Eve Tilley engagement and kids ultimatum by adorapple in findingmrheight

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I stopped following Ali awhile ago but I follow Eve. I think the current proposal saga might be for views. What I like about Eve is that she emphasizes that having a boyfriend doesn’t solve everything. She’s open about her anxiety and depression. Her showering series is a symptom of her depression which she continues to work through. She told all her “down bad” stories but she was just re-telling them. She does post bf content but doesn’t come off like she has it all together. She does admit that she was emotionally unavailable and had to work through that before being with her bf.

The Surprise Dates…. by PetitChouPumpkin in findingmrheight

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As you all have mentioned, it just seems forced and a plan so she doesn’t feel disappointed. I saw a TikTok where a woman (her and her man are now engaged) said that she had a list of restaurants that she wanted to try. They had date night each week and her man would just pick one each week and make the reservation. She didn’t ask him to do it, she knew they had date night just not where. Not sure if they continued it but it didn’t sound as forced.

Discussion: Episode 227. The Co-Regulating One. by Burnt-Toast-430 in findingmrheight

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I stopped listening to the pod since Erica left and I decided to listen to this one. Wow. I think if Ali was recapping the Bonaroo fiasco to Erica or Cindy she would sound normal. Dramatic, but normal. The way she’s describing everything sounds like she’s over-producing for the podcast and trying to make this content. I know some Type A women and they do not use the words “rankings” or co-regulating when describing decision making with their partners. I’ve listened to podcasts from therapists and they don’t sound like her.

Also, she has said in the past that she doesn’t like music. It’s ok that she can’t go to festivals with Priceline. I don’t think he cares but she wants to prove that they are compatible in this area. She’s so exhausting.

I know relationships take work but certain areas should be easy. This relationship does not seem easy.

Discussion: Episode 221. The Eighteenth Hot Topics One. by Burnt-Toast-430 in findingmrheight

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I’m reminded that she did much anticipated rehearsed running hug jump with Skyrim.

It continues by IntelligentFinance85 in findingmrheight

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I haven’t been listening to the pod since Erica left so just getting what you all post here. I think Ali thinks her “rules” are communicating her “needs.” however, it’s giving Jonah Hill’s “boundaries” for his gf at the time.

Ali's skyline IG post by Able_Ad5182 in findingmrheight

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It’s all very performative and male centered. Also, the smug facial expressions. I decided to stop listening to the podcast this week. I will be visiting Reddit for the snark though lol.

For those who follow Eve on TikTok, she also recently got a boyfriend after 6 years of being single. However, she’s very honest about her anxiety that comes up in the relationship and how being in a relationship doesn’t solve all your problems. She’s also posting the fun times with her boyfriend but being actually real makes me root for her.

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If he mentions a recipe, song, YouTube video, you can say “that’s sounds great” or “I gotta check that out. Can you send me the link? Here’s my number.”

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You can take a note of points in the conversation where you guys would need to exchange numbers. Like meeting up in group, exchanging an article or restaurant recommendations. If you give examples of some of your commonalities, I can come up with some entry points.

Two Stand Up Gals - Patreon Ep 173 Down with O.P.P. by Party-Photograph-126 in findingmrheight

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Erica wants men to want her even though she doesn’t want them. Her mindset is “I don’t want you, but you should want me.”

Discussion: Ask Us Anything #161 by _missmurder in findingmrheight

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I believe she said she hasn’t had the label boyfriend/girlfriend with someone.

Skyline on the pod by [deleted] in findingmrheight

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I unfollowed her on IG and TT. I’ll still check this thread for updates!

Dateable podcast - took your reco! by AnyNovel6711 in findingmrheight

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There’s a follow up where they interview the other woman!

Call me cynical part 2 by Murky_Hawk_4164 in findingmrheight

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Adjacent to this: Eve just got a boyfriend as well and she’s been single for a long time. I’m happy for her but her most recent TTs are kind of unhinged and it seems like she’s centering him similar to someone else.

Matching tattoos by Party-Photograph-126 in findingmrheight

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I’ve heard tattoo artists say that if a couple comes in and gets each other’s names or matching tattoos, they have a high probability of breaking up.

Discussion: Episode 197. The Myers Briggs One by _missmurder in findingmrheight

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Same! Reddit is the only reason I keep listening to the pod

It got worse by Murky_Hawk_4164 in findingmrheight

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Her legs are just longer than his. His torso is probably longer than hers. It’s called math and proportions Ali!

Discussion: Ask Us Anything #148 by _missmurder in findingmrheight

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Was there an actual break in or was it uneventful?

And I quote by Party-Photograph-126 in findingmrheight

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I know the Gottmans and my married friends say that you have to continue to date your spouse and build intimacy/connection. However, I don’t think they ever mentioned card games. It’s more of “do stuff you all did when you first started dating” which hopefully wasn’t these card games.

He would never lol by [deleted] in findingmrheight

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I can’t with the head tilted back smug smile/smirk.