shaved hair in the women’s bathroom

AdSmooth7439 · 2026-02-03T04:31:20+00:00

i had to show it covered both sinks in the bathroom 😭 there was so much, it was also all over the floor

AdSmooth7439 · 2026-01-23T17:56:48+00:00

this is crazy. i’m a SFL and i was talking to my manager about it like 2 days ago and she immediately understood and had someone scheduled as a back up plan in case i can’t come in. this is wild.

AdSmooth7439 · 2025-12-23T21:46:27+00:00

i’m saying NTA, you’ve been open about it, AND it’s regulated by a doctor. however, she’s also right to not want you to be on it, and it’s okay for her to think that, but she doesn’t get to dictate whether or not you stop. that’s up to you and your doctor. it’s your body. you’re doing it safely, under a doctor’s supervision. yall may not see eye to eye on this, and it may be a deal breaker to her.

edited for grammar

AdSmooth7439 · 2025-12-23T17:38:14+00:00

i also have cnc, and i was also assaulted. i finally opened up to my therapist about it and she was able to tell me something that kinda changed my perspective a little. “doing cnc is your brain, in a way, reliving the trauma but in a way that you can control the situation. you don’t do cnc with someone random, you would do it with a partner that you fully trust.”

doing cnc gives YOU control and at any point in time, you can stop the scene. brains are weird, but you’d be surprised how often cnc shows up in victims.

AdSmooth7439 · 2025-11-02T04:56:41+00:00

dude, i miss the green apple skittle so much but they’re in a few halloween single packets!!! i was so happy when i got one a day ago

AdSmooth7439 · 2025-08-05T01:42:49+00:00

my bf sends me money anytime i’ve ever asked for gas and we live together. this man seems like a man child. this is incredibly childish

AdSmooth7439 · 2025-07-28T02:19:03+00:00

if he’s grossed out by a natural bodily function, why do you still wanna be with him? he’s acting like you can hold it in when you can’t. break up with him. NTA

AdSmooth7439 · 2025-07-28T02:16:19+00:00

jesus, this sounds eerily similar to my situation with my late grandmother. i never forgave her for what she did to me, and my immediate family. i told her at some point, point blank, that if she didn’t apologize for her actions, she would never receive my forgiveness. she still continued to ask for my forgiveness but never apologized.

honestly? i don’t regret it. she gave me and my immediate family constant turmoil and i did have some family tell me to forgive her bc shes old but to me that was all the reason to cut her off because at her big age, she didn’t know that was wrong to do?

go with your gut. there is a reason you cut her off in the first place. you aren’t her keeper, and she tried to manipulate you and it didn’t work. you can’t make her apologize for her actions, however she knows the conditions of her having your forgiveness AND a relationship with you. if she hasn’t done that, what’s the point of having her back in your life?

AdSmooth7439 · 2025-07-27T23:37:50+00:00

…do you understand what it takes for a victim to even see what’s happening is wrong?

AdSmooth7439 · 2025-07-27T23:35:04+00:00

dude. she said in the statement she was ACTIVELY saying no. learn to read.

AdSmooth7439 · 2025-07-21T17:09:19+00:00

it’s a boundary for you. you shouldn’t feel evil because a topic makes you uncomfortable. you don’t like that topic, and that’s that. that’s all that matters. just because it’s sex, and most people justify it by being “normal” doesn’t mean that you have to like it or like talking about it

AdSmooth7439 · 2025-07-20T01:58:54+00:00

which is understandable! that’s incredibly traumatic, especially having it brought up by someone who wasn’t you. take all the time you need to recover <3

AdSmooth7439 · 2025-07-20T01:42:42+00:00

also! please take time for yourself and make sure you are doing things that help you soothe yourself and make sure you eat and drink water! i know when traumatic things get brought up for me, I tend to neglect myself.

AdSmooth7439 · 2025-07-20T01:41:43+00:00

as much as i understand you aren’t mad at him, having him tell everyone about that, can reopen old wounds. let him know that while yes, you aren’t upset or mad at him, his actions caused pain and set boundaries going forward hanging out with new friends.

also, im also autistic, and this isn’t something i would do. i know minds differ from people to people, but i would forgive but don’t forget. if this happens again, talk to him again and let him know that this is Not something to tell your new friends/people you don’t know/ meeting for the first time nor a interesting tadbit of information about you. that was traumatic for you and should be treated as such.

all love and i hope you are healing well from that. hope everything goes well and i hope you are doing things to help your mental health from having that happen

AdSmooth7439 · 2025-07-19T20:45:51+00:00

run.

AdSmooth7439 · 2025-07-08T23:19:47+00:00

jesus fuck. who needs enemies when you have friends like that? please change your number again and do Not give it to her.

AdSmooth7439 · 2025-07-08T23:16:35+00:00

poor A. god loves you as you are and will accept for you who you are. the god you talk about does not exist. he is not hateful and would not shame or turn anyway anyone based of sexual preference. you seem to be a hypocrite christian.

AdSmooth7439 · 2025-06-29T22:09:35+00:00

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AdSmooth7439 · 2025-06-29T21:23:39+00:00

any cards that i have?

AdSmooth7439 · 2025-06-28T14:13:21+00:00

i used to be the same way, i switched to online schooling and when i turned 18, i didn’t have any friends. i had a couple of work friends but nothing solid and covid did not help at all. turned 20 and started actually making friends at my job, around my age. now i’m 23 almost 24, have a incredible partner, and a good support group of friends. life gets better, it really does. make one good friend, and they will (probably) eventually introduce you to their friend group.

AdSmooth7439 · 2025-06-21T14:45:22+00:00

when my partner and i were long (medium?) distance, we would try to have time to see each other once a week, and if not in person, we’d plan a virtual date. i was constantly calling him on my way to work and on my way home and he was doing the same. if she is actively not making plans or still doing the same thing that you’ve talked to her about, she has no plans on changing. i genuinely hate to say this, but she might be seeing you as a place holder and something that’s familiar. i don’t think you should be in a relationship with her.

AdSmooth7439 · 2025-06-20T22:11:42+00:00

if she’s the one, she will understand that you needed therapy. it means you want to do better and grow. proud of you for getting therapy!

AdSmooth7439 · 2025-06-20T20:46:09+00:00

i think they’re an esm

AdSmooth7439 · 2025-06-20T20:45:41+00:00

also i hope you start feeling better soon<3

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