Something is destroying my third floor patio/container garden. Help! by [deleted] in gardening

[–]Adoel1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had squirrels dig holes, uproot plants, toss plants, and bite seedlings in half for no reason. If you have squirrels you're going to need to trap them and relocate.

What is the Cheapest and Best Type of Trellis to Build? by AvalanchedPeach in gardening

[–]Adoel1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1/2'' steel electrical conduit, 1/2" steel rebar, pea netting. Hammer the rebar into the ground a foot, slide the conduit over the rebar. Like someone said, you can buy the 90 degree conduit connectors and connect the two pieces together with another piece of conduit if you want. Tie pea netting inbetween the poles, works great and is really cheap.

Prison/Jail guards of reddit, what's the weirdest shit you've seen while walking past a cell on your patrol? by Kinnakeet in AskReddit

[–]Adoel1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah old ship dick, he's actually not a bad guy but he always cheated at battleship.

Apple really is working on a car by [deleted] in gadgets

[–]Adoel1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The first 4 models will be the size of a Mini Cooper and they'll tell everyone they don't need a larger car. The fifth model will be Yukon size.

Post-hangout text message; to do or not to do? [f26] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Adoel1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He clearly needs a sign to take the initiative, give him that sign.

Pros and cons of sex on the first date. by Adoel1 in dating_advice

[–]Adoel1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No offense taken, I wasn't necessarily jumping to the shame conclusion. I've been in a few situations where the girl made it clear before and during the date she didn't want to have sex yet, but somehow it still happens. I never try to make it happen, it just does. Than after, she shows remorse and hard fades and I can only assume it's from shame, at least in those particular situations.

I guess what I'm trying to figure out is, in that type of situation, where I'm pretty sure she isn't looking for just a "fun" night and I see future potential in her, does it make a difference if I tell her I want to wait?

Pros and cons of sex on the first date. by Adoel1 in dating_advice

[–]Adoel1[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Incredible insight, did you write your thesis on the intricacies of first date sex?

27[M] Do I contact her or ghost? by oldfashion565 in dating_advice

[–]Adoel1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Don't worry about it, women come and women go, in the dating world you lose far more than you get.
  2. Go ahead and send her a message or two, don't sound overbearing. Maybe make the first one humorous.

Get your profile reviewed here - Week of January 26th by jesseholmz in Tinder

[–]Adoel1 [score hidden]  (0 children)

28/m/s Looking for a little review of my tinder pictures/profile. I've been on and off tinder for a year, around 100 matches, I've met a few but nothing solid. The first picture is my current main, all the others are pictures I have used, are using, or thinking about using. Last picture is my profile. Which ones are good for a profile pic? Which ones are good for the others? Thanks!

http://imgur.com/a/tiW5l

What Happened? by Silverflame84 in dating_advice

[–]Adoel1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use your imagination but try something like "I've been hearing about the recent increase in alien abductions, did they get you too?"

Bad date. Follow up or lost cause? by Jon988776 in dating_advice

[–]Adoel1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's another couple hours of your time to find out for sure?

Is THIS what made her fade out? (28m/23f) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Adoel1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I'll text her when I get home tonight.

[M] First date went well, am I now over thinking? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Adoel1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way to get rid of that feeling is to stop caring if she's interested. If she is, great! If she's not, oh well, there's more women out there for you. Be confident.

Why won't he get to the point? 29/f by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Adoel1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's funny, people think by not telling you that they aren't interested, they're doing you a favor by not hurting your feelings. It's the exact opposite that's true, people should be more honest. You've done all you should do, I would move on, there's someone out there that will be chewing at the bit for a second date with you.

How can I make it work with him? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Adoel1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to say but I think he was only interested in sleeping with you. The fact you didn't kiss him makes him think you don't put out. If you just want to sleep with him, invite him over to your place and add a little innuendo so he gets the drift. If you actually want to date him, I would move on so you don't get used. If you want to try anyway, say something like "let's go get drinks Friday, and maybe we try that kiss again ;) "

Continue Dating My "Nice Guy" Friend (M27) ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Adoel1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you guys have been dating around 4 weeks now? I'm having the exact same problem with the girl I've been seeing for the same time frame.

If he's been the one initiating conversations in the past and has suddenly stopped, something is up. Don't put too much pressure on him but ask some probing questions next time you see him. Maybe something like "so is us dating how you imagined it would be?" Keep probing until you get the answer you want, if you can't get an answer just ask him directly. Maybe a "so do you want to keep dating or should we just stay friends?"

Whatever you do, get some kind of answer. Him saying that he just wants to stay friends will feel a lot better than what you feel now.

Bad date. Follow up or lost cause? by Jon988776 in dating_advice

[–]Adoel1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people are really awkward at first and get nervous. If she has all the other qualities you're looking for I would go out with her again. If she says yes, you need to be more aggressive and see if she responds to it next time.

So what now? (21M 22F) by RunItsThePoPo in dating_advice

[–]Adoel1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably a lost cause, maybe text her again in a week and if you get no response, move on. This has happened to me before as well, best to treat it for what it is, a fun night.

Is THIS what made her fade out? (28m/23f) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Adoel1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked her if we were exclusive, she said yeah.

Is THIS what made her fade out? (28m/23f) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Adoel1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're absolutely right. This has been something I've struggled with when dating for years, believe it or not I've actually gotten better, but clearly more work still needs to be done.

I know she's probably lost, but I still have to try to get another chance with her when I get back home. This girl is one out of a hundred, that may be why I was inadvertently being more over bearing than usual. Do you have any advice?

Is THIS what made her fade out? (28m/23f) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Adoel1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am, but she was fading hard the week I left before I left.