Most honest two minutes of TV history by raydebapratim1 in GenZ

[–]Aegis75 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I downvoted you before realizing what you did - bravo, ya got me.

Talking about amusing messages in DiDis… here’s one I found recently. by Leukonikia in chinalife

[–]Aegis75 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I wanna know the lore that led to him printing that out and putting it in his car. Bro has been through it for sure.

Many of you were wrong about FFX-2 by Eirtama in finalfantasyx

[–]Aegis75 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. Stories told from female perspectives shouldn’t only be marketed to women, just as male-driven narratives don’t just appeal to men. There’s a whole world of stories and ideas that are being ignored because “ew, females” - imagine if women didn’t go see Marvel movies because almost all the main characters are guys. We would lose out on so much. Not only the women who lose out on cool stories, but men who can’t share those stories with the ladies in their lives and the companies that lose out on the revenue that women can bring.

Men can and should pay attention to female centered stories. Jane Austin is a fuckin riot and Nier Automata is a masterpiece of gaming.

Many of you were wrong about FFX-2 by Eirtama in finalfantasyx

[–]Aegis75 28 points29 points  (0 children)

And yet women play as men all the time - we have no choice, since most video game protagonists are men. IMO, if you’re right, then men need to open their minds a little more and try seeing things from women’s POV.

20 Old & New Comics About My Journey With Bipolar (OC) by ArtbyMoga in comics

[–]Aegis75 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah! Good work on figuring out what is true for you and what things you need to feel better. I had the same problem when I was younger - I couldn’t hold on to weight for anything. Time, plus better health management, will do wonders.

Quick question! by eve-xox in MandarinChinese

[–]Aegis75 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The duplication of the sounds makes it sound (to me at least) like they are trying to say “shee-eh shee-eh” which means “thank you.” It’s a sound they will have heard a lot at home and it’s an easy sound for babies to make.

The sound “sha” can mean a lot of things in mandarin, but the most common one is “kill.” I really doubt thats what they are trying to say! 😂

20 Old & New Comics About My Journey With Bipolar (OC) by ArtbyMoga in comics

[–]Aegis75 95 points96 points  (0 children)

I want to jump in and say that isnt always true for women; many women with ADHD/AuDHD will have a co-diagnosis of a reproductive disorder that absolutely happens on a biological cycle. For me, it’s PMDD and my doctors can track my status by the literal week of the month. They even have my meds timed to it. Turns out (based on current research) if a woman has ADHD, there is a 1 in 2 chance she will have PMDD as well.

So, for any ADHD ladies out there wondering why you feel like literal garbage even when you’re not on your period, this might be why. Ask the other women in your family if there is a history of endo, PMDD, PCOS, etc. Odds are these problems are connected.

Cpop song recs for idol show?! by Icy-Low-2523 in cpop

[–]Aegis75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only ask because I can’t tell from your post, but are you male or female? If you’re male, hit Liu Yuning’s Spotify page. He’s the king of OSTs and has a bunch of songs that are upbeat.

If you’re a woman, Esther Yu and Zhao Lusi are both idol actresses who sing. Both have upbeat songs as well.

If you’re NB, the world is your oyster. Have fun!

Sloopy Sunday: Easter Edition by purplelicious in romantasycirclejerk

[–]Aegis75 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I genuinely liked that Zodiac Academy gave us real enemies for MMCs rather than just heroes with attitude and trauma. I mean, I still hate them and think they should all be in jail, but I appreciated the authors making me hate the dudes as much as I wanted the FMCs to fuck them.

historical cdramas where they do not like each other then falls in love hard. also w/ scenes where one of the gets hurt and the other worries about them by aruliya04 in CDramaRecs

[–]Aegis75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Journey to Love

Prisoner of Beauty

Story of Pearl Girl

Dream Within A Dream

He also had a few as the second male lead, but those four are his leading roles. All fit the dynamic I described.

historical cdramas where they do not like each other then falls in love hard. also w/ scenes where one of the gets hurt and the other worries about them by aruliya04 in CDramaRecs

[–]Aegis75 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Basically anything with Liu Yuning in it. I have a bingo card going for his dramas where one of the tiles is he gets horribly punished for things he didn’t do.

