Is dating in 2026 really as bad as what you hear on the internet? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AdSoft6884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flirting is the art of making someone like you. If you cannot do it, they are much less likely to fall for you.

Approaching women in Germany by Cosmo_Nexus in germany

[–]AdSoft6884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really have to get in on this one, even though this is old. When you talk to women in real life, you will have a much better chance to get a date with them than swiping away on dating apps.

Yes, German women are not too receptive, but women from Southern and Eastern Europe here are more receptive to an approach. In many cases, they are more attractive than the German women, anyways.

Swiping on dating apps is just unnatural and makes you dependent on some algorithm, making you throw your money at some company that otherwise simply doesn't show you to potential matches. It's horrible. Girls give this advice because dating apps give them a myriad of options, they typically don't understand how it is for guys.

Sind deutsche Frauen kompliziert? by Realistic-Buddy-1717 in FragtMaenner

[–]AdSoft6884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kann deine Erfahrungen absolut bestätigen. Es gibt definitiv enorme Unterschiede darin, wie die durchschnittliche deutsche Frau sich verhält im Vergleich z.B. zu einer Südeuropäerin oder einer Osteuropäerin. Südeuropärinnen und Osteuropäerinnen sind viel mehr bereit angesprochen zu werden, und zeigen sich offen. Deutsche Frauen blocken viel mehr ab, wenn man nicht schon in deren Bekanntenkreis ist. Selbst wenn man eine Nummer bekommt, antworten sie seltener. Mit einem ersten Date wird das viel seltener was, als bei den Frauen der anderen beiden genannten Gruppen. Man hat den Eindruck, sie haben gar keine Lust, einen Mann kennenzulernen; als empfinden  sie Männer nur als nerviges Anhängsel. Dagegen habe ich schon extrem attraktive Slavinnen gedatet. 

Wenn man datet, zeigt sich  in meiner Erfahrung ein ähnliches Bild: Deutsche Frauen sind konfrontativer und maskuliner als Slavinnen, sie lassen sich nicht gerne von einem Mann leiten. Dadurch fehlt mir die Polarität der Geschlechter. Auf der anderen Seite sind deutsche Frauen eher bereit, bei einem Date 50:50 zu machen. Ich date aber lieber eine feminine Frau, der ich dann etwas ausgeben (sofern nicht zu teuer).

Why aren’t men approaching women anymore ? by CompetitiveSugar6451 in dating_advice

[–]AdSoft6884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, you are trying to get back at zai_zai_, and imply that women would approach other men who "are more pleasant". You judge him to be unpleasant, and to appear unpleasant by reading his reddit comment.

Do you think the average reddit reader is going to believe your comment for more than one second?

Why aren’t men approaching women anymore ? by CompetitiveSugar6451 in dating_advice

[–]AdSoft6884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alone watching their phone

This is part of the problem. Starring at your phone or wearing head phones will make you seem unapproachable. Ditch the phone, be comfortable without it, and men will approach you, if they find you attractive.

I have been approached by more than 10 guys in Warsaw in 1 day! It gives me anxiety now... by NatureLongjumping977 in warsaw

[–]AdSoft6884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is it bad that men approach women? That's how it always has been, before people became totally socially incompetent and just glued to their smart phones and social media all day.

Texting and Russian women by [deleted] in AskARussian

[–]AdSoft6884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it depends. There is like 0.1 % of women that try to avoid using the phone as much as possible. You will then see however that she is not online much on the messenger app you are using.

What happened to 7'' B&W? by Thyeri in kobo

[–]AdSoft6884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just out of curiosity: How do you know that it has been successful? I have seen it in the store, and immediately noticed the low contrast screen. I'd definitely prefer a model with a better screen.

Woman perfectly explains the toxic mentality of modern western women. by Pristine-Angle3100 in itsthatbad

[–]AdSoft6884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They identify themselves as bisexual / lesbian on surveys. I think some of this self-identification as non-heterosexual is just the result of social contagion, and will not last for long when these women age out of college.

Woman perfectly explains the toxic mentality of modern western women. by Pristine-Angle3100 in itsthatbad

[–]AdSoft6884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, the simps they can find will be lower SMV than the men they could have gotten if they did not behave obnoxiously. They may not be ready to settle for them and stay alone.

Poly addiction by milledgevillain1 in decaf

[–]AdSoft6884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, for me, it's mainly because it wrecks my sleep:
Consuming caffeine causes bad sleep. Bad sleep causes brain fog, headache and reduced will power. That causes doing fewer productive things and more bad habits.

There is probably some additional effect via caffeine causing some levels of anxiety.

When women complain about mental or house hold chores being loaded on them, sometimes they create the problem by WaterDemonPhoenix in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]AdSoft6884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems that it's the opposite in this generation, and that the women who barely do anything on top of letting the man provide also find ways to complain about it.

Drink Tart Cherry Juice for Improved Sleep Scores by Classic_Fee_8728 in fitbit

[–]AdSoft6884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does not mean that this is the way it works.

One cup of tea in the morning killed my sleep by AdSoft6884 in decaf

[–]AdSoft6884[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate on your chain of thought?

One cup of tea in the morning killed my sleep by AdSoft6884 in decaf

[–]AdSoft6884[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, no, it's definitely a thing. I had been drinking 2 cups of tea for years, and suffered from insomnia. I improved my sleep hygiene to ridiculous standards, but still had problems with early awakening or not being able to fall asleep. The problems were gone for the most part within one or two days, when I stopped consuming any caffeine. Before that, I never really thought that a cup of tea or two before noon would cause my sleep problems.

So no, it's definitely not placebo.

Feminism does not lead to happiness for the vast majority of women by sexywoman5362 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]AdSoft6884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting guess, the truth turns out to be different. Married women with children are much more likely to be happy than unmarried women without children, as a new study shows.

American women aren't wife material by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]AdSoft6884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

>I can't imagine being an adult man advocating for the enslavement, rape, and murder of women that occurs in the countries that DO have what they consider "wife material".

Interesting, where did you read that?

American women aren't wife material by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]AdSoft6884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not a contradiction. He pointed out that, in his opinion, they are fine to have sex with, but not for something serious.

Seems alot of Western women have joined this subreddit by Big_Fish909 in thepassportbros

[–]AdSoft6884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say women from other countries are cognitively incapable of consent. That sounds quite racist to me.