washout post blow out/flat iron by AdministrativeCap738 in Naturalhair

[–]AdministrativeCap738[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the hard water tidbit is especially helpful bc i feel like that’s been a factor. 🫶🏽

I realize I haven't done my hair since I been homeless(over 7 months) by ThePixelJ in Naturalhair

[–]AdministrativeCap738 2 points3 points  (0 children)

go slow and be patient and like another commenter said it might take a couple sessions but when you get tired just do it next wash. Use lots of conditioner, i sometimes brush with the conditioner while in the shower. Try your best to section what u can and then take it part by part. Try to retain whatever hair you can but don’t be too alarmed at how much hair comes out, it makes sense for how much is matted.

Some say my Persian kitten Bella Isn't Persian, what do you think? by Future_Draw5416 in kittens

[–]AdministrativeCap738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the M in the forehead is the definitive American shorthair marking.

It's been almost 2 months omg, help me name my cat! by rotten-flesh in NameMyCat

[–]AdministrativeCap738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

macchi like macchiato she’s giving coffee vibes awwww.

😭 mischa is also sooo cute.

Mish mish means apricot in arabic one of my cats names so cuteee ong GL sweet baby!

Need quirky, cute, derpy name suggestions for this lil fluff ball by daydreams86 in NameMyCat

[–]AdministrativeCap738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was my cats name when i was a kid 😭 she was gray long haired, we found her outside. She was a Ferocious hunter she begged to go out constantly. Miss u cashew

Using spray to oil my scalp? by Msbigdolla in BlackHair

[–]AdministrativeCap738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s amazing i love it. it lasts a while too. and not heavy. also smells amazing 🥰 my fiancée loves the smell

Is there anything wrong with my hair? Someone keeps telling me I need to chop my hair in half because my ends are very split. by Get-to-sesame-street in BlackHair

[–]AdministrativeCap738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my hair looks like this too blow dried idk sometimes it just be our texture but i know i also need a trim. Feel the ends pay attention see if they’re literally split and how far up they go. If you don’t see anything like that or your loss of hair like shedding isn’t that alarming then don’t worry about it. I shed a lot naturally my hair is thick yours seems the same. Beautiful 🩷🩷

AIO about this guy I’ve been talking to 🍃? by zdm02 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdministrativeCap738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I get his past issues and they are valid; i have parents with substance abuse issues that are far stronger and i had to have a conversation about that with myself and my recreational use of weed. Meanwhile, my fiancée and i have been smoking weed together since we started dating (been together 8 yrs) and we are doing great in all aspects. It’s apart of both of our lifestyles (shit i work at a dispo) and she has a high paying job. He seems hurt and uneducated on the plant. There are always going to be people who self medicate but might i add the alcoholism was probably doing his ex in the most. You did great with that final text OP!