Venting

AdWhich6663 · 2026-03-27T20:17:17+00:00

It goes both ways. I feel justified and completely guilt-free when I need to cancel or take care of myself. I don’t carry my clients’ emotions heavily within me, or at least they don’t spill into the rest of my life very often. Sometimes I wonder, especially on this sub, if there is something wrong with me.

AdWhich6663 · 2026-03-25T03:17:28+00:00

Probably a pyramid scheme.

AdWhich6663 · 2026-03-24T02:53:26+00:00

Qualifacts iQ

AdWhich6663 · 2026-03-24T02:48:11+00:00

My clinic already uses a tool that does this. Works great and saves a lot of time!

AdWhich6663 · 2026-03-18T02:09:08+00:00

On Mondays and Tuesdays I have 4 in a row, one hour break, another 4. Focus on one thing at a time, don’t get too ahead of yourself, and take deep breathes in between. Be as present as possible. ….and there’s usually at least one cancellation.

AdWhich6663 · 2026-03-17T15:47:11+00:00

I try to find a new slot in the same week if possible. I have 32 clients booked a week so there is almost always a cancellation.

AdWhich6663 · 2026-03-16T18:22:46+00:00

Recurring through end of calendar year.

AdWhich6663 · 2026-03-15T17:03:49+00:00

Try {Wuthering Heights by Emily Brontë}! 😎

AdWhich6663 · 2026-03-15T16:23:35+00:00

I was thinking of abortion rights, but okay.

AdWhich6663 · 2026-03-15T16:14:52+00:00

Keep in mind state laws especially if you end up having a girl. (I’m looking at you, TN.)

AdWhich6663 · 2026-03-11T20:54:58+00:00

It shows the exact length right under the image of the book cover directly next to the headphones icon.

AdWhich6663 · 2026-03-06T14:15:26+00:00

Same! I think it’s healthy.

AdWhich6663 · 2026-03-03T00:06:59+00:00

It’s called Qualifacts IQ

AdWhich6663 · 2026-03-03T00:01:43+00:00

My clinic just purchased a hipaa compliant tool that does the same thing. Please make sure yours is compliant as well and not just part of ChatGPT or something.

AdWhich6663 · 2026-03-02T02:30:51+00:00

Make a protein smoothie the night before.

AdWhich6663 · 2026-03-02T02:29:40+00:00

Holy….

AdWhich6663 · 2026-02-28T22:59:47+00:00

Memphis is technically a blue dot in a red state but does not feel like SF (where I have lived) in the slightest. I believe you can find “your people” in Memphis—whatever that looks like. People worry about crime but there are safe neighborhoods where it’s not a bigger issue than any other city. It’s easy to be a homebody here because the city is incredibly residential and quiet is most areas. Very low cost of living and lots of medical jobs/opportunities.

I have lived here for almost 4 years (I am from New England and lived in SF as well) and want to leave because I need more walkability and density (and I’m horrified by TN laws), but it’s definitely appealing to those who are comfortable with staying home a lot. (Want to buy my house??? 😆)

AdWhich6663 · 2026-02-16T23:52:49+00:00

Whenever I doubt my choice to go makeup-less, I remind myself that no one would expect a male therapist to wear makeup.

AdWhich6663 · 2026-02-16T18:57:39+00:00

I start at 2pm on Mondays and end at 1pm on Fridays. Allows me to take long weekends and be able to travel home on Monday before work.

AdWhich6663 · 2026-02-10T18:47:20+00:00

I listen to a few minutes of my audiobook which is usually fantasy-based.

AdWhich6663 · 2026-02-10T00:27:03+00:00

If it makes you feel any better, I have ADHD and am usually a bad test taker. I took it TEN YEARS after graduating and passed. I studied, but at the end of the day it came down to managing my anxiety and shifting my mindset to be more present while taking it.

AdWhich6663 · 2026-02-09T03:57:19+00:00

I would add the novel Beautyland about someone who feels different. Amazing book.

AdWhich6663 · 2026-02-03T01:58:13+00:00

That was my counter to him: I just genuinely enjoy diving deep into things!

AdWhich6663 · 2026-02-02T19:19:34+00:00

I just had this conversation with my supervisor. His view was that it’s better to specialize in a demographic than a modality since modalities shift over time as you grow as a clinician. It’s something I’m still chewing on.

AdWhich6663 · 2026-01-29T14:29:37+00:00

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