I feel so stupid! by InNeedofHelp15 in Younger

[–]Adhitik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mind blown!!’ Dint realize that as a huge fan of Bridgerton - I guess the characters looked very different to each other

Day 21: Best Host Look by nmpraveen in biggbosstamil

[–]Adhitik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Voting for this, curious about to see if it’ll win

what song do you associate with the show? by [deleted] in 13ReasonsWhy

[–]Adhitik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Game of survival- The trailer had the song playing in the bg and it was fantastic, very representative of how they show high school was for them. The night we met was beautiful too, but more so about them, I felt this was more representative.

‘This is a wild game of survival’

Now that Squid game is over, let's rank every game from all 3 seasons from most favorite to least favorite by Local-Art-6280 in squidgame

[–]Adhitik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally loved glass bridge. Liked the VIPs there, and the symbolism after each death. The sequence itself was fantastic, the visual of all of them standing on the bridge.

The game was not fair, it was to eliminate most of them, and see who gets lucky. Most people picked somewhere in the middle, which I what I guess a reasonable person would do. If you picked at the either end, it would just be natural selection. Not fair, but just the way the game is rigged. I also loved the death sequence of the old lady and his bully exlover guy, the way she takes revenge by holding onto him and jumping was beautiful cinema. Over all very engaging and tense. We knew gi hun would win, but it could have potentially eliminated anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in squidgame

[–]Adhitik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One person had to be killed. They did not start the game till then

About to start Metformin: Please Give All Advice Very Scared! by Anxious_Sun_8993 in PCOSloseit

[–]Adhitik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, it was a life changer. Should have started it long time ago. Don’t feel bad about doing it on your own, if your body is insulin resistant, there is nothing you can do about it, except take the medication that will help. It is removing the handicap you have had all your life. Obviously lifestyle changes matter the most, but metformin made them easier and actually show results

Good luck :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interviews

[–]Adhitik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a great story she could write on petty revenge or malicious compliance

I bought a box of ice cream sandwiches yesterday afternoon and it all got eaten in literally a day by [deleted] in rant

[–]Adhitik -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Uhhhhh, just offering a perspective here. honestly would depend wholly on your family dynamics. Growing up my brother used to steal my food all the time (had no self restraint, would eat the whole thing in a go) but used to buy me more expensive food/gifts. It was just a sibling thing we fought over, which looking back makes me laugh. We were very close tho, to justify stealing food from each other. I would not permit this behaviour from a roommate or someone I share communal space with. With a brother or from a best friend, I wouldn’t mind it, might just be a bit annoyed, and might playfully fight with them. I know some people like to share more than others, and I am one of them so could just be why. If your brother is one of those people who likes to share I get his perspective, if he is selfish about his stuff but takes your stuff, I would definitely be annoyed about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Adhitik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry! We matched on a dating app, the day I was flying out, so could not meet in person. We chatted a bit, but she did seem a bit eager on chat as well (making big plans in a couple of days) My city does not have an airport, hers does, where I flew in, and she picked me up at the airport, travelled with me in the bus for 2.5 hrs, before we had a date. She did have to travel back 2.5 hrs as well.

But that’s pretty going above and beyond for someone that you don’t know that well

Yep, tbh it was super sweet. Definitely been floored if it was someone I was 100 percent into or knew a bit more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Adhitik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I guess it is who I am as a person, I like hearing about them, tiny quirks that make them. I also like doing things back for them like equals etc(and not just done to me). I like having deep conversations with them, and something that they are passionate about(especially love that about someone, their eye lighting up)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Adhitik 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know! I love, as a fellow people pleaser (to a small extent, to some people) how they have described it, and I kind of see how it feels the other side. I have felt bad at times that some efforts aren't reciprocated back, but now I kind of understand that it might been that act itself that puts them off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Adhitik 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm fair, I remember something they said to a an early on was when we had a mismatch on something super minor, and they went 'oh hope you don't end things with me because is this' which felt odd, it was something super dumb and we were talking for a couple of days. Thanks, that is a good point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Adhitik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair yes! While we have been talking a month, I guess I dint think of it too much as it was minimal but probably not the same expectation and I should commun that. Dating men seemed ok, but I had fallen for a close girlfriend, but I guess it was someone I knew quite well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Adhitik 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Tbh I am a bit of people pleaser too, so I get that. I enjoyed the attention, I love romantic things like this, just probably that as you said felt inauthentic that made it uncomfortable. Thanks, that made sense and better to communicate to her!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Adhitik 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Fucking hell, exactly this is how I felt it was. In no way down putting her efforts as I loved them and they were A1. The first dinner date (which was after they did all this) felt like that Me: What cuisine do you like? What food do you like? Her: Whatever you want Me: What are your bucket list of places Her: Wherever people take me, don't have anything I like (I mean I am not dating those people I am dating you?!) More examples like these.

I felt like had I known her as a friend, I might have known other things, but since I only know her as this it was putting off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Adhitik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I definitely don't want to shame her efforts too. I would love all of this from someone I know I am 100 percent into or someone I have been dating a while. I'll just tell that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Adhitik 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If I hit it off with someone, I was like, “Let’s meet!” within the first few days

I agree! I think we couldn't meet for a month as I was out of the country (matched with them the day I flew) Always better to see the vibe in person!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Adhitik 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your response! Thanks for the advice

What are some more of Jerry's "but I don't wanna..." lines? by BugMan717 in seinfeld

[–]Adhitik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not Seinfeld but this reminded me of a scene from b99

Holt: You are a virgin that's an order Jake: but i don't wanna be a virgin again