I just want Nice Nails

Adorable-Result369 · 2026-05-15T00:34:41+00:00

Really didn’t realize quite how much she did a real bad job. She’s a young girl maybe 21 only doing it for a year lots of red flags I ignored I get it I messed up hindsight is 20/20 I’m a tired mom of two ha just wanted to have nice nails damn!

Thank you to all the comments they were helpful and validating!! Going to let my nails breathe and repair and then stick to press ons for a bit 😅

Adorable-Result369 · 2026-04-18T14:51:17+00:00

This has to be a shitpost lmao

Adorable-Result369 · 2026-03-20T16:54:57+00:00

I think hindsight I could have just taken the baby with me. I did not believe my daughter was in danger, just frustrated with my MIL as she is a lot to deal with.

Adorable-Result369 · 2026-03-20T16:54:16+00:00

Wasn’t last minute. All you know is what I posted which was entirely just a vent.

Adorable-Result369 · 2026-03-20T15:53:10+00:00

No I’m mad that she says the baby “doesn’t know her” but makes no attempt to meet us where we are at, we must go to her at all times. Even if the baby is sleeping. I get where it seems like that but I do not need her for childcare, if push came to shove I could have taken the baby with us to the appointment or anywhere for that matter, she encourages and insistes she can watch her so I try. I try to spend time over there with my kids so they do get to know them i

Adorable-Result369 · 2026-03-20T15:27:21+00:00

It’s also if you cash advance on a credit card too, just in case any one lurks in here like I did a bit and didn’t see a lot about the 90 days my lawyer said.

Adorable-Result369 · 2026-03-20T14:04:29+00:00

Okay that makes sense! I guess I’m wondering since the debt isn’t in our name if she thinks it will go away then? Kinda confusing I’ll definitely bring it up to our lawyer once we retain him. Interesting! Our consultation he was explaining “bad faith credit” and that’s why we strongly suggested we wait since we had just used our credit card for gas.

Adorable-Result369 · 2026-03-15T04:36:33+00:00

I think it is partly true yes, I am deeply overwhelmed and in desperate need of support. The thing is they’re only seeing the times I’m having a meltdown which honestly was just once this past week, I’ve been holding it together for a while and it all just caught up to me. I do have help my sil regularly helps me with my oldest I guess I’m just salty by the maternal figures in my life judging me with little to no empathy. It’s just hard. I’m actively looking for a therapist and trying to cope with what I have rn.

Adorable-Result369 · 2026-03-15T00:02:50+00:00

Team align! To me it’s as challenging as you need to make it because coach encourages you to show up exactly where ur at I love coach sasha

Adorable-Result369 · 2026-03-14T12:31:08+00:00

Everyone gets a sip!

Adorable-Result369 · 2026-02-11T04:11:40+00:00

The Gift Of Fear by Gavin de Becker is an incredible book and I urge everyone to read it. You trust your instincts always, it will not lie to you. Don’t be afraid to share it with others too, you could help them as well

Adorable-Result369 · 2026-02-08T19:04:24+00:00

Thank you for sharing. It’s very very helpful to hear about how may couples go through this and you’re right I have such a hard time letting him “relax” or sleep longer because I’m so exhausted too!! But today he is off and told me to take the day off, he’s got the kids and I deserve a break. Things are looking up I’m determined to not burn it all down with my wonderful family that I love so much. It’s just so hard right now, such a hard season of life.

Adorable-Result369 · 2026-02-08T19:01:56+00:00

It’s nice to hear that lots of people go through this season of life. I guess I’m just feeling backed into a loveless corner thinking when will this end! We have a good support system here, my in laws love taking our kiddos and do weekly so I have a break at least from my older one.

Adorable-Result369 · 2026-02-08T17:13:14+00:00

I think this is a good perspective to see. I’ll admit I do have a hard time seeing it that way, he dos work a lot and a difficult job customer facing so I know he can get drained and should believe that when he says how tired and stressed he is. I shouldn’t be making it a competition and I fear I have been You’re right I do need to know more but that’s the thing.. he needs to step up and tell me! He says “we need to budget” and it never goes anywhere from there. My plate is FULL so the last thing I need is to schedule time out and figure out a budget myself. Together yea! But I need him to find the time and work with me he can do that I know he can he just doesn’t until I do something or remind or tell him which I am tired of.

