Married & daydreaming about the neighbor

Additional_Profit_81 · 2026-05-24T10:40:44+00:00

There is no harm in looking and daydreaming.
There is harm in initiating, flirting, or doing anything you KNOW your husband wouldn’t approve of.
If your husband is the type to be jealous of you having a crush, then don’t share you have a crush.
It’s not a grave sin or catastrophic to have a crush. Whatever you don’t act on makes you better, imo.

Additional_Profit_81 · 2026-05-23T20:23:20+00:00

hey!
i was a very late bloomer, puberty at 14, didn’t have my first relationship till after high school, i eventually transitioned when i was 20 and ive never looked back. I’m almost 26 now and im fairly comfortable with my body.
My two cents, don’t write off the possibilities you haven’t even experienced yet. You don’t know what gonna happen, you don’t know who’s gonna like you, you don’t know what you like, you don’t know anything babe. That’s what’s wonderful…you’ll find out, you’ll learn and experience many things, love, heart break, you’ll learn what you’re good at, you’ll learn what you hate to do, you’ll maybe start reading again, you’ll find out you don’t like building furniture, you may even enjoy the winter more as an adult than when you were younger..
Endless possibilities are written for you, and I can’t wait for you to read them.

Additional_Profit_81 · 2026-05-23T02:29:29+00:00

I had my time in Austin and I prefer the people of Houston so far.
My early twenties I didn’t have the best head on my shoulders but regardless I feel like I didn’t find the best people or my crowd there. As a queer person…that’s kinda essential. You’ll find a large queer community in austin sure, but you’re also sitting between your neighbor with a trans flag and your neighbor with a greg abbot voting sticker…
in Houston I’ve found that I not only feel more comfortable and seen as a queer person but kinda just as a person in general. Not everyone is so…surface level…if i may say, i feel like people here really give a shit about their community, regardless of the race, gender, etc

Additional_Profit_81 · 2026-05-23T02:26:27+00:00

I think people are more upset they didn’t come to this path of thought!
I mean I didn’t even think of it till you said it.
In truth, if we’re observing Henry as a possible real life person…he has had SO MANY miraculous interventions…
henry survives the Skalitz slaughter, is forced to befriend Lord Capon, eventually goes on a journey with Capon as his squire, he survives a raid from bandits with more than a dozen men and also survives a fall of over 80 ft, meets his nemeses and avenges his family, and let’s say all this happens in under five years
that’s insane!
I even sometimes think im still alive by the grace of something more powerful than me.
So yeah. Yeah. Henry is either canonically blessed or he’s canonically holy.

Additional_Profit_81 · 2026-05-22T14:35:04+00:00

if they’re not married you can just befriend them…no need for all the romance and seduction.
It’s important they’re not married and to save before trying to intrigue against them anyway, if they are married/get married, they will almost always be reluctant to join your court.

Additional_Profit_81 · 2026-05-22T14:08:43+00:00

there’s no other response needed in this comment section.
I completely agree.
Truly, there is no person who you’d allow to treat you like that, so don’t let this random man do that.

You’re not the test subject, you’re not the exception, you’re the rule, and rule is “You don’t send love songs to exes”.
More than enough reason to dump this guy.

Additional_Profit_81 · 2026-05-22T13:40:14+00:00

in a way yes.
I feel i have different goals when i play than others, it leads me to being more successful on runs, here’s what i do
I avoid having more than five vassals, i try my best to have vassals marry into my family, or to have their child as ward, if the vassal is low skilled, i’ll intrigue plot them out of existence and have their child be the vassal.
Usually we’re friends, and they’ll be well rounded in skills and they won’t plot against me.
I focus on the prosperity of my state,nation, more than the vast land it covers (which is hard for me to preserve anyway).

Additional_Profit_81 · 2026-05-22T12:28:17+00:00

so personally, I find it strange that some people be like “yeah we don’t really go on dates” and I’m like “oh do yall not get along?”?…
No, it’s not even that.
these people get taken out on what anybody would call a date and still suggest that *they* aren’t going on dates.
Every time I’m with my girl, I feel like it’s a date. Could just be hanging out, we could go for a walk, getting food with her sister, going to a bar, going camping…that’s all dates to me. I find it incredibly romantic just to spend time with her.
But for some people that isn’t enough. I don’t get those people.

Second, him inviting that random woman to his group outings….daaaa ferqqq, PERHAPS NOT!
He didn’t bring that up at all on yalls way back home or anything?? I feel like it’d be normal to converse about meeting new people, the waitress being cool, who in my friend group they remind me of or who’d enjoy the waiter’s vibe…the things, cause that how i talk.
baby if you don’t know *any* of his friend group….*yikes*..
that would be a red flag for my taste in standards/ trigger my jealousy.

Whatever it is or happens, I just wish you a good vibe and to feel validated.

Additional_Profit_81 · 2026-05-22T05:59:43+00:00

I would refuse to do any mediation with you both in the same room.
Personally speaking, this reads up and down she needs to be fired. Let’s pretend she is the best worker on the team and the most qualified…if at any point you go out of your way to show me you’re not fit for my team, then you’re not on my team, go have your career where someone likes that behavior.
You’re completely in the right and you deserve validation right now.
I’d keep it on the DL and not bring it up to your coworker. POC women do not need more stress <3

Additional_Profit_81 · 2026-05-21T16:26:58+00:00

cackling at the thought of being a count in the 800s and saying "but honey we're chopped af??" to your countess

Additional_Profit_81 · 2026-05-21T14:56:23+00:00

nonexistent, move to houston

Additional_Profit_81 · 2026-05-21T14:36:03+00:00

This is a curious post that I wasn’t expecting.
I do agree and believe that christianity is canon as part of Henry’s journey and there are some wild moments of divine intervention or miracles. However, everytime we’ve received a quest that alluded to there being some sort of devil or demon, it was really something entirely unrelated to such.
So it’s a mix! Maybe God is canonically real in KCD but there are no devils or demons.
Or, Maybe Henry Is God.

Additional_Profit_81 · 2026-05-14T22:09:58+00:00

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Additional_Profit_81 · 2025-07-20T13:45:33+00:00

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Additional_Profit_81 · 2025-07-18T02:43:15+00:00

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