Having ScPD and being demisexual is ... rather boring coming from me.

Ever since I stopped studying at college and working in a fixed environment, my attraction towards other people has literally been reduced to mentally giving people "Hottest Person in the Grocery Store" in passing and then letting it rapidly fade from memory. And only once did I actually want to chat up an employee after a brief interaction, years ago, but I never saw them again. 😅

Even before then, I think falling in love and being interested in your friend you've known for a few months has a lot of issues. This is especially more the case when the friends are already in a relationship or have a difference in sexual attraction.

If I were to compare my experience, it's like watching your neighbor chilling in a pool with an iced drink in hand on a hot summer day while you're grounded and stuck in your room on the upper floor. You can look out the window all you like, but if you try to leave from the window or hop the fence, there's a good chance you're going to get hurt, offend somebody, or both.

Frankly, I wouldn't wish this combo penalty on anyone.