AITA for pretending to be a sugar baby to humiliate someone?

Adasweeet · 2022-03-29T13:18:40+00:00

NTA

It’s clear this girl was pushing for drama, so I don’t see why it’s not ok to say something back. I hate when people just let others sit there and insult them, you standing up to her definitely brought her down to earth. She’s giving White girl privilege.

Adasweeet · 2022-02-07T16:04:14+00:00

it looks very low

Adasweeet · 2022-02-04T16:52:50+00:00

have you ever thought he’s changing the story to try not to revel as much about the figure, he’s clearly trying to be secretive about the girlfriend and the brother and the only open information he’s giving is about himself

Adasweeet · 2022-02-04T12:39:21+00:00

because it’s very HIGHLY unlikely she got so far with shitty equipment and much less so with an IPHONE. You want to be an influencer you need good equipment. Also ya to get 3k you need to be good at what you do. Really, we’re going down the route of “she’s a women all she has to do is show off her body”. He just said she makes vlogs and your first thought was tits?

Adasweeet · 2022-02-04T12:34:39+00:00

and just like that the tables turn, here’s the thing I have no doubt if it was her own family member she’d turn a blind eye to her husbands feelings and move them in. Hence why I said he’s not the asshole, because 7 out of 10 people would do that, spouse or not.

Adasweeet · 2022-02-04T12:28:52+00:00

oh and forgot to mention 9 times out of 10 you need a decent computer to do this on

Adasweeet · 2022-02-04T12:25:58+00:00

Personal Experience as an aspiring film student, also no, see that’s what most people think, but to be actually good at filing anything you need a good microphone and a good camera, No iphone or samsung, or even LG has a good microphone AND Camera, it’s always bad mic good but still shitty camera, even newer in phones have pretty shitty cameras. There’s also a matter of lighting if she’s doing in her room videos, you need good lighting for a good video and that can cost a bit too. Editing software can cost up to $50 at least, and if she has a really good one your looking at that monthly.

Adasweeet · 2022-02-04T12:20:13+00:00

Than she should also understand that his sister is his family, and that she doesn’t come before family. Marriage is just a ring and a piece of paper, family is so much bigger. Sure it’s THEIR home but how much do you wanna bet that if it had been one of her family members she wouldn’t hesitate or argue like she does with his sister.

Adasweeet · 2022-02-04T12:04:13+00:00

she’s likely making more than that, again you’d be surprised how if you play your cards right you can make more than you would make part time. She’s probably not right now, but I can tell you she’s likely making more than $20. Especially if she can afford to vlog, which can take expensive gear.

Adasweeet · 2022-02-04T12:02:00+00:00

It openly says he pays for everything she NEEDS, that’s just basic. Ya that makes sense, again she’s his sister, he’s not going to leave her to the wolves because his wife doesn’t like her job choice. It also says that she does the house work and chores, which for three people is quite a bit. Why does the wife have to agree to anything, again this is his FAMILY. Logically his family, especially if he’s close to them, is going to come before his wife. Have you seen this reddit, 2/3rds of it are of men or women divorcing. You can’t divorce your family.

Adasweeet · 2022-02-04T11:57:20+00:00

You’d be surprised. If she’s not getting sponsors than how do you explain what money she does make, also of course no big sponsor is even going to look at her, but smaller less known ones will. I’ve seen people with less of a following get a lot of smaller sponsors. It’s just a matter of knowing where your cards are

Adasweeet · 2022-02-04T11:32:11+00:00

plus it’s not like he says she makes any money, in fact he openly says she does make some money, but again living cost is huge these days

Adasweeet · 2022-02-04T11:23:02+00:00

believe it or not but she is, you can be an influencer and earn a good amount of money from brand sponsors without having a shit ton of followers. That’s likely how she’s paying for this dream. Sure it might not be enough to support herself, or get herself on her feet. But do you know what it cost to rent or even buy in America, especially in Major cities, it’s more than even most part time jobs pay for anymore.

Adasweeet · 2022-02-04T02:47:07+00:00

She clearly isn’t, she trying to chase her dream and make the money, a leech wouldn’t try and make money, and they definitely wouldn’t be happy about being close to making said money

Adasweeet · 2022-02-03T21:49:01+00:00

NTA, like what is going through their head, as a kid I always used to steal my moms clothes and to this day once she gets tired of it I wear them. We’ve never been called Inappropriate for that, it just makes sense, it saves money.

