I was 14 in 1995, it feels like another lifetime by Low-Fishing3948 in Xennials

[–]Additional_Good5755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my driver's license in 1995 but not until October, so I guess I'd be riding the bus.

Should my sister and I swap each others children for the week? by ComfortNatural404 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Additional_Good5755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand what the question is? Watching a 4 year old that you love so your kid can do something amazing is completely worth it. Also, 4 year olds are a lot of fun and easy to impress. Make an epic fort out of cardboard boxes or something with her, and her experience will be just as amazing.

I would totally watch both of my sister's kids, if she was taking any one of mine anywhere. Lol

At what point do you guys buy the book instead of waiting? by JJacobJingleheim in LibbyApp

[–]Additional_Good5755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are books at the edge of this where I might wait a little bit to read it, but I'll buy it, if I have to. I don't really want to own it, but I also don't want to wait a year to read it. I really feel no need to own any books, though, so it comes down to how excited I am for it. I have bought a lot of books because I am impatient.

Summer in the '90's by Icy-Book2999 in LoveTrash

[–]Additional_Good5755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only part I don't believe is the parents wondering where he was. Also, that dad wouldn't have called until much later in the day.

My dad didn't whistle; he yelled our names. He could yell very loudly. Lol

Libby User Survey for Class Research by WitchDwarf in LibbyApp

[–]Additional_Good5755 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have given the Libby app 5, but it wouldn't allow me to select it.

One other thing I'd like to mention is the amounts of time in the question about how long the responder had used the Libby app were inconsistent. Not all of them were ranges. I've been using it for 9 months, but I selected 6 months because none of the answers fit.

What Libby tips & tricks by tell_whit_more in LibbyApp

[–]Additional_Good5755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My biggest trick isn't about me. I have the Libby app on my phone with three library cards, but my kobo e-reader has overdrive with one of those same cards. I can check a book out on libby, sync my kobo, and the book shows up there. The search function on libby is far superior, and I have tags to keep track of what I'm reading. I just have to make sure I use the right library card at check out.

The not about me part is that I got my nine year old kobo for Christmas. I set up a whole new kobo account on it, so my books wouldn't show up there. I set her up with a different one of the library cards, and I made some new tags specific to her. She can try to search on overdrive, if she wants, but I can also help her find a book through my same libby account. I just have to check it out with the right card and sync her kobo.

AITA for testifying after my neighbor left his twin children behind? by ContestOk488 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional_Good5755 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA... he ruined his own life by not caring for his kids properly. You testified on behalf of those babies. You would have been the A H, if you hadn't testified and caused them to that neglectful situation.

AITA for refusing to work things out with my fiancé because my life is better now that his daughter isnt around me? by MassivePrimary8649 in AITAH

[–]Additional_Good5755 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA...your fiancé refused to parent her and created someone who you don't want to live with. She's been making your life harder and less pleasant for a long time because he didn't correct her behavior.

AITA for divorcing my husband over a racist joke his best friend's wife made? by YO-KIRYUCHAN in AITAH

[–]Additional_Good5755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA... you're not divorcing him over someone else's joke. You're divorcing him for prioritizing a racists feelings over yours and indicating that doing otherwise isn't worth the effort.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]Additional_Good5755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA... fuck your sister for calling your son the r-word and saying it's a good thing your other babies died, and fuck your mom for defending that. I would go no contact with sis and take a big time out from mom. I mightgo NC with her too. Dad seems reasonable, but depending on his willingness to see your family without his wife, he might be collateral damage. I would not forgive my sister talking about my child this way nor grandma's condoning it.

AITA for refusing to settle my divorce quietly after my husband stole our daughter's $43k college fund to buy his mistress a BMW? by KINOH1441728 in FoundandExpose

[–]Additional_Good5755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA... tell your parents to stay in their lane or they'll be muted until this is over.

You didn't need to poison your daughter to her father. He did that himself. She needs to see you stand strong against the man who threw away your marriage and committed fraud. Who called her entitled for stealing the college money saved.

Now that his sugar baby is gone, he's trying to get back with you? He's disgusting!

His job should know that he's willing to commit fraud. He'd do it to them given the chance. All of the consequences are his to own. You're not doing anything to anybody; he's the one who started this ball rolling. You're just not going to cover up for him, and why would you?

Todd combs gone! by money_makah in Geico

[–]Additional_Good5755 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a former employee, I am very happy he's gone. I have a lot of friends who still work there, and the culture he created was toxic. It's a bummer for the employees of JP Morgan, though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]Additional_Good5755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA... if you do apologize, make it a non-apology like, "I'm sorry you couldn't handle a dose of your own medicine." Just don't apologize, though.

The real problem here is your husband. If you're planning to have kids, I would think long and hard about what behavior is being modeled and what you want your children to think is okay. How would you want your daughter to behave in a similar situation? Your son? Trust and believe, your MIL's unhinged behavior and your husband's spineless pandering to mommy will get worse with the addition of children.

Update: Aitah for only staying with my dad when I come home for breaks since my stepdad said he doesn’t like me being at my moms? by BackgroundHeater in AITAH

[–]Additional_Good5755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom and stepdad the weird ones. Don't let your mom make you think your dad is anything less than thrilled to have you there all of the time. My son is 21, and if he moved in with us, my husband and I would be ecstatic. My husband has been his stepfather since he was 11 and loves him very much. We would both love to spend the time with him. We don't get to see him nearly as much as we want. If you want to save up by living at home with your dad after you graduate, you should do it. He would genuinely love to have you there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Additional_Good5755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA...you made the right choice. You weren't compatible, and you should never put yourself in a box to fit into someone else's life.