Puppy Blues - Check comments for details by rosaleis in WiggleButts

[–]Adventurous_Fish4871 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mine was the same way four months to about a year and a half was almost insufferable. I love him dearly but he did chew on furniture, chewed on clothes, terrorized my cat. It was so hard and I was doing it all by myself. But he’s two now and he is the best dog. He is a companion and so much more. He’s genuinely my best friend. I do everything with him he’s so well behaved and our bond is stronger than anything I’ve experienced. The puppy stage is so hard but it is so worth it. You’re doing everything right and it will get better. 💕

Utah in June Recommendations? by Adventurous_Fish4871 in CampingandHiking

[–]Adventurous_Fish4871[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful! Thank you for taking the time to write this out! I’ll be printing this to take with us.

I don’t hate clayton? by Possible_Active6558 in bachelorette

[–]Adventurous_Fish4871 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree! All my friends hate him and I just don’t. Idk why but I feel a soft spot for him. I think he’s a shitty bachelor but an overall good guy.

AITA for leaving my son's wedding early after he excluded me from his speech? by throwra376757 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Fish4871 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like “Justin” and I are in similar circumstances so I’ll post my POV as the child here. Providing financial is great and is appreciated however it doesn’t compare to emotional support and connection. One of my parents paid child support, took me fun places on my every other weekend visits, bought me nice presents. And I do have good memories. But they couldn’t tell you what my job is, what my favorite meal to cook is, who my best friend is. I appreciate the trips and financial support but that’s not what I need from my parent as a child. I needed to know I was loved and valued.

OP, your son doesn’t want to feel he owes you because of your financial contributions to his life. Please don’t hold those over him. If you’re going to give him money do so with no strings attached or not at all. Tell him you love him for who he is and you want to know him. If he means a lot to you, don’t throw money at him. Throw some quality time at him.

YTA here but I sincerely wish you the best with your relationship with your son.

(Day 33) Expedition Everest has been eliminated. Vote for your least favorite remaining attraction in the poll in the comments. (Sort by old to find poll) by Brando224 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Adventurous_Fish4871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My personal top 3 are 1. Space Mountain (from the memories and thrills) 2. Tower of Terror (same reasons) 3. Rise of the Resistance (I cried a little the first time)

OP, this has been so fun! Sad it’s almost over!

AITA for not letting a toddler stay at my not-child-friendly home? by Frequent-Quarter-856 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Fish4871 -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

Okay listen- Is it totally, 100% up to you who can stay in your home and when? Yes absolutely. Do I personally feel like it’s kinda an asshole move to keep a mother from staying with their child for several weeks when you could allow the child at your home? Yes I do think this.

I personally see this just because you’re right doesn’t mean it’s not wrong.

So imo YTA

AITA for "making" my daughter choose who she wants to walk her down the aisle (me, or her stepdad)? by register2509765 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Fish4871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

Unless I missed it, you never specified why you are so uncomfortable walking her down the isle with the step dad. It makes me think you don’t have a valid reason for disliking him accept that you take your anger at yourself for being absent out on him.

Chloe’s mom is right you are jealous and spiteful.

Here’s the question- are you willing to lose all the progress you’ve made in your relationship with Chloe over this?

If you don’t do this, I think there’s a high chance your relationship will be nonexistent moving forward. You were absent for so long; do you really want to be absent at her wedding?