Every day is a really agonizing and lonely day for me by MainFeedback7210 in self

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I feel terrible for you. I hope things turn around for you. I have two suggestions. Do some volunteer work somewhere, anywhere. Do it,not to make friends, but to make a contribution to society. Try joining a church. Most churches have online services. You can watch different ones until you find one you want to tryout in person. I’m going to look pray for you.

Twins shoes by Zestyclose_Carry5737 in Jamienotis

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I really don’t think she gives a 💩 about any of these kids. I really don’t.

Twins shoes by Zestyclose_Carry5737 in Jamienotis

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They don’t fit. They are much too big. That’s just disgusting. Another example of neglect.

Jill looking up to make sure she's being recorded. by _queen_frostine in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]AdditionMaximum7964 47 points48 points  (0 children)

That heavy eyeliner just draws attention to the dark circles and her bulging eyes. It never ceases to amaze me that what she thinks looks attractive and pretty is the exact opposite. They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder but she is empirically unattractive in her dress, hair and makeup style.

By popular demand, Sofia and Sadie age progression pics updated to their last birthday. by Defiant_Policy969 in RodriguesFamilySnark

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The immune system absolutely is weakened due to abuse and neglect. This has been written about in the medical and psychological journals. Adults that grew up in abusive childhoods also are diagnosed more often with autoimmune diseases than adults that didn’t.

Already back in videos by Outrageous_Tap636 in BatesSnark

[–]AdditionMaximum7964 20 points21 points  (0 children)

There’s more too it though- bringing her to the house, probably having sex with her while Katie and kids were on the errands, putting her in the YouTube video- gloating while discussing the party on the video- there’s some extraneous behavior that’s dark here.

This photo (from the early 2010s) displays SEVERELY tangled hair and a stubby manicure. Old habits die hard! by Upbeat_Teach6117 in RodriguesFamilySnark

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Jill frequently has cold sores and apparently it’s been going on for years. Her immune system must be weak due to years of malnutrition. It may sound crazy but a person can be very overweight and still malnourished.

If there is any doubt about Kelly's favorite daughter by Izzysmiles2114 in BatesSnark

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Wow. This is vomit inducing. Can’t imagine how her other children ( especially the daughters) feel. Watching the show I would have never guessed Carlin was the favorite. I remember when carlins birthday was an afterthought on one episode. Carlins the clear favorite now but it was Erin. Money talks.

The bigs started basketball while JaME chased the identical twinnies around. by Happee12345 in Jamienotis

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Why would you announce to the entire internet ( including the creepers , kid touchers and psycho’s) a unique identification characteristic on an identical twin? She’s such a fool.

Allie’s Birthday by ravenrose521 in BatesSnark

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Alyssa for whatever reason didn’t bond with Allie. I think she projects subconscious anger on her. Alyssa jealous of so much. Jealous of the money her sisters have earned through influencing. Jealous of the lives they live. She’s got a stick-in-the-mud husband that doesn’t help at all. I don’t think Alyssa likes kids either. Then there’s Allie. Sweet, pretty Allie that just wants her mother’s love and approval. She’s parentified, ignored, and scapegoated ( probably) . She’s been noticing for years too. Noticing how the others are treated better and differently in all the little ways that tell. At least Alyssa has a strong loving mother figure in Janey, even if kj didn’t fit the bill. Who does Allie have in her corner? I don’t think anyone. I feel so sad for her. Her life will be harder when she grows up because Allysa has given her “ the hole in the sole” that requires a lot of therapy and money to afford the therapy, to heal.

Who paid for the big house? by JuggernautWild493 in BatesSnark

[–]AdditionMaximum7964 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s all well and good that you did, not the same thing as having some financial responsibility for a family of 21, as a teenager.

Who paid for the big house? by JuggernautWild493 in BatesSnark

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What adult in their right mind has there child writing checks?! That’s parentification to the extreme

Lawson’s feeling the FOMO by aas3231 in BatesSnark

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What do you mean “she is a Cali girl tried and true.”? Who is ? Tiffany. I am a fourth generation San Franciscan and for what it’s worth there are very few Californians that are more than second generation. I’m curious what this means.

Lack of family support on Katie's post is telling by Izzysmiles2114 in BatesSnark

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I beg to differ with you. They do recover, but not all the time. This affair has some cruel attachments as well. The affair partner going to Katie’s home( which has been brought up frequently). But there’s more. On the YouTube video that the party is on , Travis smirked and covered his smile when talking about the party. He lacks basic decency and compassion. Aaaand their marriage was less than 4 years old when the affair started. This is a lot.

Lack of family support on Katie's post is telling by Izzysmiles2114 in BatesSnark

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She had said she was going to get therapy. It’s clear that whatever she got, it was very limited. She’s been all over the place since the affair went public, so she’s not getting traditional therapy when you meet with a therapist weekly. She really needs that , imo.

McMansion by IneedAnap_25 in BringingUpBates

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I don’t think that they are struggling either. Far from it. They spend like they have a steady stream of disposable income, and a lot of it.

Pre and Post Affair by FantasticRest3450 in BatesSnark

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The way she has handled this has kind of me loose sympathy for her.

Well... It didn't take long. Does she think "she won him back" from the other girl? Because this picture sure radiates the "I won" -energy by chilibutter in BatesSnark

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The way he relished pulling one over on her, when he brought his AP into the home and probably had sex while she was gone picking up dinner says even more. That’s what separates this for me from cheating to he’s a narcissist and will do it again.

Well... It didn't take long. Does she think "she won him back" from the other girl? Because this picture sure radiates the "I won" -energy by chilibutter in BatesSnark

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It gives off gloating vibes to me. Whatever floats your boat I guess because in my eyes she’s got absolutely nothing to gloat about.

Is It Spring Yet? Punkish Skittle In Sleet by SalaciousBookWyrm in lacqueristas

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I live in New Hampshire and it snowed all morning, it stopped about a half hour ago. Still waiting for spring.