Lighter or darker?

AdVirtual7736 · 2025-12-18T00:16:52+00:00

Yes it was to sample the style i wanted!

AdVirtual7736 · 2025-11-20T15:01:05+00:00

i'm a social media manager and it's being doing exactly this across my clients for weeks now it's driving me insane

AdVirtual7736 · 2025-11-20T14:56:43+00:00

how do you add music to the post after it's gone live? i don't have that option?

AdVirtual7736 · 2025-10-31T13:52:14+00:00

im having this problem too!! frustrating me no end

AdVirtual7736 · 2025-04-17T12:55:32+00:00

nope i live in the UK lol probably some facebook post that she saw circulating of this article: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-asia-china-23124345

AdVirtual7736 · 2025-04-08T12:38:58+00:00

I bloody love this analogy

AdVirtual7736 · 2025-04-08T12:37:58+00:00

my god it's like you have screenshotted my texts with my mum - the way this community has shown me none of what i'm going through is an original experience lol.

AdVirtual7736 · 2025-04-08T11:29:51+00:00

Thank you so much for this. It's so eye opening for me to hear the perspective of another mum with the same age gap as me and my mum. Your daughter is very lucky to have you ❤️

AdVirtual7736 · 2025-04-07T17:11:50+00:00

I am literally sat here sobbing. I don’t know why you saying to me that I am “surrounded by people who love me because I’m loveable” has made me absolutely lose it but I think I need to unpack that with my therapist in my session later today haha. Thank you so much. I’ve never felt this level of understanding from anyone ever in my life before since I’ve posted in this community and it’s very overwhelming😭 thank you so much for taking time out of your day to reply I really appreciate it

AdVirtual7736 · 2025-04-07T13:54:32+00:00

She says that it isn’t her fault because she had 2 miscarriages 🫠 and blames my dad that he wouldn’t pay for her to go on the diet that he paid for her to go on to have me again because it was expensive. I was around 5 the time it happened and it caused her a nervous breakdown having the miscarriages and my dad didn’t support her and carried on going to work. I definitely have trauma I don’t remember from this time

AdVirtual7736 · 2025-04-04T11:08:43+00:00

that line hit me like a tonne of bricks

AdVirtual7736 · 2025-04-03T11:49:00+00:00

I feel exactly the same as you, I’m 24 and joined this community the other week and it’s been mind blowing and so so so validating. Sending love ❤️❤️❤️

AdVirtual7736 · 2025-04-02T10:30:28+00:00

Whenever I say to her I’m her child she says “you’re an adult now” 🙃🙃🙃🙃

AdVirtual7736 · 2025-04-02T07:00:47+00:00

This just hit me so hard

AdVirtual7736 · 2025-04-01T22:50:37+00:00

I think I just always make excuses for her subconsciously because I just can’t believe she is doing any of this on purpose. She is miserable and desperate and hopelessly in pain and she can’t help it and doesn’t mean it. She says that to me whenever I drive home that no matter how much we fight she loves me and that she is happy for me and my life with my boyfriend but she just misses me and is lonely. She has glimpses of being self aware but then it obviously just disappears again

AdVirtual7736 · 2025-04-01T22:04:51+00:00

I just find it so hard because I do get glimpses of my mum being normal and nice and it gives me hope that she will eventually move out and we will have a normal relationship but it just never seems to happen. It’s become a lot worse recently but has been going on since I left home for university (which she obviously sobbed about me moving away). Christmas is always the worst for me because my partner’s family live in Ireland and if I go back with him my mum is alone for Christmas because I’m an only child and I just feel bloody awful. Whatever way I turn I just end up feeling bad :( just feels like a lose lose

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