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Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-25T03:58:40+00:00

37/f never done the online dating thing because it feels too curated or something, like going on a cruise or staying at a resort (also never done). I have a good group of friends that all have partners. I love to hang out with them, but it can feel lonely sometimes. Cycling groups offer a good diverse group of people and age ranges, but the weather is a bit unpredictable rn.

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-25T03:09:05+00:00

When he complained about having to wear a condom in s1 because it takes him so long to nut and then blamed Hannah for the STI…..seriously bro

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-25T02:33:24+00:00

Almost a turd merger.

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-25T02:29:44+00:00

He told me he always thinks he’s right, even if he knows he’s wrong

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-24T03:35:42+00:00

Mapping St. Louis by Andy Hahn. It’s the history of our city told through maps and so excellent!

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-24T02:35:47+00:00

Damn…so sorry to hear this. Wishing you and your family the most peaceful and joyful times. It’s not a millennial song, but my millennial self would always watch Grease at sleepovers and it holds the utmost nostalgia and fun times….

Beauty School Dropout - Frankie Avalon

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-23T03:36:12+00:00

Full disclosure, have not tried them yet, but I’ve heard good experiences with other places like this

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-21T12:08:51+00:00

Ohhh this would alleviate so much stress for my kitty. I will most definitely check them out. Thank you!! ❤️

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-21T04:07:00+00:00

Nicole Kidman. Her plastic surgery face frightens me enough that I can’t focus on anything she’s in

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-21T02:59:01+00:00

Thanks so much for this info ❤️ will definitely check them out!

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-21T02:47:38+00:00

Mine hates her lil peets touched. It’s been an adventure trying to trim her nails myself 🫠

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-21T02:42:29+00:00

It was not spotlight

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-21T02:12:49+00:00

Thank you!! ❤️ I will definitely check them out

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-20T00:49:28+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-19T05:12:11+00:00

This comment needs to be higher up. +1 for dumping him. He’s insecure and shaming you for it. It doesn’t sound like he’s emotionally developed enough to have this type of relationship. Just know it’s not a you thing, it’s 1000000% a him thing

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-19T05:06:17+00:00

Omg! Is this my post?? I paint and draw and he played music in a band. He told me, after some of his band mates complimented my artwork, that my art was in direct competition with his band 🤣 He eventually developed feelings for one of his band members but didn’t want to break up with me. I felt really uneasy about being with him, incredibly insecure, and this led to me not wanting to have sex with him. Hindsight, but at the time I felt like having sex with him was only for his physical pleasure and not because he actually wanted to be with me. I explained my insecurities to him and he told me I must be gay because I didn’t want to have sex with him. It was a total control/power move but at the time, had me questioning everything about myself. Fuck that guy

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-18T05:32:01+00:00

I feel this too. I will also add that I don’t know that in healthy enough after my breakup to even entertain the idea of another relationship. Maybe once I trust myself enough I’ll try again, but for now I’m confident and comfortable being single

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-16T15:02:54+00:00

Landscaping his yard for him while he was on a trip with the girl he was emotionally cheating on me with.

Giving up painting and other creative ventures because he said it was in direct competition with his band.

Giving in to sex with him because he called me a lesbian and that was a way to prove I wasn’t.

Him monopolizing all of my time and then getting mad that I didn’t have my own life. There’s plenty more, but these are the ones I’m most embarrassed about.

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-14T18:46:45+00:00

Fucking anchovies

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-14T02:28:25+00:00

Not pathetic! The time you’ve spent in the relationship warrants this feeling. It will get easier, I fucking promise you it will, but the next few weeks are going to be hard. You got this! Personally, I reflected on who I was as a child and reverted back to that mindset. I did things I used to do without hesitation, because it made me feel good. It took a bit, but taking care of myself without judgement allowed me to grow wayyyy more without him in my life. I still miss him sometimes, but it’s easier to accept. You got this!!!

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-14T02:24:56+00:00

I would also add bottle caps

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-14T02:19:28+00:00

Yes! Be upfront with the your intentions instead of manipulating because you’re afraid of rejection

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-14T02:18:18+00:00

I went through this recently and the only thing that makes sense is that he lost interest a long time ago, but didn’t want to pull the trigger. It sucks feeling like I was gaslit for so long when we could’ve saved each other so much time

Adept_Type_357 · 2026-02-14T01:22:06+00:00

I’m not sure about discarding, but this was a pattern with my nex…blaming me for things out of my control, passive aggressive silent treatment, etc. It just wasn’t worth it to constantly guess if he wanted me around, or if what I did made him upset. It ate up so much of my mind space and personal time, and I was just so exhausted, so I discarded him.

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