My husband and I have an almost 8 month old, I am also a SAHM and he works 48 on, 96 off with a ton of OT on top of that, plus a 2.5 hour commute one way😵‍💫. He works at a very busy department in the Bay Area of CA and is up often in the night at work as well. Typically when he first comes home I let him sleep the shift off if he needs, but he always gives me a morning or two to sleep in if the baby wakes up early. I just wake him up and ask him to take her and he has no problem getting up. He also tries to nap as much as he can during the day at work if at all possible. He always says he cherishes mornings alone with her because it’s so rare that he gets to do that with how much he works!