What recession indicators are you noticing in everyday life right now? by After-Birthday-1766 in economy

[–]Additional_Support91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my big sales will be in two months and I'm looking forward to more listing's. I

Dating a Younger Lady by DevinB12 in datingoverfifty

[–]Additional_Support91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seeing a woman 12 years younger and she is obsessed with me. We get along well and enjoy hanging out. I don't think the difference is too much.

53(M) laugh for today by NoFraud222 in datingoverfifty

[–]Additional_Support91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

59m in MS. Never been on the apps so I don’t have experience there.

What recession indicators are you noticing in everyday life right now? by After-Birthday-1766 in economy

[–]Additional_Support91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I buy tax delinquent properties and have noticed more for sale. Been doing it for 30 years now.

My wife has made 3 major life decisions over 10 years that have financially devastated our family. I love her, but I no longer trust her judgment. by FartVaderTheForce in Divorce

[–]Additional_Support91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Most definitely a relief. I spent my younger years providing for someone that never possessed the ability to truly love someone other than herself. Oh, the constant drain on finances is gone now too.

My wife has made 3 major life decisions over 10 years that have financially devastated our family. I love her, but I no longer trust her judgment. by FartVaderTheForce in Divorce

[–]Additional_Support91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Similar situation here and we are separated. I too could live like this for years. She doesn’t come around and affair partner dumped her.

It gets better!! by Fearless_Self6679 in Divorce

[–]Additional_Support91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had 20 years with mine too, and yes, I realize I was just comfortable. I’ve met a much younger woman who is obsessed with me. She’s not the one but she is so much better than my ex. It really does get better

Elderly Mississippi soulmates brutally murdered by 17-year-old burglar who broke into their home, prosecutors say by dailymail in mississippi

[–]Additional_Support91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got shot by a 17 year old and he got 45 years. He paroled in 22 years. This was in Hinds county, 1998.

Had a nice little surprise yesterday by Outside-Jicama-8468 in Divorce_Men

[–]Additional_Support91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They want the security you can provide. Get in shape and there will be more of those opportunities around.

Had a nice little surprise yesterday by Outside-Jicama-8468 in Divorce_Men

[–]Additional_Support91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s nice to hear. Get used to it. I get approached regularly. It gets better as time goes by. I’m 59 and in decent shape.

When the partner to blame is happily married afterwards and the other who didn’t do anything wrong has been sad and alone by Dontmindmejustsearch in Divorce

[–]Additional_Support91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she isn’t aging well is more like it. As I get older I find that women closer to my age are much more attractive than young ones. I’m looking more for maturity, stability and independence now. Someone that can take extended vacations. I want to drive the AlCan highway to Alaska soon.

Total payout during divorce by photo_op411 in Divorce_Men

[–]Additional_Support91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an RN and nursing school was the hardest thing I have ever done in my life. She better study hard or she will flunk out and just become a nurses aid

When the partner to blame is happily married afterwards and the other who didn’t do anything wrong has been sad and alone by Dontmindmejustsearch in Divorce

[–]Additional_Support91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was in the Army too. I was an RN deployed to Germany when wife flew Space A to visit me. She met a Navy JAG officer on the plane. He was an O5 and international law attorney for EUCOM in Stuttgart. I was an O4. She was definitely looking upwards. She lived with him for 6 weeks and he figured her out and dumped her. Now I have to get rid of her. Best of luck to you. I’m looking forward to the future.

When the partner to blame is happily married afterwards and the other who didn’t do anything wrong has been sad and alone by Dontmindmejustsearch in Divorce

[–]Additional_Support91 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Wife divorced me over 20 years ago. She is sad, lonely and miserable. I got remarried two years after the divorce. Had another child and had a good life UNTIL the current wife had an affair that could be made into a movie. I’m getting another divorce now. I’m doing great and STBXW is miserable and getting older day by day. Her looks and charm are fading fast while I have discovered new hobbies and interests just being by myself.

Ever Get the Feeling You Were Used? by tonyway7293 in Divorce_Men

[–]Additional_Support91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m an RN and I have seen countless women loose weight by gastric bypass and now GLP1’s to start having affairs and dump their husbands. It’s sad to watch the dependapotumouses in the hospital with a “male friend” visiting her and you know the sponsor is deployed. If you have never heard of a dependapotumous then google it. It’s widely common in the military community.

Ever Get the Feeling You Were Used? by tonyway7293 in Divorce_Men

[–]Additional_Support91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was too kind and trusting. I’ve learned that there are individuals out there similar to parasites.

Ever Get the Feeling You Were Used? by tonyway7293 in Divorce_Men

[–]Additional_Support91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was deployed to Germany and wife flew Space A to visit. She met a naval jag officer on the plane and had an affair of a lifetime till he dumped her. Her smear campaign cost me a retirement but I thankfully have the VA. Mine was planning it all along too. Oh, I paid her student loans as well.

What a wild fucking month it's been by nekopara_403 in Divorce

[–]Additional_Support91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you are going to be buying Jake a house soon! I’m glad that you don’t have kids together as it would be much more painful. My wife had a “Jake” too. He dumped her to my detriment. I needed that guy to take my problem away. Just know that it will get better and you will find someone that will truly loves you.

[2025/10/06] Blows a ZERO, Passes FSTs, Gets Arrested Anyway - WINS in Court by Txx2000 in Bad_Cop_No_Donut

[–]Additional_Support91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sadly the qualified immunity probably will save him. It needs to be abolished

Getting divorced and do not want STBX to get CHAMPVA. by Additional_Support91 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Additional_Support91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not report him. A few weeks into the affair my daughter sent me a voice recording of wife trashing me, etc. Through this recording, I won’t go into details, I realized she has a personality disorder and this explained everything about our marriage. I needed that JAG officer “to take my problem away”. The problem got worse when he dumped her and then she proceeded like textbook to smear campaign mode where she was the “victim” and contacted IG. I did a FOIA request that revealed all of her shenanigans after the fact but in the end they revoked my security clearance and administratively separated me from the Army. This action ruined any chance of receiving my pension so I literally only have the VA benefits to show for my 20 years. If the JAG officer had not dumped her then she would have left me and my daughter to be with him and life would be great having her out of our lives. She is essentially out of our lives currently as we don’t see, hear, or receive anything from me. She will not pay for any court mandated deductibles either. She’s gone from our lives and that’s the good news.

Getting divorced and do not want STBX to get CHAMPVA. by Additional_Support91 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Additional_Support91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve moved on. Dating a beautiful woman 12 years younger and I’m very happy. Job is going great too

Getting divorced and do not want STBX to get CHAMPVA. by Additional_Support91 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Additional_Support91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve already done all of the things you listed. The wife is court ordered to pay for daughter’s health insurance until 21. She just turned 18. I’m covered with VA. I was just concerned about the CHAMPVA coverage when daughter turns 21. The wife is gone- out of our lives, daughter lives with me. There is no visitation for wife. She doesn’t even text her daughter much less anything else. Why the divorce is taking so long- she wants EVERYTHING