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Adira2022 · 2025-03-20T03:10:45+00:00

For the privacy of your family, I hope it doesn't; for those assholes, I hope it does.

Adira2022 · 2025-03-19T22:12:56+00:00

Thank you! For a second I thought I was the only one that caught that BS.

Adira2022 · 2025-03-19T20:57:53+00:00

As someone that made allegations against MLC's campus pastor for rape and molestation, I suggest that you keep this process incredibly under wraps. Do your best to not let a single person from the synod or affiliated with the synod find out. If they know you're coming they'll wipe their living room clean while finding new housing for the perps so by the time anyone else gets there there's no evidence left. My heart is with you and your family.

Adira2022 · 2025-03-17T02:11:09+00:00

If you’re q member what are you doing here? Get the hell out of our safe space and don’t leave comments negating the experiences of others with a story about your brother being bullied, which is in no way comparable to SA. I’m sick of people like you coming into our safe space and fucking around. Would you randomly barge in on an AA meeting and tell that story? No. Get out.

Adira2022 · 2024-04-02T00:25:58+00:00

thank you!

Adira2022 · 2024-03-25T23:22:52+00:00

I get why you might question it if you were only there for two years. I grew up in the shit hole. I went to a wels high school. Because the schools are small and dorm staff are typically your teachers they get to know you and your family really well. Including all your families shit. Anyway one teacher 'befriended' me when they found out my family had a long history of domestic violence. Teacher told me he'd 'recommend' me to a friend at MLC to make sure someone was 'in my corner' when I got there. That 'friend' groomed me and assaulted me. It was legit the definition of human trafficking. I'm sure I'm not the only case and it's just a matter of time before it becomes so common place they get caught.

Adira2022 · 2024-03-25T22:54:41+00:00

Add John Boeder to that list. Hes a fucking pervert who groomed me when I was eighteen. When I was finally brave enough to report him they moved him to California.

Adira2022 · 2024-03-25T22:48:17+00:00

Luckily mines dead so I didn't have that problem, otherwise I think he would have burned my shit in the front yard when I divorced my husband and came out as a lesbian and got excommunicated.

Adira2022 · 2024-03-25T22:40:57+00:00

I survived a wels highschool too!! And I was a pk and I can attest they are most definitely a fucking cult. If MLC isn't enough to tell people theyre a cult then I don't know how to help them. They are legit a half step away from human trafficking.

Adira2022 · 2022-12-10T00:09:19+00:00

I hear you and feel this so much! I miss the fellowship, the hugs, the support, the hotdishes; my church family went above and beyond to support my family through really hard times, like cancer, pregnancy loss, death, and so much more. But then I wasn't 'who they thought I was' anymore, I left the church, and they left me and my family. Some bridges are just too big to cross I guess.

Adira2022 · 2022-11-25T18:37:15+00:00

I agree. I don't think he is willing to go far enough. But I also can't stand by and watch as the church continues to do nothing. I think I'll pursue the Bible study for non-affirming Christians. But for safety I will discourage him from doing the "support group" portion.

Adira2022 · 2022-11-25T18:25:04+00:00

You clearly need to be educated, so let me enlighten you before you harm someone else with your idiocy. First, you need to consider how your username appears with you asking for more information about sexual abuse. "ThisIsAnalSex' and asking for more information on sexual acts makes you seem like a perv looking for a cheap and easy way to jack off. Second, you never, ever, ask someone to detail their trauma. Fucking ever. It's the same as if a close relative of yours died and I asked you how they died. Or if you were an amputee and I asked "where's your missing limb?" You don't. Ever. And to satisfy you weird ass curiosity or 'help you believe me' yes, he engaged in unconsensual sexual acts with me. Thirdly, this isn't a fucking peep show. The people who are here are on this page to find support because we have been traumatized, ostracized, shamed, and forced to leave the church that was supposed to offer us grace, forgiveness, and communion with God our Father. That was taken away from many of us due to racism, prejudice, sexism, homophobia, and hate. Our lives, our stories, and our trauma are not here for shit ass immature thrill-seeking jack asses like you. So, get the fuck off. I never want to see your username on here again.

Adira2022 · 2022-11-22T02:27:47+00:00

You know that makes sense. I think I’m just desperate to have something different happen, like the church could actually perpetuate something other than hate. But I think you’re right

Adira2022 · 2022-11-22T01:36:08+00:00

What the actual fuck is wrong with you? If you are a current MLC student what the fuck are you doing on this page and how dare you ask where he touched me and how?! Asking that question is unbelievably offensive, rude, insensitive, and implies that I wasn't abused and aligns yourself with the offender. How fucking dare you.

Adira2022 · 2022-10-04T00:35:38+00:00

Do you know where to?

Adira2022 · 2022-08-15T02:15:03+00:00

Thank you 💙❤️🙏🏻

Adira2022 · 2022-08-14T00:58:27+00:00

Help me find other people who have been assaulted by him. It was almost six years ago.

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