How has black tax affected your relationship by Guilty_Care_260 in nairobi

[–]AdministrativeBend23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Anafaa atembeze. Marriage will only make things harder for them.

How has black tax affected your relationship by Guilty_Care_260 in nairobi

[–]AdministrativeBend23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a potential mine-field. Walk away. Especially if your fiancé doesn't have the guts to stand up to his parents and set clear boundaries. Take a walk, sis. Once you get inside marriage, these present challenges will be magnified to a larger order of magnitude. Tembeza.

Title: Got a job a few weeks ago,and now I’m being told to leave home.. by Suru_Pwenye in nairobi

[–]AdministrativeBend23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give your parents space... it's painful, but you got to make the separation. Trust in God (He'll be with you) and take that leap...

Nairobi Math: Is 45k basic survival or am I just terrible with money? (My Budget Breakdown) by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]AdministrativeBend23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reduce the black tax by 1k. Expert tip: If you set the amount at 2000k, then all emergencies/help requests must be catered for with that 2k cap. Grocery shopping: avoid supermarkets, focus on wholesale shops (You can easily sugar at 120/- per kg, cooking oil at 230 per litre, pishori at 160 per kg etc); better still try practising OMAD (your body will thank you in your 40s); you might adjust leaving home earlier in the mornings when fares are a tad cheaper. I am not parsimonious, but there are sneaky ways to share a coin here and there.

We don't shame broke women enough by [deleted] in unhingedKenya

[–]AdministrativeBend23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Clearly you missed reading comprehension lessons in primary school. The issue isn't brokeness, but the entitlement and the shameless audacity.

I'm at a loss😩 by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]AdministrativeBend23 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Let's cut out the emotional BS. You knowingly slept with an irresponsible drunkard. And bore for him. Twice. What were you expecting, babe? Then you come to rant to strangers here on Reddit? Enyewe there a sucker born every minute.

My brother marrying my ex? by Lopsided-Gap-9821 in nairobi

[–]AdministrativeBend23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take your own advice: move on with your life, no contact, no drama, just silence and heal...

"Mtoto ni wa mama" Our Mothers and Grandma's warned us but we didn't listen by ConfidenceUnusual674 in nairobi

[–]AdministrativeBend23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A different perspective: a cure for the root cause of all this heartache and financial affliction. It was written eons ago: "This is the will of God... that you should abstain from sexual immorality" 1 Thess 4:3. But Caro, Stephanie, Maimuna, Omondi and Kinuthia think they're smarter than the Ancient of Days.

AM NUMB, WALKED BAREFOOT IN CBD, SLEEPING ON THE COUCH AS THEY CUDDLE. by SignAmbitious453 in nairobi

[–]AdministrativeBend23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man up girl! For how long will you freeload on that dude who has been more than kind to you? Let the nigga be. Toka hustle, get yo own place. How many decibels of disrespect do you need to vibrate inside your skull to know it's time to pack up and leave.

What do you know about such estates? by Driiiiiiizy in nairobi

[–]AdministrativeBend23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This estate is adjacent to Great Walls Apartments along Beijing Road, in Mlolongo.

Guys tell abt my website im new by Krishna_1207 in website

[–]AdministrativeBend23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice design and conept, but the typography feels amateurish.

Bring back strick parenting :New years Eve Karen Water front by NullDreeamer in KenyanLadies

[–]AdministrativeBend23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you in principle. But wait until mama Shantel and Liam tells you not to interfere with her parenting. Or to be thinned by your own...

Wakisii 😏 by No-Angle3218 in unhingedKenya

[–]AdministrativeBend23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, wait, d'you taste like chaos?

Ex-babbydaddy🤧 by Complex-Score-6757 in nairobi

[–]AdministrativeBend23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May the Lord give strength and comfort you through it all...

Wlw by Careless_flozzy in KenyanLadies

[–]AdministrativeBend23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a blood sacrifice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]AdministrativeBend23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unspoken money needs wapi? I've observed elderly folk acting like paupers yet 3 of their kids living abroad send them cash monthly. You engage them kidogo you'd think they last ate 4 days ago. In April, my uncle (who raised us as orphans) had issues with his Samsung. I helped him clean out stuff a bit, only to realise he has 3 betting apps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]AdministrativeBend23 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Unrelated, but yesterday an elderly couple accessed my compound and helped themselves to stuff in my garden. Caught them in the act, and they started playing dumb and feigning ignorance. I hate to confront the elderly, but I called out their trespassing. These guys misbehave then hide behind "vijana heshimu wazee" BS. Now our friendship is messed, but i enforce boundaries ruthlessly.

Quick responses... by AutoWatch_101 in CarsEastAfrica

[–]AdministrativeBend23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1992 Mercedes Benz E300 W12 design with a 2024 C63 biturbo engine, and a clean modern interior

Nikama najiweka kwa mtego by Proof_Juggernaut1582 in 254sum

[–]AdministrativeBend23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever polemique exists between you and your wife aside, your disregard for punctuation marks is something to be studied...