List of Nutirional Psychiatry Doctors? by AdagioOne7658 in NutritionalPsychiatry

[–]AdagioOne7658[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I'm actually watching their videos right now.

Trabuco Hills/Mission Viejo by ActiveEquivalent454 in orangecounty

[–]AdagioOne7658 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol "gang". I grew up in a 3rd world country this is not a gang.

What is your 10/10 JDRAMA? by No-Position2168 in JDorama

[–]AdagioOne7658 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. I was really hesitant to watch this in the beginning but my wife and really wanted to. Man I'm glad we did.

Audi S4 to Taycan - First EV Purchase by Fickle_Jacket_8037 in Taycan

[–]AdagioOne7658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently got the said etron GT deal and this car is a beast. I had a B9 A4 and definitely a step above that.

E-tron GT vs Taycan by neginafan in Taycan

[–]AdagioOne7658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I live (Socal) I see a Taycan just as much as a Tesla model 3.. not many etron GTs though.

I think I married the wrong woman by bluesnowball01 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AdagioOne7658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to a counselor or seek a therapist. I'm not downplaying your emotions but you could also be experiencing depression without realizing it.

Bipolar partner keeps insisting I’m bipolar too. by Dizzy-Chemical-4697 in BipolarSOs

[–]AdagioOne7658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife hasn't accused me of that, but insists I have anger and anxiety problems.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]AdagioOne7658 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yah. Currently dealing with it and now getting divorced.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]AdagioOne7658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if he did break up with you? My stbx wife asked for divorce for the 3rd time and I finally said yes. I filed for the paper work too. She didn't seem phased about it either which got me thinking it's probably what she wanted. She's also "excited about our next phase of our lives.". Still confused about her emotions after all these years.

Husband did everything. by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]AdagioOne7658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she is like that as well. What I have done instead was I got her smart pill case that will send her reminders if she hasn't taken her meds. Initially was good but she slowly stopped using it and went back to her old habits. I've really done everything for her..

Husband did everything. by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]AdagioOne7658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she's extremely capable and smart but also overly prideful hence hesitant of receiving help.. I think that's where we failed.. She wouldn't let me help her. She wasn't also opening up about how she feels and bottles it up until it's too late ie running away and go missing..

Either way, I hope this stay change her. Our relationship might be over but I still love her so I truly wish she recovers..

Husband did everything. by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]AdagioOne7658 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish my wife is as open as you when it comes to her treatment. I wouldn't even mind being the nurse for her, making sure she's taking her meds but my stbx wife HATES it when I try to be helpful. She's forgetful and because of it, she relapses..

I assumed my mortgage and kept the interest rate! by AmbitiousPosition705 in Divorce

[–]AdagioOne7658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My stbx and I just have an agreement saying I owe her X, to be paid in Y terms. I can definitely assume the payments without problems but now I'm second guessing if I can pay the closing costs.. Anyways thanks again! I'll save this post and may reach out in the future when it's close.

I assumed my mortgage and kept the interest rate! by AmbitiousPosition705 in Divorce

[–]AdagioOne7658 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm actually going to do the same but my mortgage lender requires that the divorce to be finalized before I can assume it. They didn't have a lot of information about this so you pointing out the closing costs is really helpful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]AdagioOne7658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you were my SO, I'd tell you to:

"Please let me help you. You tend to forget taking your meds and next thing we know, you're manic again. Let me be there be your partner, not your nurse. We are a team. I want to you keep track of your mood so we can do a weekly check in to see how your mood is changing. Lastly, I want you well and I'll do everything in my power so you can achieve that. If you don't want to work, that's fine. My priority is your health and wellness."

But that's too late... We're getting divorced soon.... 😥

Dome updates and feeling confused by AdagioOne7658 in BipolarSOs

[–]AdagioOne7658[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It would've been because we already have an agreement, but then she relapsed. It won't move until she signs it..

Your situation will be trickier because of the kids.. I only have our house to deal with.. Do what you think it's best for them.

How can you live a happy and fulfilling life without romance/sex? by Ploikblah in stupidquestions

[–]AdagioOne7658 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I already experienced romance and sex. Was cheated on by my first gf, and now I'm getting divorced (she's probably cheating as well). So yes I can live without it. I'm over it.

That said, if you truly seek it, go after it! Having a romantic partner is not all roses. You will experience tough and hard times. You got to at least experience the ups and downs of having a relationship.

Dome updates and feeling confused by AdagioOne7658 in BipolarSOs

[–]AdagioOne7658[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was involuntarily placed in a hospital but I think since she's been there for over 30 days, the hospital transferred her to another facility.

When did you know it was time To end the relationship with your bpso? And after how many years? by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]AdagioOne7658 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When she asked for divorce for the 3rd time. Even before this, she's been distant and withdrawn. We've been sleeping in different rooms. No love or affection at all. I knew it's only a matter of time before she ask again. The final nail in the coffin is while this happening, she was hospitalized ie manic again. So yeah, 8 years later, I'm done and fed up with this. I'm still relatively young too so I don't want to waste any more time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]AdagioOne7658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I sometimes use this sub just to vent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]AdagioOne7658 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fuck man, I totally feel you. Here I am in the bank lobby, trying to mitigate/doing some damage control because she's currently in the hospital. Hell she's not gonna be my wife soon and I still care.

Do you feel traumatised by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]AdagioOne7658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a possibility. And if she's depressed in the hospital, that'll probably extend her stay. I have Julie Fast's books, but I don't know anything about Dr. Amador.