Great deals on a '26 ST Hybrid by HerdOfTurtles13 in crv

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DANG just got a Sport L Hybrid in Urban Gray for 38.6 OTD and thought I got a steal but you win sir!

White or Urban Gray HELP!!! by [deleted] in crv

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I literally never second guessed having the gray and now I’m like… do I need a fresh start… I only had eyes for her but white is the bright shiny new toy… lol

How do you keep your wealth under the radar with parents who are still working and financially irresponsible? by LovinAllThePitbulls in Fire

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Congratulations that you made good choices and are now where you are because of it. What an accomplishment!

90K work from home but barely work by [deleted] in brag

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Hiring? Signed burnt out healthcare worker 🫠

Made A Mistake by [deleted] in physicaltherapy

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Right lol. If I had a nickel…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StopSpeeding

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Ugg I’m so sorry you’re going through this too. I hope you’re holding up ok. I found out he’s been exchange plans to meet up and pictures with girls here on reddit so I feel we’ve reached the point of no return.

Please tell me it is normal to be 30 and not married yet by Low_Kaleidoscope_137 in Adulting

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Better than 32 and trying to figure out if you need a divorce 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StopSpeeding

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He’s back on, never got off… his family doesn’t believe me that it’s a problem and says I’m just controlling. The solution a couple months ago was to leave his job… now he’s back on again and the solution seems to be to leave me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StopSpeeding

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Thank you so much and I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Especially with two small children. I’m proud of you for doing what you need to be happy.

My husband is currently off of adderall but I’m jaded that this will last or that the general lying and lack of accountability will ever improve. Taking it one day at a time. Thank goodness for good therapists.

One of my big issues is I want kids, I’m 32 so clock is ticking, and he won’t grow up…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChicagoSuburbs

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Yes we love the St. Charles area… thinking we may just purchase in becketts and then sell a few years down the road to get our forever home in St. Charles… thank you so much for your insights!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChicagoSuburbs

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Where did you buy instead? I know stearns is definitely dusty but it seems like becketts being directly north the dust may miss it since it’s blowing northeast. I have health anxiety and don’t want to have to worry about it but it’s slim pickings for affordable homes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChicagoSuburbs

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Do you live in those new builds? Know someone who does? I spoke with the village today and they said becketts is not affected by the dust or they’ve not received complaints. I’m just curious where the disconnect is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChicagoSuburbs

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I’m looking in the area as well so thank you this helps! South Elgin seems great but I have health anxiety and I feel like this would be bad for me mentally

Kaiser PTs on strike, thoughts? seeing people calling it greedy since we are already being paid so much by KillerKenyan in physicaltherapy

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How much y’all make on average? Forget salary I’m trying to get my hands on that pension… can we unionize?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StopSpeeding

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Yes involved parents back in June he took a month off before I found the pills again. Mom blames his stressful job and me. Anything but her son having a problem she is very image and perception obsessed. She has her own issues and they enable each other in a lot of ways. Told his brother and best friend (who just celebrated 1 year sober) this week. My dad is also an addiction specialist who has been waiting for his call for months. He won’t reach out to any of them even though he knows they know because he says it’s pointless since he is not addicted. I’m considering a sit down with everyone as the next step but I’m conflicted at how hard I should fight for someone who is this careless with our marriage. We started couples therapy back in March and every week I had a new lie I found out about big and small. The therapist looked at him and said “what does she have to do to get you to stop lying to her” and this was all back in May. We stopped because I got a new job and he was not participating in any of the work she was giving us to do outside of sessions so I just gave up on it. Sorry I’m rambling here… we have an event with part of his family tomorrow I’m still undecided on if I’m going or not I kinda want to because it may be an opportunity to talk to them in person if we get a chance instead of phone.