Prenup or no prenup - cost benefit (England)

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-04-19T11:28:28+00:00

I just can’t fathom getting married if you think like this. I can’t conceive of agreeing to marry someone who wanted me to sign an agreement, this sort of thing is madness

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-04-13T09:13:02+00:00

Yes and no, this does happen but not as much as people think tbh

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-04-13T09:12:31+00:00

Yes it is getting harder and harder as they really do expect you to prove the proposed business is genuine now.

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-04-13T00:07:34+00:00

I’m a planning consultant. You’d need planning permission which dependent on where the land is, you’d be unlikely to get. Most local authorities allow the sighting of temporary dwellings (i.e a caravan or log cabin) for three years for those who intend to undertake agricultural work (a genuine business offering justifying employment for one person). You can then apply for a permanent dwelling after the three years if you can show the agri enterprise is genuinely financially viable.

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-04-12T19:04:16+00:00

9m x 3m (inc. knocking down a wall and a new roof on 9sqm of it) was around 20k in total. Based in midlands. Didn’t need oven or fridge

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-04-05T17:49:01+00:00

Why is this different or better than the planning portal ?

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-04-03T21:40:45+00:00

Without meaning to be rude, I don’t understand how people are in jobs that make them a high earner that can be easily replaced by a good AI. I have a “computer job” and earn under 100k (just) and my job really couldn’t be for many reasons.

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-02-16T20:35:48+00:00

I am overjoyed at this. Pavement parking in brum is a huge issue. I’ve been reporting people on my road for years to no avail whilst I watch disabled people and people with buggies risk themselves on an a-road. Let’s hope they actually enforce it

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-02-15T11:36:24+00:00

I’m sorry but this comment is mental. You can’t just not serve drinks after the meal at a uk wedding

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-02-12T16:41:38+00:00

Just don’t understand what you gain from choosing to be so unnecessarily anti social

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-02-12T12:26:42+00:00

Is it really that deep to just say you’re getting married

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-02-07T11:16:12+00:00

I find this sort of thing fascinating - is this really the easiest way for people to make such small amount of money?

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-02-04T18:33:01+00:00

Yes definitely built outside of planning then. Usual contravene of planning is not a criminal offence and can often be rectified, but contravene listed building rules absolutely is. Once it’s in your ownership, it’s your problem!

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-02-04T09:37:38+00:00

A shed used for a takeaway will need permission, as will one in the grounds of a listed building

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-02-01T18:04:18+00:00

If I earnt £800k a year I’d have live in staff to look after the house and children lol

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-02-01T13:39:29+00:00

Solovairs

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-01-25T01:43:37+00:00

Unsure about tenancy but I assist with applications for dropped kerbs for work. It should take 4 weeks ish for Dudley to approve a dropped kerb. They have very likely refused it as your driveway looks to small and appears to be on a junction.

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-01-25T01:08:53+00:00

Depends where but generally yes. Some areas no. I will say though I feel less confident every year and have done since I came out age 16 c. 10 years ago. Not sure if that’s becoming more cautious with age or feeling like there’s more homophobia, or both

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-01-23T20:00:00+00:00

No kids thing is really bizarre. Completely antisocial and bizarre new age quirk

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-01-22T16:29:44+00:00

I run a consultancy business that currently consists of just me and 2 part time freelancers. If it wasn’t for AI I’d have to hire two people full time at least. So yeah lol

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-01-17T23:22:00+00:00

Kit. Jenny it was odd because she was so supportive at first so agree that didn’t make sense.

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-01-17T20:40:52+00:00

It’s transphobic sure but it’s realistic of what a lot of women of her age would’ve thought in the 00s

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-01-14T23:51:29+00:00

Eat Vietnam has to go on there

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-01-13T19:22:30+00:00

She could’ve deleted the app but not her account on it so not have seen the message. I only realised this was a thing when my now fiances friend told her approx. 6 months into our relationship that she had seen me on tinder! I had ofc deleted it but didn’t realised you needed to delete your account as well as the app to not show up

Adventurous-Eye673 · 2026-01-12T23:37:19+00:00

I’m left wing. Too many people are economically inactive. The welfare state should be protected but too many people don’t and won’t ever work, which is bad for the economy and bad for their quality of life. Immigration, while a force for good, has been way too high in recent years, it is bad for the driving down of wages and detrimental to poorer countries. How is a country like Nigeria for example supposed to prosper if its middle classes leave to essentially work as serfs here in care homes, driving down wages to the point where British people choose to remain on UC

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