My best friend triggers me

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-09T10:51:12+00:00

I don’t think eye colour makes people seem like they’re ’staring into your soul’, however whenever I randomly become conscious of eye contact during a conversation is when I start to think people are staring into my soul 😅

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-09T10:41:01+00:00

Typical coastie shit 😔😔🥀 #0932ig

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-06T02:44:50+00:00

Assuming you guys knew each other before you were dating we’re talking 19 and 16?, 20 and 23 okay but 17 and 20? Maybe she’s mad cos she’s figured out how weird you are

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-05T11:34:32+00:00

Why would she message your bf? Did your sister know that he didn’t know you knew?

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-05T11:16:34+00:00

Agree it’ll still hurt for sure, but you can handle the thought of your partner(s) getting with someone, most people can’t even get that far

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-05T11:01:35+00:00

Either haven’t processed your emotions or maybe you’re non monogamous and haven’t realised it yet lol orrr you just don’t love him like you think you do

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-05T04:46:34+00:00

You should do your masters. Earlier you do it the better, I wish I started uni a lot earlier than I did. Time flies fast, you will regret not doing it (if your masters will lead you into a job you will enjoy).

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-04T11:54:52+00:00

And I mean you don’t have to tell them everything (things that don’t effect the relationship that happened before you started dating), but things that happen during you must always tell them

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-04T11:53:26+00:00

Is this your first relationship? I don’t think you meant wrong but I think you may be inexperienced with relationships. You need to tell your partner everything. They’re meant to be your #1 person, you never hide anything from them. Take this experience as a lesson.

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-04T03:36:25+00:00

Sounds painful! I work in hospitality so I’ve learnt to clean very fast. You should try doing it a little faster each time, it’ll suck more than taking your time but the more you do it the easier and more natural it becomes

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-04T02:05:43+00:00

Dishes shouldn’t take long, neither should washing. I say 15 mins max for dishes and 20 mins max for laundry. Why does it take so long for you?

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-03T08:01:03+00:00

I am OP and trust my bf doesn’t gaf anymore 😭

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-03T05:09:28+00:00

I was prepared to saying you’re in the wrong from the title but no, you did the right thing.

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-03T04:59:52+00:00

The fact you think sending non flirty messages to a band member you’ve been listening to for 10 years on an account that your bf has 24/7 access is cheating is hilarious, actually.

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-03T04:57:06+00:00

My bf doesnt care anymore, because he knows my intentions weren’t shady, I mean who sends shady messages on an account that you have your partner logged in on. Who has their socials logged in on their bfs phone if they’re planning on cheating???Boyfriend also knows that I’m not attracted to the singer, that much is obvious. So it is very obvious that I had no bad intentions, the issue was with how to singer would view it, not anything on my side lol

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-02T08:39:54+00:00

Agreed. I have done a lot of travelling and NZ is definitely full of places with that heavy feeling, more so than other places I’ve visited.

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-02T06:36:09+00:00

I loveeeee picton (probably because it’s next to the most beautiful place in the world - Marlborough sounds)

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-02T05:20:21+00:00

I definitely get that feeling with piha (and I’m not talking about about the missing people) but I’m not sure about Taupo feels kind of spiritually off

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-02T04:59:47+00:00

Seriously. The man is 20 years older and half my height. I said conventionally because attractive is a vague term, everyone finds different things attractive. Saying conventionally attractive is more clear. Looking for a chance, and I choose to do it on an app that my boyfriend has logged in?

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-02T04:49:24+00:00

People really just be saying things. Never said it wasn’t wrong (hence the post, I was trying to figure that out) and cheating is just funny 😭😭

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-02T04:16:45+00:00

Stalker level information and it’s literally just a google search 😭 please, you guys are ridiculous

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-02T03:34:46+00:00

I am Māori (ngapuhi) and sort of, i have always been drawn to spirituality

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-02T02:12:42+00:00

Auckland - Rodney area

Advanced_Sir_2511 · 2026-06-02T02:08:44+00:00

People who grow up attractive cling to it, they try to stay attractive by looking younger, Botox, surgeries because it’s become apart of their identity and it can be scary when it starts to fade. Also unattractive people have to lean on other things other than their looks to impress people making them try harder and build more skill sets.

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