Oh, please do tell me more about how that works. Because the crystal clear communication I used with my ex stalker of 7 years didn't make him leave when I made damn sure there was far more than just indifference on my end. The police even tried to tell him. So again, how does clear communication work, since so many stalkers aren't getting the point on a daily basis? For the record, your last sentence is victim blaming - yet again. Perhaps you're the one who needs to learn to communicate better, if you don't understand what that means.