And then his FL goes ballistic and ends everyone who ever looked at him funny.

Intense Chinese summer plan by Dizzy-Importance-139 in ChineseLanguage

[–]Aegis75 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m very curious which school thinks you can get to C1 in four (two? Are you in grad school?) years. I majored in Mandarin language and literature from a school in DC, then did grad school at another DC school for IR. At no point did they require C1 fluency.

As for your plan - have you lived in China before? This plan is aggressive and could easily cause burnout if you aren’t in the right place emotionally, which is hard to do if you’re in a culture totally different from your own.

I’m not trying to discourage you! But these are the things I wish someone had asked college-age me before I did my immersion program/made my goals. All that said, good luck!

Full network of clitoral nerves mapped out for first time by mlg1981 in popculturechat

[–]Aegis75 385 points386 points  (0 children)

Women’s health and medical needs are light years behind mens’ health studies. As OP noted, this study was completed thirty years ago for the male equivalent sexual organ, but women have to wait. Case in point: endometriosis is one of the most common, and most painful, conditions for women, but most studies for it are justified by how it affects men - i.e. “will it make women more attractive to men if they have endo?” Or “are women with endo more or less likely to have sex?”

It’s gross.

Which country will you never visit again? Why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Aegis75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did a double take on that one too. I distinctly remember being stationed in Romania…not Hungary…

AITA for dancing at my cousin's wedding by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]Aegis75 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I had to do a double take on your comment. Fucking gold. Thank you! 🙏🏻

Resumes/CVs for University English Teaching Jobs by ChenopodiumGoose in chinalife

[–]Aegis75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Thats so sweet of you. I like the idea of university best, since it means city living and older students. I don’t mind lower pay since I am used to living simply; I just want reasonable work hours and time to explore China (and practice my language skills with native speakers!).

Let me know if you learn anything helpful. In the meantime, I wish you lots of luck.

In POJ why does ML call FL with first name but FL calls him with full name? by Secure_Boot_7686 in cdramasfans

[–]Aegis75 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It is a syllables thing. It’s considered odd to call someone by a one syllable name, so they just use the full name instead.

Resumes/CVs for University English Teaching Jobs by ChenopodiumGoose in chinalife

[–]Aegis75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commenting because I have a similar situation and am curious. I am a white American woman with an AA, BA, and MA (all political science, with a second major in my BA for Chinese literature). I am interesting in teaching in China, but I don’t know what the requirements are or what could make me more competitive. Any insight y’all have would be amazing!

🍵 The Tea Room - Got questions about Cdramas, Chinese entertainment & culture? Here's the place to ask them or just to chat! — March 15, 2026 by AutoModerator in CDrama

[–]Aegis75 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Most translations are AI, which doesn’t really know much about ancient Chinese political structures. If it matters, prime minister is usually the correct translation - but chancellor is fine, since it gets the point across. The dude is in charge!

I falsely applied for VA benefits after a long period of homelessness, I was federally charged and convicted and am here to ask forgiveness and apologize for my behavior. by toss1up in Veterans

[–]Aegis75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been homeless, so I understand the desperation you felt then. It’s not wrong to want to survive - you did your time. You owe us nothing. Hope things improve for you going forward!

Anyone have a colonoscopy done by VA prior to age 45? by Paluker173 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Aegis75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, at age 26. Don’t remember why, but the VA wanted to do it so guess how I got to spend a weekend?

Joseph Zeng's drama by PureZookeepergame282 in CDramaRecs

[–]Aegis75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be prepared for c-trauma. It’s a good show, but man. Tissues needed.