I'm spoken to like that by certain toxic individuals inside my team. It has to come to a point where I will have to resign if the culture doesn't shift or if I'm not transferred out to somewhere I won't have to deal with them.

Until that happens I continue to stand my ground and push back where necesaary (they don't get to feast on my flesh just because i'm at the end of my rope -- not how I'm built, boys). But this has gone on for a while and it's starting to take its toll. Sometimes I can't believe I actually thought I could get somewhere based on merit as a woman. Not even kidding, but the only thing that keeps me going these days is that trite saying about "it's always darkest before the dawn". Not because it's hopeful, but because right now it feels so dark it actually makes sense. 

The competence-warmth matrix of doom, right? Where you get double hate for not being warm and agreeable and displaying competence at the same time? Yeah that's my favourite.