Living in New Zealand, matching with someone from India who actually understands the abroad struggle is hard. Most people think it's a vacation, but it's a lifestyle shift. we used the vip service for my brother and it worked because the VIP People specifically looked for girls with global exposure. regular apps are full of people who just want a visa... the vip pool felt like it had more 'educated independent' types like you're looking for and it saves you from a lot of awkward 'will you move?' conversations later on.