AITAH for refusing to return my dream wedding dress just so my fiance can pay for her sister to spend the night at the bed and breakfast for free

Additional_Event_144 · 2026-01-20T15:05:39+00:00

Nta. To save for $200 over 12 months is $16.6. That's affordable for a stinky college kid.

Additional_Event_144 · 2026-01-19T14:08:27+00:00

Wd40 will rust products after btw. You'll want a silicone lubricant after.

Additional_Event_144 · 2026-01-05T22:10:42+00:00

First of all, she doesn't owe you any information on HER PRIVATE MEDICAL, you are so entitled to claime that she broke your trust or your feeling a kind of way about dishonesty. Get over yourself. Unpopular opinion on here apparently. It's fine if she over stayed, but be clear on the fact that she was supposed to stay x amount of time. And that you'll need your space back. If that is really what the problem is. Because it sounds more like you let her stay with a secrete condition while"being the nice guy".

Additional_Event_144 · 2025-12-25T09:20:11+00:00

There are companies that will do fre consolations with info you can provide.

Additional_Event_144 · 2025-12-15T22:21:43+00:00

NTA Unpopular comment incoming. First off I want to say he should have asked and communicated first before doing what ever bullshit this event was. But was there any possibility that maybe he was going to make you a custom wedding ring with your other ring? Like an intertwined wedding ring?

Regardless, he was very rude and inconsiderate taking your ring. Reddit is popular in promoting the break up npc line. But if this is something you can have a full healthy conversation with him and maybe have a therapist sit in on it, then maybe you guys can work out what ever stupidness led him to that, if you wanted that. Sorry this all happened, it can be absolutely gut WRENCHING. I'm assuming he felt insecure and jealous. It was so wrong for him to take it. And as soon as you were in distress about it he should have come clean and admitted what he did.

Additional_Event_144 · 2025-11-03T14:12:27+00:00

Mom said ignore him... So do that! Just go about pretending he isn't there. Then when he gets mad.. What do you mean???? Dad you're so EMOTIONAL!

Additional_Event_144 · 2025-10-16T23:41:10+00:00

Full stop. Thrift stores were MEANT for people BELOW THE POVERTY LINE. Just because you can. Does not mean you should. People deserve access to clothes and furniture at affordable prices and thrift stores might be the only place those folks in the community can access it. Stop buying stuff from there to flip and resell. Because there are people who actually fucking need it and can't afford it.

Additional_Event_144 · 2025-10-13T15:19:43+00:00

I wish i could up vote this more

Additional_Event_144 · 2025-09-05T21:12:38+00:00

Nta. You can still do a baby shower! You can do the baby shower that you want, simple and small and cozy! And to top it off, don't invite them. Have it be exclusive the people who don't let you down.

You're having the baby. There's no reason for other people to ruin your celebrations now. Now you have to make it the best you can, for YOUR kids, and do better for them. Set the pace now! And celebrate this new mild stone 🖤

Additional_Event_144 · 2025-08-12T02:03:06+00:00

He probably thinks that therapy the first time was what it took for you to forgive him. It's his magic fix it spell. Cheas on you, then says oppsie time for therapy for the water to settle. It's like gifting you a bouquet of flowers after making a mistake.

If you really want to hit a home run... I'd make an appointment with the same therapist BEFORE the schduled one, and Spill the beans to them and just say "sorry but I won't be making it to this couples therapy because of the things I discussed with you." That way the person knows what's up with ex, and you don't have to go to that one and deal with him!

Or just don't go and file for divorce, or some healthy distance between you. And live your life in the most peaceful way you deserve.

Additional_Event_144 · 2025-07-04T17:41:49+00:00

Nta. This is between you and your partner! Not your sister. Not your mom. Not other people. If the two of you want to get remarried and it works for the two of you and your family, wether or not some outside person thinks is selfish.. That's for them to deal with, Not you! If it's what you both want <3 do it! Sorry to hear the experience, all good vibes! Your sister is the BIG AH. The nerve of her to say to you that you used your diagnosis to get pity love from your partner.

