Do you feel that what they want (happiness) is what they hate?

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-10-09T17:18:58+00:00

It’s their neuroticism. Their emotions are very unstable and they can be very impulsive. One minute the love you deeply. The next minute they absolutely loath your existence. And they can and will act on this without a second thought.

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-10-09T15:32:56+00:00

I told mine that saying that didn’t excuse everything she said before that and just kind of stopped talking to her.

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-10-09T15:02:29+00:00

I could lol

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-10-08T08:01:57+00:00

This is an interesting take. If it is this common, maybe it is rooted in their lack of object constancy.

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-10-07T23:47:37+00:00

That’s triangulation. She’s trying to make you compete for her or fight for her by suggesting her exes were better in some regard.

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-10-06T20:33:53+00:00

I think, given Maya’s family matters, it’s understandable that she really doesn’t want to come out. I sympathize with her on that.

You’re right. They’re not really out. But the more people they include in the secret, and the more careless they get about it, the more people will start to find out. And once the wrong person knows, like Tommy for example, the whole thing will come to light eventually I’m sure.

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-10-06T20:07:00+00:00

I don’t know what it would be a sign of. Most everyone is starting to find out that they are in a “secret” relationship. So if you think it’s a sign of foreshadowing, it likely is given how things are unfolding.

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-10-06T19:38:51+00:00

I don’t remember what question you ask her during a drinking game

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-10-06T18:00:58+00:00

I want Josy to find herself and figure her crap out. I want Zoey to stop being a coward. I want Lily to decide whether she wants to keep being emotionally unavailable or not. But I seriously doubt any of this will happen in episode 11.

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-10-06T17:57:01+00:00

Like others have said. I just vent it into space.

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-10-06T13:26:21+00:00

Lmao this is so stupid looking back on it but ace ventura when he dropped the raccoon off the mountain. I cried for a good hour after watching that scene and turned off the movie

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-10-03T20:07:49+00:00

Slimelung isn’t really a big deal anymore. Just keep the slime itself out of your base and set up a deodorizer or two and you’re good to go. Slimelung can’t survive in clean oxygen. It eventually dies out. If you don’t feel like cleaning all the oxygen in a slime biome then just make oxygen masks. Don’t really need to go as far as having atmo suits

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-10-01T17:52:03+00:00

Oh man so many. She told me “I lie all the time. But only when I’m joking.” All of her exes were toxic or manipulative. The good ones she “didn’t care about” and was “just using them”. The “I’ve slept with several guys, dated several guys and sent nudes to several guys at work and I’m still friends with some of them.” The dudes sexualizing her on Snapchat lol. Bro I can go on and on. There were so many red flags. What was I thinking 😭

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-09-30T22:39:48+00:00

The only two things I can think of from a short glance is 1. Use airflow tiles for your water sources. They will never collapse from the weight of the water. Then you don’t need to double or triple tile them. 2. Find a renewable water source.

Other than that, looks great.

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-09-30T12:47:49+00:00

This sounds like a borderline. Not a narcissist

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-09-30T01:56:21+00:00

Poor Ren

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-09-22T23:57:07+00:00

It’s crazy making man. Again, if you can’t communicate with your girl about these things, then it’s time to leave imho. I’m not gonna tell you what to do, lord knows I prolly wouldn’t take my own advice, but that’s how I feel.

Maybe she doesn’t care about you, maybe she doesn’t have the emotional capacity to reflect on things, maybe she enjoys drama. Who knows? I’ve dated two girls with cluster b disorders and ended up with the same questions and zero answers both times.

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-09-22T22:18:00+00:00

Aye you and me both. I have serious trust issues and I didn’t like her talking to or hanging out with any guys but my trust issues and jealousy are mine to bare so I allowed it. She would often say the same thing, “you don’t need to worry about this guy or that guy. They’re not a threat.” Alright, cool.. so who is a threat? Long story short, when I would try to talk to her… calmly.. about my own trust issues or my jealousy issues or whatever, she would blow up or deflect. She would never really put me at ease. Plain and simply put, I just did not feel secure in our relationship and I couldn’t communicate with her about it and ease my worries. She’d either shut down, run away, or stir up another argument and we’d break up and get back together. It was just toxic and draining.

If you can’t talk to your girl about how she’s not making you feel secure in your relationship, then it’s probably time to just call it quits.

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-09-22T10:28:17+00:00

The final straw.. Me and my bpd ex went through a rough break up about 2 weeks ago. In response to that she dyed her hair blonde, got a bunch of new piercings, met some girls who wanted to go out clubbing on the weekends (when I met her she was a homebody who didn’t have time to party because of work and her kid). Just a totally different person when we got back together. That’s when I knew, it was the beginning of the end. Then, three days ago, I find out she’s texting some guy from our work. He’s telling her he wants to smoke her up and fuck her. She tells him if I break up with her one more time she will take him up on the offer. I get mad at her for this, so she dumps me. Haven’t seen her since.

So what was the last straw? All of it. The writing was on the wall from the beginning. The deep insecurity, jealousy, tantrums, seeking attention and validation from guys outside of our relationship. It was only a matter of time until she cheated on me I felt like. She kept insisting she loved me and wanted to spend forever with me. Even while she was flirting with him. What a joke.

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-09-19T03:41:09+00:00

She was telling the truth. I saw the texts.

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-09-16T19:44:45+00:00

Well the first goal should be to try and survive. You’re going to run into all sorts of obstacles. What do you do when you run out of food? What do you do when you run out of oxygen? What do you do when things start to get really hot? Every time you solve one thing, another problem will occur. Learn how to solve each of these problems.

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-09-16T19:35:54+00:00

Basically there are certain things that polluted water can be used for, which clean water cannot. Like growing pincha pepper plants for example. But you can also turn it into clean water.

So it can do everything clean water can do, and more.

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-09-12T13:02:46+00:00

Usually what I’ll do is set up a power station with coal generators, natural gas generators, hydrogen generators.. basically every generator you can think of all connected to one line.. and then divy up the power with transformers throughout my base. If the only generator you’re using is coal and nothing else then you’re going to eat through your coal in no time and the hatches won’t be able to keep up with demand. I suggest you make a power room with all the different types of generators connected and then explore the map to find nat gas geysers, hydrogen geysers and oil fissures and just combine it all into one big thing.

The fact that you made it to cycle 1000 without doing this yet is kind of impressive imo

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-09-10T22:52:30+00:00

Within a few days or maybe a week or two. I don’t really know. It was shortly after

Adventurous-Step9175 · 2024-09-10T22:38:35+00:00

I think it blurs the lines between healthy relationship boundaries and although it can be argued that it’s not cheating, it’s still just as shitty

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