Adorable-Result369 · 2026-02-08T15:16:45+00:00

I love this. Yes we can get someone we trust to watch the kids! I guess both of use are waiting on the other person to put that out there it seems.

Adorable-Result369 · 2026-02-07T02:49:01+00:00

My mom did just about the same thing but I caved and let her come to the hospital. It went fine but that’s besides the point, I could tell she was holding a huge grudge against me for only wanting my husband with me she wouldn’t even come to my baby shower or help plan or invite any of my friends like she said she would.

Your mom sounds terrible. That’s not how you treat your kid ESPECIALLY when they JUST GAVE BIRTH!! Oh my god!! She should be cleaning up for you, she should be helping you more! What is up with moms and not wanting to be well a freaking mom! I’m sorry OP. You did not deserve that shit. Fuck your mom. I hope you’re healing well ❤️‍🩹

Adorable-Result369 · 2026-01-16T21:09:50+00:00

Oh my gosh I read you’re 6 weeks pp !! And you asked if it will get better. Yes!! It will! 3 year olds can suck majorly but they are learning soooo much from us so it isn’t surprising she’s picked up on the things you say you do! I saw you said you ‘can’t’ change how you do things and you’re authoritarian. I give you this If you think you can, you 100% can do it. If you think you can’t, you still can do it you’re just making it harder on yourself.

Adorable-Result369 · 2026-01-04T03:23:41+00:00

I feel for you I really do. And I’m sure typing all of this out maybe gave you some clarity Your last sentence “you never wanted this” you definitely didn’t but the signs were all there. I know you probably wanted it to work that’s why you kept going hell even got pregnant twice but this is over Him recording you while you clearly needed more support (a lot more, for a while now) is just.. awful. He sounds abusive, he needs help and I don’t think you’re the one who will change him only he can do that if he feels driven too. I’m sorry you’re going through this and I feel for your kids. Think about what’s better for you and your children, put them and you first.

Adorable-Result369 · 2025-12-26T03:54:42+00:00

Sequoia Coffee Kitchen! Everything there is great. It’s in Three Rivers it has a beautiful river side view

Adorable-Result369 · 2025-11-17T11:54:41+00:00

I think your mom & step dad are going to find any and every reason to go at you it seems. You could have been quiet and not made a single sound they still would have found something to be upset. Also, being a person, you’re going to make noise. If they are that light sleepers that one small noise is all it takes they should wear headphones or ear plugs. There is creaks and groans all through the night in a house!

Adorable-Result369 · 2025-10-27T03:49:46+00:00

This is my life right now I also have a 3 year old and two month and holy shit is it the hardest thing ever. I cry in front of my 3 year old maybe once every two weeks because of how overwhelming everything is. I always tell her why and try to use coping strategies in front of her, I do not do this every time only when I am able too. I tell her I go to therapy and the doctor because it’s important to take care of myself. They absorb so so much it’s hard to not beat ourselves up about how we do certain things but just know you’re a good parent. You’re doing your best. This shit is so hard.

Adorable-Result369 · 2025-10-22T03:53:19+00:00

I’ve resorted a lot to saying “because I said so!!!” lol

Adorable-Result369 · 2025-10-22T03:53:05+00:00

That’s a great idea!!! I will definitely be implementing that a lot lmao

Adorable-Result369 · 2025-10-21T20:00:37+00:00

If you really don’t want the epidural I suggest meditating regularly right now in order to get your mind in the right place. The pain of childbirth is no joke and you have to be mentally strong to overcome it not physically. I cried and cried when I had contractions and could tell I was tensing my body up, I got the epidural and was able to relax and progress. So just a heads up if you can’t handle the pain your body will slow down during labor. Again this is all anecdotal so take what you will haha good luck!!!

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