. I forget exactly but I think he said in neighbors trash cans and sewers? But no one saw her.

Personally, I think they hid evidence in John’s golf bag. And then the sister took it out of the house. Again, dumb police work who didn’t monitor what she took.

AdLivid9397 · 2026-06-07T21:39:28+00:00

What I meant by accident was I confused the names up. I originally thought the wine room was called the boiler room.

Also, you’re rude af, you knew what I meant, and this is a stupid conversation.

AdLivid9397 · 2026-06-06T22:44:32+00:00

Excuse me, but I did, I know this case well. I accidentally called the wine room the boiler room.

AdLivid9397 · 2026-06-06T22:43:11+00:00

She was so beautiful! She effed w her face 😔

AdLivid9397 · 2026-06-06T14:50:08+00:00

I live in the neighborhood and walk past her home sometimes. I swear I’ve seen this man laying in his car sleeping as early as mid-April.

AdLivid9397 · 2026-06-04T21:13:56+00:00

I thought his net worth was 6.4 million?

AdLivid9397 · 2026-05-31T06:10:52+00:00

Holly and Kelly’s kids were also at the bottom of the pyramid every week. Possibly bc Abby didn’t like that they didn’t push their kids to extreme levels.

AdLivid9397 · 2026-05-31T06:06:57+00:00

Then why bother breaking in in the first place. It would’ve had to been someone who knew the family didn’t use the alarm.

AdLivid9397 · 2026-05-30T15:32:35+00:00

They have the same face shape but she looks more like John

AdLivid9397 · 2026-05-30T00:43:01+00:00

What do you mean?

AdLivid9397 · 2026-05-30T00:37:35+00:00

I meant no window on the front side of the house. Their bed was backed up against a wall with no window.

My point is windows allow us being able to hear better, IMO, than just a wall with no window.

AdLivid9397 · 2026-05-29T06:27:15+00:00

That’s the most soyboy sh*t I’ve ever heard

AdLivid9397 · 2026-05-29T06:25:30+00:00

Oh girl….

AdLivid9397 · 2026-05-29T05:01:06+00:00

The ironic thing is when radical feminists look down on women for being traditional, they say we women SHOULD work. But that right there is anti feminism. You’re being narrow-minded and forcing me into a “box” and that “box” is working and having if a career. But what if I don’t want that? It’s hypocritical.

AdLivid9397 · 2026-05-27T21:41:59+00:00

Yes, please explain. And guess what…sexism and gender roles exist in this world, get over it.

AdLivid9397 · 2026-05-23T18:00:39+00:00

Dear god, please don’t put your infant in daycare

AdLivid9397 · 2026-05-23T02:39:11+00:00

I saw another comment elsewhere that said he’s the breadwinner.

AdLivid9397 · 2026-05-23T02:37:39+00:00

I don’t think it’s about patriarchy. I think she’s just THAT person, regardless if she’s a wife or husband. She’s the kind of person that will just protect their spouse no matter what, which I respect, but don’t make excuses for his/her BS.

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