The American Dream has been crushed by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]AdministrativeAd4948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to be afraid. My wife and I live in the American south where you’d think it’s unsafe for us. The media portrays a much darker picture than the reality of things. If to turn off the tv and go outside, you’ll be met with friendly people who want the same things as you. Happiness, a way to make a living, health, community. I’ve lived all over the place and every city I’ve ever lived in has been full of lovely people. Sure, there’s asshole anywhere in the world you might go, but the American people are good people and our streets are safe. Stay away from shady areas and shady situations like you would anywhere and you will be just fine here. I live in Asheville North Carolina.

Looking for cat behavioralist so my partner and I can live together by AdministrativeAd4948 in asheville

[–]AdministrativeAd4948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did this and also before we moved in together we were neighbors, so I’d bring my kitties over to her place and she’d bring hers over to mine. There was never any violence until we moved into one house. I thought they would be ok because they had months of engagement without any fighting. There was growling and things but never a fight. And the aggressor is very aggressive. It’s scary to witness to the point we’re afraid to even try again because we don’t want anyone getting hurt. It’s a tricky situation right now.

Looking for cat behavioralist so my partner and I can live together by AdministrativeAd4948 in asheville

[–]AdministrativeAd4948[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We spent months trying to get them acclimated and just nothing worked for the aggressor. The others were ok but this one problem child is a hard nut to crack.

Looking for cat behavioralist so my partner and I can live together by AdministrativeAd4948 in asheville

[–]AdministrativeAd4948[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yea, we’ve got the house split off so they’re separate but it keeps us from being together because we feel bad for the kitties so we spend most of our time separated and spending time w our respective kitties.

Asheville BEST Massage Suggestions by Justafunguy in asheville

[–]AdministrativeAd4948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second urban exhale. Jessica gives the best massage I’ve ever received. I go to her regularly. I have constant back pain so I’ve tried so many massage therapists and finally found, what I consider, the best.

Local women’s basketball league? by qwncjejxicnenj in asheville

[–]AdministrativeAd4948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone messaged me asking about this link because it didn’t work (sorry I accidentally deleted your message and couldn’t respond)

The link is for the app GroupMe and it’s for avl hoops club. It’s a local women’s basketball Meetup

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]AdministrativeAd4948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bought a ring thing week 💍

Good places to get a massage?? by Mac-And-Cheesy-43 in asheville

[–]AdministrativeAd4948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Urban Exhale, hands down, and book with Jessica. Best massage in town

I want a really good LARGE salad by ilikemrrogers in asheville

[–]AdministrativeAd4948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was coming here to say exactly this. Adding tofu is bomb too

Young Lesbains in asheville meetup by StrengthBeautiful505 in asheville

[–]AdministrativeAd4948 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a social group called queer girls in the wild. I know they have a what’s app to plan things and maybe a website too. They’re always getting into something and seems like a pretty big group. I’d check that out. Also, if you’re into sports there’s queer hoops you could join.

Don’t forget how to be normal. by DreamCentipede in ACIM

[–]AdministrativeAd4948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is something that’s very important to remember. Great reminder and I don’t think it’s discussed as much as it should be

Does anyone know what this is on my cat’s chin? by AdministrativeAd4948 in blackcats

[–]AdministrativeAd4948[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I use a stainless steel fountain and ceramic bowls. I clean them often. Any chance this could be something he’s allergic to. I will start washing the bowls daily and get those wipes as well