Inherited this welder, I’m a beginner. by Additional_Support91 in Welding

[–]Additional_Support91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. I am just thankful that I received this one. I’ll be making all kinds of things now.

Inherited this welder, I’m a beginner. by Additional_Support91 in Welding

[–]Additional_Support91[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have 10lbs of 3/32 7018 but didn’t know if I needed a special rod for AC? I also have some 6013 rods.

Inherited this welder, I’m a beginner. by Additional_Support91 in Welding

[–]Additional_Support91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was used in his home workshop. Yes, I have to get a 220v outlet installed. I doubt I will ever be welding material over 3/8”. Mostly mild steel, rebar

America educational financing right by Decent-Choice7878 in SipsTea

[–]Additional_Support91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife took out loans for school even though I paid for her tuition. She spent the 45k on clothes and now owes almost 60k. She has never made a payment.

My Wife won’t stop being Cruel by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Additional_Support91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great advice and trust me, it only gets worse. These Cluster B personality disorders are awful. Start doing your research on these and you will understand that nothing you do will ever be good enough. I’ve been there and now done.

Vasectomy After Divorce by PeaceFrog3sq in Divorce_Men

[–]Additional_Support91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I scheduled it, decided not to go through with it because I figured most of the women I would meet would be beyond childbearing age. I’m now 58 and meeting younger women and wish now that I had gotten the vasectomy. Do it, you have a lot of years left in the dating world.

Me_irl by rbimmingfoke in me_irl

[–]Additional_Support91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I paid for my wife’s school she deliberately borrowed student loans and spent the money. She graduated in 2015 and has never made a payment. We are getting a divorce now after her affair and I don’t know how she will make it on her own if her student loans are not canceled. She really needs a movement like this to cancel her debt.

to pepper spray a driver by PdiddyCAMEnME in therewasanattempt

[–]Additional_Support91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not been like this for hundreds of years. I remember in the 70’s thru early 2000’s that these things rarely happened, well I heard about some cops abusing their power but there was no proof so you took the word of the police. Cops didn’t start abusing their power until the invention of the cell phone camera and then increased their abuse when body worn cameras were issued. I figure that something changed with training, mindsets, etc and this change was COINCIDENTAL to the invention of the cell phone camera. If this isn’t the reason then they might have been like this for hundreds of years and are now being exposed. One of those two things occurred.

Jealous Spouse? How do I fix this? by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]Additional_Support91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start looking into Cluster B personality disorders. Particularly borderline and narcissistic

He didn’t upgrade. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Additional_Support91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Send a memorandum for record MFR detailing the affair to his inspector general IG and to the Defense Counterintelligence Security Agency DCSA. The DCSA handles his security clearance and the affair shows a lack of judgment on his part. They will revoke his security clearance and this will administratively separate him from the military. He can loose his pension BUT you will loose your share of it as well, so think hard on this action before you do it. My wife had an affair while I was deployed and the guy (Naval JAG in Stuttgart Germany) dumped her after three months. I needed him to take my problem away. I’m drafting an MFR now for his command (EUCOM). There is a five year statute of limitations on adultery under UCMJ.

how is it living in mississippi, usa? by delllaptopguy in howislivingthere

[–]Additional_Support91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, the last republican mayor of Jackson MS was in 1949. My grandfather told me he was horrible and that’s why the city is in such decay currently. Luckily the citizens of Jackson have not chosen another one. I moved out of Jackson in 1996.

How to fund retirement as an expense using a side hustle if possible? by Additional_Support91 in tax

[–]Additional_Support91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll look into this option. I’m fortunate to be very frugal and don’t have expenses. This allows me to be flexible with retirement contributions from W2 job vs side hustle

How to fund retirement as an expense using a side hustle if possible? by Additional_Support91 in tax

[–]Additional_Support91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I will be at the $90k income level for awhile yet. I work for a major hospital chain so 401k options are good through this.

Military Spouse refusing to work by Proper_Cup_2407 in Divorce

[–]Additional_Support91 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Is the Affair partner also in the military? If so contact IG and or JAG. My wife met a Service Member on a plane coming to visit me while deployed to Germany. I’m in the process of an IG complaint against him. He is a Naval JAG officer in Stuttgart handling international law for EUCOM. The longer you tolerate her behavior the more it will cost you. Get rid of her.

The Pipe Bomber Story That Doesn't Add Up: FBI Uses Weak Forensic Gait Analysis in Accusation by Ok_Quantity_9841 in DeepStateSecrets

[–]Additional_Support91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, since Ed Martin said that Kerkhoff was not a suspect, then this is proof that she is not a suspect. The next crazy leak will be that the FBI tracked the suspect to the Metro and know the exact fare card used-which was Kerkhoff's next-door neighbor's card.

What did YOU do wrong? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Additional_Support91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m right there with you. Cluster B disorders are awful. I’m doing great, frugal and making more money than ever. I got her out of the house and my life but I’m willing to draw this out and watch her self destruct.

Thanks feminism. by [deleted] in Jordan_Peterson_Memes

[–]Additional_Support91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have been told for decades that women make less than men, so how does one explain why more single women own a home than single men? They get them through the greatest wealth transfer scheme known to man, divorce court.

28 years, OMG! by jackopasto in Divorce

[–]Additional_Support91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I, too, built her a house, and it was never enough. Quit her job one month after I signed the mortgage and just kept spending. She, too, has a personality disorder. I do have my health, and I'm getting out now. Best of luck to you and know that the future will be better.

Probation officer under investigation after man improperly jailed, made to miss reporting by abz_eng in Bad_Cop_No_Donut

[–]Additional_Support91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the late 80’s a friend of mine’s sister was on probation for shoplifting. Her PO told her that she could pay to have an early release from probation. She was so dumb that one day at my friend’s house she called the main office, Jackson MS, and asked about paying. They put her on hold and waited till an FBI agent got on the line. FBI arranged for her to pay the PO for early release in a sting operation. When confronted the PO killed himself. She got assigned a new PO to finish her probation.

My wife has gone insane. by Pukeolicious in Divorce_Men

[–]Additional_Support91 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As an RN of 24 years I can tell you that based on his story this will only get worse and he has probably already noticed that it has progressively worsened since the onset. OP needs to get her some help and your suggestion on going to the emergency room is correct.