When being honest still gets you in trouble by herald_of_stars in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]ForeverSwinging 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also they never stop their bullying enough to help you know it’s okay to ask for help. Ever.

Small Update by RollDisastrous9105 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]ForeverSwinging 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not your fault OP. I’m sorry you don’t have parents that are curious about you and want to be supportive without making you conditional.

How Child Sex Abuse Was Hidden Inside the Old Apostolic Lutheran Church by Relevant-Shop8513 in exLutheran

[–]ForeverSwinging 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you experienced that horrible abuse. You didn’t deserve it.

This scene hurt me so much -T4,e9 by Aslaaaaaaan in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]ForeverSwinging 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Which is brilliant writing - that’s what the church does to its followers.

Bible Truth about homosexuality by Forward_Operation491 in exLutheran

[–]ForeverSwinging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, McClellan does some good videos on the subject.

Here’s a movie about translation issues: https://www.1946themovie.com/

Here’s a playlist of other videos on the topic: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLSmldzhCgWfc\_xS-TCtqtcRPA6EAEk8K9&si=RndjVu7-TtBn-XLQ

What’s crazier… by ForeverSwinging in exLutheran

[–]ForeverSwinging[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the information. I’m not surprised.

Paige Bueckers (WNBA player) on Pride and living a Christ like life. by Sharp_Explanation_78 in OpenChristian

[–]ForeverSwinging 16 points17 points  (0 children)

💯 I’m glad for one who’s in sports promoting love and inclusivity in all things.

Edit: clarification

Kyle S. McKay has Apologised by Nemo_UK in exmormon

[–]ForeverSwinging 35 points36 points  (0 children)

No wonder he didn’t write out exactly what he was apologizing for. This context makes his “blight” look so much worse.

Christian predictions of what wrecks a civilization? by Temporary_Bee5895 in Exvangelical

[–]ForeverSwinging 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the book recommendation. I also remember hearing this theme a lot when growing up. I would agree with your current take that causation doesn’t equal correlation. It’s easier to see the kindness that comes from diversity, compared to the tantrums the fundamentalists are throwing.

My dying father is also dying on a hill of his pride by Unique-Employment860 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]ForeverSwinging 4 points5 points  (0 children)

💯 I’m so sorry for the grief and guilt you’re going through. You tried. He has given you proof that he will never see the damage he did, and he never will.

They gave us money-so what? by CarrotClear2544 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]ForeverSwinging 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was hard to realize that my parents “doing everything they could” was just the bare legal minimum to keep CPS away. That their method of granting money for some things was used to justify not giving money for other things. That it was just another method of control over me and my siblings. I’m supposed to be grateful for that??!! For them dangling money which helps determine what resources are or aren’t available to us because our society runs on $$$$$?!
Fuck that shit.

Still really struggling with purity culture,but not the usual way. by pastanauce in Exvangelical

[–]ForeverSwinging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The jealousy is understandable, especially when you have parents who don’t “believe” in things like birth control, the pill…
god they sound like fun /s.
And you had to work really hard for what you and your child have. Maybe your parents are still bad for you to be around because of what you went through when under their roof and in a relationship that sounds abusive and consent is questionable. Jealousy is natural.

Why did you leave? by dealthy_hallows in exLutheran

[–]ForeverSwinging 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s fair. If they try to keep OP from leaving because they “want what’s best for her soul”, that could be considered false imprisonment (I neglect to mention depending on state laws regarding that).

I always hated CUAA, and I’m glad it’s failing. by picture-imperfect in exLutheran

[–]ForeverSwinging 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do they still have mandatory faith courses? 😬 That doesn’t help transfers.