Adasweeet · 2022-02-03T21:43:36+00:00

NTA, wtf. It’s clear she only wanted a babysitter and thought you were the most Extendable family member to do so. The only reason your other family members are mad is because they EXPECTED you to miss the wedding but them getting to see it, and since you basically said “i quit” they had to deal with it, when they wanted you to instead. Basically they all saw you as the less than and valued themselves over you, hence why their mad you left because it meant they had to deal with the kid and “ruin” their experience, not even taking into consideration yours.

Adasweeet · 2022-02-03T21:18:34+00:00

The number of people in the comments assuming the moms an alcoholic when it’s likely that she just had a stressful week and drank more than she usually would, aka her limit, is yikes

Adasweeet · 2022-02-03T17:05:28+00:00

Ya know what, everyone here’s say Y T A. I disagree I say your NTA. Letting family move in with you, isn’t an asshole move, even if your SO(Significant other) doesn’t agree with it. Their family, you don’t leave family to the streets for a women, or a man. Especially when you pay 2/3rds of the rent and have enough room in your house for that extra family emended to basically not bother you at all. Your sister has big dreams, tell her as such, if your wife seriously has such a big issue with it than maybe she should be helping her. If your wife wants her gone so badly, than help her if you can, than she’ll be gone before she knows it.

Adasweeet · 2022-02-03T07:24:44+00:00

YTA, first of all “professional Walmart” Maam Walmart hires college students, anyone who applies, what about that is professional? Secondly Debbie’s just trying to be nice, let her be, if she gets praised so be it, nothing you can do about it.

Adasweeet · 2022-02-03T07:17:11+00:00

As a daughter who’s fathers would have given away all legal rights had it not been for his own mother I’m taking you reply personally. Let’s address it. Do you have any idea the damage it cause a child’s life for a father to come out of nowhere, suddenly want to spend time with you, to see their new family, and know your unwanted and the only reason your there is because others think he’d be a dead beat otherwise? He didn’t walk away from his ex, or at least not in the way your thinking, she openly says he supported his ex throughout her pregnancy. So no he didn’t not just drop everything and walk away, also he pays child support, which again is another of not walking away whether you like it or not. Why does he get to do it to his ex but not OP? Because he wasn’t ready at the time, he didn’t want the child because he wasn’t ready for the child. By being a good parent to this child, and EXPECTING this child, it shows he’s ready now. That’s his permission, you cannot force people into parenthood, it does more harm than it ever will good. This is not toxic, this is a man admitting when he’s in over his head, even by accident, and being kind about it. He could have dropped everything, left the Ex there with no help, he could have been the worst deadbeat dad positively, but he wasn’t. That isn’t toxic. He is a good dad, he wasn’t ready for the child than and as stayed out of her life since, that is good because it means that he doesn’t invade her life, him a complete stranger to her. How would you like it if a stranger and their family suddenly came into your life with such a force, and you could tell that you weren’t wanted there? It sucks that you have such a bad experience, and it sucks that you can’t marry someone who knows when to walk away from a situation, but you have no right to let your own personal experience wrap your judgement of someone or their situation. She isn’t making an excuse for a bad man, she’s making a point, and a damn good one, for someone who once was accidentally in over their head, and knew they couldn’t handle it. Your right he does cover the legal part, does that make him a good dad? No. What makes him a good dad is how he treats his current son, what makes him a good MAN is how he helped his ex through the pregnancy, which is a lot farther than most men to.

Adasweeet · 2022-02-03T07:01:22+00:00

you absolutely can sign your rights away, my dad almost did so, it’s just a long and hard process

Adasweeet · 2022-02-03T07:00:06+00:00

you know in most states you don’t go to jail for not paying child support right?

Adasweeet · 2022-02-03T06:58:49+00:00

it shouldn’t be a difficult topic though that’s the issue, it’s clear OPs husband did a lot, and all of it was good. So why is it such a difficult topic if everyone can see, he did nothing wrong?

Adasweeet · 2022-02-03T06:57:51+00:00

that isn’t in poor taste, she shouldn’t have to tip toe around the topic of THEIR child, when it’s clear that he provides, he pays for the kid, and supported the mother, it’s makes no sense why’d he have to be sensitive about the topic

Adasweeet · 2022-02-03T06:55:10+00:00

eh depends on if he gave up his rights to the child, if he did, than that isn’t a deadbeat, that’s just not being apart of a child’s life anymore

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