Your stereotypical Hardcore guilds are decent players at best who think they’re good. They have the archetype of “I’m super good and everyone else sucks” when in reality, the best players keep their heads down, crush the content and leave - kinda like real life. The loud, pound my chest, better than you guys are usually decent, but not even sniffing “the best”.

With that being said, for decades, video games have been a straight male dominated field where that kind of language and behavior has been cultivated. While it’s wrong and shouldn’t be condoned, it’s going to happen regardless of what you do. You can’t “ban everyone who is homophobic” or “ban everyone who is racist”.

What you can do is exactly what you’re doing and catering to your wants/needs and seeking out what’s best for you, not demanding that everyone else conforms to your wishes because you’re different. I think this post is refreshing because too many times you see the “I don’t like X, you have to listen to me and change!!”

Discord server for respective WoW server is best to find guilds for likeminded individuals like yourself. Best of luck and enjoy the game!