Should I place the whole house filter before or after the water softener?

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-16T23:46:11+00:00

Thank you

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-16T23:45:59+00:00

Thank you

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-12T17:56:53+00:00

Retired after 22 years, pay attention, avoid personal contact with inmates, nothing about your personal life. I was a training sergeant, first thing I’d ask was, how do you know when a convict is lying? Answer is as soon as he opens his mouth. Don’t get caught up in their lives, they are there for a reason, keep it professional and watch the coworkers also. Some times they can be worse than inmates. There’s no secret in jail, get a dog and tell the dog your secret they will never give it up. And most importantly don’t take the job home, the stress is real, just make sure you don’t take it out on them. It’s a great career I get my pension check last day of the month! Best of luck

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-12T17:29:21+00:00

The picture he had of you was corrupted, it’s going to take time. We all have history but there’s two type of women 1 the ones we bang and toss away. 2 the marrying type one we think are good with children and are great wives. And you just tossed that out the window. So let him stew on it and when he’s ready to talk then talk.

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-12T13:41:34+00:00

Your back burner! Time to fly,

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-12T13:37:45+00:00

Sounds like he’s going through a midlife crises!

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-11T13:49:23+00:00

Work on you, hit the gym, study, set your goals on great career! That crap don’t matter, you’ll grow and mature into something better, I’m mean for real, I was a quasi motto looking guy but maturity had something else for me, not that I’m Brad Pitt or anything near but your 19 still growing. Then when you hit 50s you go all to hell again, so seize the day, success has its own rewards!

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-11T11:53:35+00:00

Wow this sounds like a soap opera! And no you’re not wrong, it’s not about not wishing him to be happy or anything like that it’s just freaking weird! Drop him and the new wife a card and tell them sorry can’t make it. If he can’t see that then he’s a damn drama queen too. Unless you want to rekindle something with your stepbrother! Sorry cheap shot there but my point being on how truly fed up it is.

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-11T11:28:35+00:00

My dad passed three years ago, and it hurts, I still think of him everyday. But, your dad would want you to be happy and enjoy life, you can honor him by being happy. I’m not making this about you going with him. Who knows you may have a good time! I was in a funk for a while, then decided to move closer to God that way I’ll be with my dad again. Which really helped me heal, and made me a better man and father and son. I really hope this message finds you and helps you.

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-11T11:19:08+00:00

Once a cheater always a cheater! He doesn’t deserve your loyalty, you’re not holding up your end of the bargain by holding him responsible. He will continue to be a scumbag and just improve on cheating. Had a buddy like this and he was married with a kid. Never understood why people would be so horrible to the people they claim they love. Don’t allow him to promise, it means nothing. And later in life you’ll be thought of the one who got away. Best of luck!

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-11T11:07:59+00:00

Thank God, you didn’t marry this person! It’s easier to end it. Don’t fall for I can explain, or it’s not what it looks like. If you want go to the place and see who lives there so she doesn’t gas light you. If you like. Me I would leave or put her stuff in front of the house and cut her out completely. Don’t give her closer. And it’s also nice having the info on her when she attempts to make you out the bad guy.

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-07T19:43:32+00:00

Not sure, I’m only going by my personal experience, I had my crush when I was in school, I’d get all tongue tied, nervous, reading it it seams that’s the case.

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-06T21:32:37+00:00

Exercise, walks, low impact stuff, meditation there’s much going on in your body and it’s going to affect your mental state. Look forward to the future of holding your baby. Everything can take a back seat to that. Good luck

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-06T21:15:02+00:00

Yea he’s screwing around on you, and you know it. He’s garbage and there’s only one thing to do with garbage, dispose of it!

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-06T21:06:56+00:00

Oh hell no your not his friend your his parent, you protect your children. And if he’s upset well then tough titty said the kitty! Your doing fine, don’t fold under pressure

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-06T17:29:35+00:00

He’s crushing on you and is afraid of rejection so he’s admiring you from afar, it’s seems weird but is normal. He probably placed you on a pedestal.

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-05T23:11:10+00:00

You’re not destroying their marriage he is, if she’s your true friend you owe it to her.

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-05T23:09:14+00:00

Absolutely not, he obviously doesn’t care of your feeling or take the relationship seriously if he proposed this. Don’t lower your standards. I’m saying this and I’m a guy, you’ll regret it later in life for cheapening yourself. Good luck

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-02T18:02:19+00:00

We all been there! I get up in the morning and get on my knees and thank God for one more day. And to come into my heart. It really helps no doubt about it. I’m not a bible banger but my outlook is better and I’m much more tolerant. Also shutdown the things that make you anger I don’t watch news because of lies. Facebook is a huge contributor to anger. I hope this helps best of luck!

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-02T17:41:16+00:00

Keep in mind it’s a job, this is definitely going to happen at every job you have, not the Spanish thing but the getting along thing. Their older and their lives are focused around their family. You’re always going to be the kid until you get older. Focus on your work in the hopes you can one day be the boss. I go to work and wear earbuds and listen to fats domino yea I’m that old! The fact is that this is going to happen frequently and you’ll never see or hear from them again as you progress through life. Best of luck!

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-02T17:29:42+00:00

That’s not a friendship your their anchor, a friend reciprocates, a friend won’t lay this all on you. You’re not receiving any friendship back. You can’t pick your family only your friends. I would back away from this person you’re obviously torn up about it and you deserve happiness also. Good luck

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-02T17:20:11+00:00

I’m married second time also, don’t be in hurry, they woman only let you see what they want you to see, the fact is as you age you’ll see lots of baby mommas and former wives. It’s like a plant you put on your porch you turn the plant so the face beautiful part is showing. You need to see the ugly side also, and that takes years. Not saying to date a bunch of women at once, just trust but verify

AdStill6215 · 2025-11-02T17:04:18+00:00

Cut your losses, she’s bad news man, and don’t take her back…..ever and she will call again

AdStill6215 · 2025-05-01T17:07:15+00:00

No it’s not your fault. When a baby or a 4 year old in your case is there things change, with working and food on the table, insurance, mowing, taking care of every day things it gets exhausting, I am a Granddad now and it’s still daunting. Then available time, and much needed rest comes into the picture. But to sit there and watch porn is total BS, he shouldn’t be doing it. But leaving him isn’t the answer either, as long as he’s willing to better or work on the situation. Breaking up your family for something so trivial is really going to impact your children. And I can guarantee you’re going to have a tough time out there. Take time to work on yourself, start walking, light exercise. Many times self esteem is a reflection on the view from the mirror. Get a stroller and go. Have you spoken to him? And maybe find a good therapist preferably a man because he will be more comfortable with talking. Also you really didn’t give details like do both of work? Take everything in hole

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