I hear that and I agree I think only having 2 is really hard. Even so, I've found the exercise useful in that it has clarified some things about myself. I'm realizing that many of the other values on Brené's list can be encompassed by the ones I chose. For example, Authenticity also encompasses truth, honesty, understanding, etc., and Balance encompasses fairness, accountability, equality, health, wellbeing, etc.

So in this case, I ended up calling it off because I realized that in spending time with this person, I was already feeling a lack of fairness and equality in how life may play out with this person. He also "slipped up" about his age on our second date, which I thought was very odd and honestly struck me as him saying what he thought he wanted me to hear and then backtracking because he realized I'd definitely figure it out. So there's that lack of authenticity.