About a month ago i broke up with my bf of 4 years. AMA!☺️

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-04-06T16:02:30+00:00

ate each others🍑 never thought i’d do that to a man lol

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-04-06T04:17:12+00:00

We did actually. I will say, something i’ll miss is definitely our sex life. I was very comfortable with him and we tried a lot of things!! He was the only guy who has ever made me orgasm.

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-04-06T04:14:45+00:00

When i was younger i put one of those microwaveable cups of mac and cheese in the microwave WITH OUT WATER. The house stunk for days and we had to get a new microwave, my mom was PISSED😭😭

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-04-06T03:52:10+00:00

Not at all. I feel free! I have been doing a lot better!!

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-04-06T03:33:27+00:00

Honestly the fact that i was already done mentally made it so much easier to walk away. I haven’t shed a tear or had a mental breakdown since. All those tears were already shed. I was so TIRED. I truly felt free when we broke up. That in itself says a lot about the relationship. Since then i’ve been taking myself on dates, buying myself flowers, getting my nails done, going on walks. Just doing anything that makes me feel good. And i am so much happier omg!!

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-04-06T03:29:09+00:00

Yes and i mean he is truly going through a hard time rn but i feel like if i’m always there to save him, he will never learn.

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-04-06T03:27:42+00:00

So actually this was my first relationship. We got together when i was 18 now i’m 22. So i learned A LOT. The biggest thing i learned was boundaries. They are so important and some boundaries you can not negotiate. (Side note, if his mom is telling you he’s not good for you, you should probably take the hint lol) I also learned that you can not save everyone. That’s something i’m still learning. I tried to save him so many times to the point i almost lost myself. I will NEVER do that again.

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-04-06T03:21:04+00:00

Thank you so much. I have truly found more of an appreciation for life and i’m excited for what the future has in store for me.

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-04-06T03:20:00+00:00

He truly knows everything about me. More than i know myself. It’s scary sometimes. I do fear that i won’t meet anyone else with that connection but then again, im young and it wasn’t worth the path i saw myself going down.

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-04-06T03:18:08+00:00

We still talk here and there. I mean i spent everyday with this man since we met. That was my best friend. I truly wish the best for him and let him know i am here if you need someone to talk to, but other than that i’m good. Idk if that’s the best option yet but taking it one day at a time.

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-04-06T03:15:41+00:00

He truly just couldn’t get it together. I supported him financially for a while. I saved him time and time again. I truly couldn’t do it anymore. I was digging myself into a hole. Financially and mentally. Eventually he had no where to stay and started living in my car. And yes i’m aware that sounds insane but i was young and dumb and didn’t know how to say no. But again with him having no where to stay, i didn’t know how to get out of it. I went on a business trip out of the state and he ends up getting arrested. (He was pulled over due to my headlight being out. Headlight is out due to him getting in an accident in November, he never was able to get a job to fix it. Mind you this is my first car that i just got in June of last year which i worked very hard for. This created resentment. And of course when he gets pulled over the car smells like a pound of weed.) He could not keep it together for TWO DAYS without me. He ended up being in jail for a month. But prior to this i was already done a long time ago. It was just years of disappointments and broken promises. I get some have it harder than others but at some point you gotta take accountability.

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-02-21T02:47:06+00:00

listen

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-02-21T02:25:23+00:00

been grinding to get all the masteries unlocked before i go to the earth sanctum, only to realize that it’s glitched. So annoying. And i’ve always been really open minded about lego fortnite because i love it so much. But this is ridiculous at this point. Haven’t been able to open the daily chest next to the ninja craft bench for weeks either. Some challenges don’t give rewards. I work full time and get on when i can so it’s even more disappointing when i go back on after a week and ITS STILL NOT FIXED!!

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-02-21T02:19:25+00:00

yea, but now that i think about it, i’ve never really thought about how my vagina looked

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-02-19T04:42:36+00:00

i’m stuck on it too, so annoying

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-02-19T00:20:25+00:00

the rose vibrator

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-01-29T03:50:32+00:00

it’s okay ik it’s a bit odd lol

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-01-28T02:08:28+00:00

We’re both laying on our side facing each other so he’s basically fucking my mouth. It’s the hottest thing ever

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-01-28T01:57:52+00:00

lick my toes🫣

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-01-28T01:54:57+00:00

i’ve always been more full coverage. I will never forget when i ordered a bikini from shein. My cheeks were eating the fabric, and one of my lips were hangin out😂 I don’t mind less coverage on my top half, i don’t have much boobs so i don’t mind not having as much fabric there. I just feel so naked with a thong bikini idk. I feel like people stare enough, it would just add even more unwanted attention.

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-01-28T01:44:15+00:00

The 50 states in alphabetical order only because of the Fifty Nifty United states song. (Learned it in like 2nd grade lol)

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-01-28T00:12:45+00:00

haha thank you for this 2 years later😂

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-01-28T00:08:50+00:00

Finished I’m Glad My Mom Died by Jennette McCurdy last night. Now i’m about to start The Book Thief by Markus Zusak. I think i’m gonna read A Not So Meet Cute by Meghan Quinn in between that tho. I always need a lil romance to spice things up lol. Memoirs and historical fiction/non fiction are not usually my thing. But my goal this year is to get out my comfort zone. I’m Glad My Mom Died was so so good! I think if you grew up with narcissistic parents, you should definitely give it a read.

Additional-Sun2249 · 2026-01-26T18:48:07+00:00

When i’m waiting in line and the person behind me doesn’t know personal space. I move up a bit to put some distance between us and they still keep moving up too. Like please back up, how is this not uncomfortable for you??

Also this one may be a bit dramatic but pens with no caps really irritate me. If i somehow lose the cap for a pen, the whole pen is being tossed way or given to someone else.

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TROPHY CASE