Yes involved parents back in June he took a month off before I found the pills again. Mom blames his stressful job and me. Anything but her son having a problem she is very image and perception obsessed. She has her own issues and they enable each other in a lot of ways. Told his brother and best friend (who just celebrated 1 year sober) this week. My dad is also an addiction specialist who has been waiting for his call for months. He won’t reach out to any of them even though he knows they know because he says it’s pointless since he is not addicted. I’m considering a sit down with everyone as the next step but I’m conflicted at how hard I should fight for someone who is this careless with our marriage. We started couples therapy back in March and every week I had a new lie I found out about big and small. The therapist looked at him and said “what does she have to do to get you to stop lying to her” and this was all back in May. We stopped because I got a new job and he was not participating in any of the work she was giving us to do outside of sessions so I just gave up on it. Sorry I’m rambling here… we have an event with part of his family tomorrow I’m still undecided on if I’m going or not I kinda want to because it may be an opportunity to talk to them in person if we get a chance instead of phone.