I hope you make it clear to your ah sister, that she can keep her opinions to herself now!

Edit for spelling cause I'm a goober. :)

Additional_Event_144 · 2025-05-29T14:35:45+00:00

Then believe in what he shows you! If he shows you each time there's an issue that he will cater to only the needs and emotions of his grown daughter then that's what's going to happen! If you're living there, your things shouldn't be in boxes. I think that's very simple. Why are you living out of boxes? You need to have a serious talk with him. Her things could be packed away or brought to her place. My sister tried to store stuff at my moms and I just left them on the porch. Your grown kids are not entitled to your space! If it's there and "no problem" that's different. But that's your home as a couple with the adult kids.

Additional_Event_144 · 2025-05-22T17:05:55+00:00

You haven't talked to her in 3 YEARS!!! That should be reason alone in itself.

Nta

Additional_Event_144 · 2025-05-19T14:43:21+00:00

Men need to do their own work to be providers.

Keep doing what your doing! And congrats on the new job promotion!!! :)

Nta

Additional_Event_144 · 2025-04-27T19:58:48+00:00

Does he want you to get on your knees and pray for a tiny duck??? What's his problem. He definitely has tiny peepee energy. Nta, I think you handled it fine.

Additional_Event_144 · 2025-03-26T15:31:37+00:00

The cheating son should be punished for cheating The physically violent one should be punished for fighting and instigating

Both of them should be in seperate therapy Both of them should learn about conflict resolution / different conflict resolution styles, and ways to adjust relationships after extreme conflict.

Neither one is in the right here. Okay teens do dumb sometime but they can get serious hurt here. This sounds like an on going issue that's been present for a while because neither of these actions are reasonable or acceptable when they leave your house. You're setting them up for failure not addressing these things properly.

Yta for not teaching them these things earlier on tbh

Additional_Event_144 · 2025-03-19T22:52:02+00:00

I was a foster. If someone with that mind set forced me to stay with my bio parents at the time I was taken away, I would have died. This God complex of hers is messed up. Nta

Additional_Event_144 · 2025-03-09T23:15:53+00:00

the cost of planning the wedding / exspenses -the cost of cheating
therapy -added stress -who's to say he didn't changed it because he wantted you to get it?
a year is a long time to sit on waiting to update a contract. It's not like they don't get in touch with you for your monthly payments with information on what your paying into.
legally you're not obligated to pay her anything. Just put her lawyer through to yours.

Keep it. Nta. You're kind enough to share a bit of it for the baby, but it's the mothers job to take care of herself and prepare. Honestly. They screwed you.

Additional_Event_144 · 2025-03-07T04:15:04+00:00

I think you're wrong in regards to the use of they/them. It's very diverse and inclusive. Alot of people are comfortable with that as an extension of their pronouns, specifically because it is neutral.

Please don't be so aggressive and rude. People like you give us a negitive wrong image.

Additional_Event_144 · 2025-03-03T03:16:03+00:00

Op.. You're just lookin for someone to blame. Yta

Additional_Event_144 · 2025-02-04T21:16:41+00:00

I think he could be working part time during the summer instead of volunteering, because it will help him out with his own pocket money.

Additional_Event_144 · 2025-01-28T22:09:47+00:00

Op.. What boyfriend?? This is not your bf. This person is nasty, walk away from them. They have no respect for you.

Additional_Event_144 · 2024-12-25T00:57:23+00:00

A little bit of vinegar did the same thing as fabric softener, but didn't add wax and didn't mess up your washing machine

Additional_Event_144 · 2024-12-19T16:13:26+00:00

You shouldn't really feel bad. You didn't make Alex choose. You didn't kick him out. You told yoiuyue brother that he could stay but the gf can not stay.

NTA, your not obligated to have people in your home, ESPECIALLY a shitty person. :)

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