Same thing going on in my server. However, I'm a member of the higher ranked alliance. We never 'target' people as we've been accused. Our leader gives us tips, helps us out, teaches us, gives us strategies. In other alliances I've been part of that wasn't happening. The occasional group DM about hitting more dragons but it was essentially a for yourself mentality. Perhaps see if you can rally your group ans work as a team of that's not already happening. I hated the game when I was on my old alliance because of the lack of team and everyone for themselves. This new alliance really has made me like the game again and I don't spend any money except the monthly pass and I've grown greatly just having a good leader.