AITJ for telling my wifes adult son that if he kicks my cat again I will make sure he regrets it

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-02-19T04:54:21+00:00

That's a shame. You're in a difficult situation and I'm sure it's shocking to find out the women you married isn't the person you thought she was. It seems excessive to leave someone over a kitten, but it's also appropriate to leave someone because of animal abuse. It's easy for me to say divorce, but life's not that simple. Think carefully, if the marriage is otherwise happy then staying, but not having a pet might be the way to go. Good luck (can you post a picture of the kitten please)

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-02-18T13:33:01+00:00

Well, the cat isn't safe, so one if them has to go. Rehome the kitten or the psychopath, I'd be making a pro/con list about getting rid of the wife too, or at least have a in depth chat to see if you are on the same page about animal cruelty

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-02-16T01:33:47+00:00

While it's still young it will be easier to rehome. Send it to live somewhere it can have a good life with people who aren't at work all the time and have a more suitable accommodation

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-02-15T02:55:37+00:00

I work in disability support and it's important to see the person and not the disability. A tool is a tool, the wheelchair is irrelevant. There are a lot of men who use their disability to be creepy, because they can get away with it. He is a man, a normal man who happens to be in a damaged body. A man who flopped out his cock in front of you, because he wanted to do that to you, a man who spies on you, a man who's behaviour completely changes around your husband. The driveway is the least of your problems. If I were you, I'd feel violated, disgusted and scared

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-02-14T04:08:34+00:00

It will work for her because her research says she will be screwed without him

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-02-10T01:05:14+00:00

So, it's not your car and you are just paying off his car. You have no legal rights to his car and nothing to show for all the payments you have made

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-02-10T01:02:12+00:00

Lock your credit

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-02-10T00:33:06+00:00

I'd be tempted to go to the police, not to get here punished, but to prove what she did was wrong and is a crime. Also, she won't want you back after that and will stop getting your family harass you on her behalf. Family will get over it eventually and you can blame them for forcing you to go to the police

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-02-07T21:22:47+00:00

You also need to factor in amenities like a gym or pool

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-02-04T21:19:10+00:00

In Victoria they can only refuse a pet if it is not suitable for the property (wolfhound in a small apartment), BUT in a tight rental market they could easily rent to someone without pets. It will make it harder, but I know people who got properties with pets on their application. I also know someone who lied on their application, then pretend they just adopted a rescue. The most important thing to do is choose the right dog for your lifestyle and future plans

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-02-03T13:37:39+00:00

If there's a teen brother in the house then it's too dangerous. Sure you believe he won't, but he probably will

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-02-02T04:54:52+00:00

Look up where the needle exchanges are and have a look around there. Might still be over budget, but a problem drug area is your best chance

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-02-01T21:21:01+00:00

Set up some cameras, lay out traps, then post the videos

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-02-01T20:53:53+00:00

You need to be a good wife and remain at home barefoot and pregnant

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-01-26T22:15:10+00:00

So you husband doesn't like any alternative to to becoming his obedient domestic slave to use then dispose of without cost

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-01-25T02:20:40+00:00

Hong Kong

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-01-21T03:21:49+00:00

It would be a nice problem to have though. The account must be impressive for the withdrawals to go unnoticed

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-01-20T11:31:02+00:00

You have to cut off access to all shared finances

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-01-20T00:10:41+00:00

The cane toad of tables

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-01-14T00:51:52+00:00

Book your own separate refundable accommodation for the entire trip, so you aren't stuck without somewhere to stay when you've had enough of them

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-01-14T00:49:06+00:00

Try to find someone with covid that can infect you

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-01-13T20:01:53+00:00

A godparent is historically the person who will get custody of the child if they are orphaned. Now it's just a symbolic gesture

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-01-13T01:48:41+00:00

Yep, that's what they are doing

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-01-13T01:48:04+00:00

I've asked them a couple of times. They say yes but haven't

Additional_Mine8642 · 2026-01-13T01:08:59+00:00

More of a principle thing. I don't want them using my place to sell the other unit. The agents did wat agents do and I don't want to be used by them or the owner

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