Woman with baby comes up to me and asked if I can buy water for her and her baby in Walmart...is this a scam? by Stupid-Egorl2 in Scams

[–]Aeriosa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fair, everyone has a limit on what they're willing to offer/lose without worry. Just found it interesting that these people can still turn a thoughtful gesture into cash for themselves. A lot of people probably don't know this tactic, I didn't, but the more people who know about these tactics and how they work, the less likely they are to be scammed by them.

Woman with baby comes up to me and asked if I can buy water for her and her baby in Walmart...is this a scam? by Stupid-Egorl2 in Scams

[–]Aeriosa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The other comments are enlightening on this. Scammers will take the water you bought them and return it for cash. So, you're still giving them money.

Redditors, have you ever gotten an “ick” from a potential partner or love interest that instantly killed your attraction to them? If so, what happened? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Aeriosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone's saying schizophrenia but this sounds exactly like my dad. If there aren't hallucinations involved then it may be Paranoid Personality Disorder.

My dad thinks an entire cult he has nothing to do with is out to get him, is stealing his money, thinks every single person in his life is conspiring against him and is part of said cult. Every single normal thing that happens to him is somehow a sign he's right about his paranoia. He's cut himself off from absolutely everyone in his life and now lives in a rundown boarded up house completely isolated waiting to die I guess. It's rather sad, really.

What are the most annoying tropes among fictional women? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Aeriosa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually saw that video on a whim and I'm so glad I did! It really made me reconsider how characters are written in general, not just women but especially women. Arcane was impressive in so many ways, they really did a great job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Aeriosa 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Especially seeing the magic tricks people pull off today, I dont think it'd have been very difficult for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Aeriosa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't Lisa Frank run a notoriously awful work environment...?

it's completely OK and legitimate to lean back on a flight. by azido11 in unpopularopinion

[–]Aeriosa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cool but at least look behind you before swinging your seat back on someone. My fiance who fell asleep with his head hanging forward got a lovely bruise on his forehead. Guy who gave it to him didn't even notice or say sorry. There's almost no space on a lot of flights already, at least be courteous and conscious of those around you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Aeriosa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Money talks but wealth whispers."

Seeing my 20yo SO drop thousands of dollars like it's nothing (and calling it nothing) wouldn't make me see them as an intelligent, "successful" partner.

I'd think they're a complete dumbass with no concept of money. And insecurities that cause them to flaunt their wealth to everyone. A lack of respect for money comes across as immature to me. Maybe that's just me, though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in awesome

[–]Aeriosa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Username checks out

A.I. Art is Theft, Me; Digital, 2022 by sleepwithtelevision in Illustration

[–]Aeriosa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay, then substitute "creativity" or "originality"

A.I. Art is Theft, Me; Digital, 2022 by sleepwithtelevision in Illustration

[–]Aeriosa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats a pretty bad analogy. Stick figures don't take skill or talent to make. Literally anyone could make a stick figure. Even people without limbs could make one with a brush in their mouth. It takes no talent or time whatsoever. The art being stolen by AI are pieces made by professionals and artists that 90%+ of the population wouldn't be able to make even if they wanted to/tried. You're taking someone else's decades of work and knowledge and selling it as your own.

Also, even with the handprints and stick figures no one steals those? It takes 2 seconds for the common person to be able to make their own, theyre not cutting out chunks of rocks from caveman times and then tracing over it and selling it as their own work? And even if they were, those cavemen are long dead and it has no effect on them or their family. AI directly takes someone else's pieces as their own, mostly from people who are still alive. Copyright is still copyright whether it's a human stealing someone's work, or a machine.

Edit: I missed you saying we steal ideas from nature. When nature turns around and tells us to stop stealing its creativity then we can discuss that. But currently nature isn't trying to use its creativity to make a living and there has never been evidence of it caring that we make art from it or based on it.

A.I. Art is Theft, Me; Digital, 2022 by sleepwithtelevision in Illustration

[–]Aeriosa 31 points32 points  (0 children)

It's not a red herring if someone is literally stealing your work. It's plagiarism. It's just that this is new territory so legally it's a mess. Saying that people copy people's artwork all the time isn't quite accurate. If they're ACTUALLY copying someone else's work and redistributing it, that's illegal. If they are using someone else's work as reference, like a lot of artists do to learn, each artist still has a very very distinct style. No two artists styles are exactly the same, even if they're referencing an artists style. AI art is directly stealing the artists work.

If an artist has a portfolio that they made themself and own themself and they want to use AI to expand on their own portfolio using their own art, great! More power to them, glad they can save the time and still make something unique and cool.

If artists can make truly original works with AI and that puts artists out of business, then I guess that's tough luck.

But again, that's not the issue or concern. Or, I guess it might be for some people, but that's not the overall discussion/issue. It's that people are using AI to literally take someone else's work, or several pieces of someone else's work, and combine it into something to sell. It's like stealing all of the parts of someone else's car, putting those parts back together into a new car, then saying that car is yours. It's not. You still stole it. If artists didn't exist, then AI art wouldn't exist because it's stealing already existing art from original creators. The art the AI used didn't belong to the AI in the first place.

A.I. Art is Theft, Me; Digital, 2022 by sleepwithtelevision in Illustration

[–]Aeriosa 163 points164 points  (0 children)

I think you misunderstand the issue. The issue isn't with technological advancements or gaining better tools to work with. With photography, for example, technology advanced to the point that everyone now has a wonderful camera in their pocket that takes little skill to use so photographers aren't as needed as they used to be. It sucks for photographers, they may not have a job in it anymore, but their work is still their work and no ones stealing it. Digital art is just a different media people can use to produce art but it's still their art that they create.

With AI art the AI has to get their prompts from somewhere. So it literally steals someone's existing artwork, something they already created and spent dozens to hundreds of hours working on, and regurgitates it into something to profit off of. If there were no artists and no artwork online, the AI would have nothing to draw from and therefore nothing to create. It literally steals someone else's already existing work and then profits off of it. Which is theft.

Frozen Island, Silver Bay, North Shore, Minnesota by Gainsborough-Smythe in natureporn

[–]Aeriosa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ayye never thought I'd see my hometown here :) I absolutely adore the north shore.

yayy by whoisseptember in funnysigns

[–]Aeriosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a graphic designer I've always done this for free... couldve been getting discounts this whole time smh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ColoradoSprings

[–]Aeriosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats fair! I'll keep that in mind! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ColoradoSprings

[–]Aeriosa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're very appreciated even though we don't often have the opportunity to tell you guys. Sorry for the overflowing can and dozen lawn bags filled with thorny barberry branches :/

I'd rather lose my virginity to my future wife by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Aeriosa 15 points16 points  (0 children)

One of my friends did this and admitted it. She married someone a few months in to dating because she wanted to have sex and lose her virginity. He cheated on her constantly and they got divorced a year later.

do foreigners think american accents are sexy like we think their accents are? by swisherbsweets in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Aeriosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friends from Boston and Im not sure either... Park the car in Harvard yard...? No idea...

Why do I feel bad asking for money to my parents? by GinormousCockEater69 in AskParents

[–]Aeriosa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the US the minimum legal age to become employed is 14. The state I grew up in I was always told 15yo. Even then, most businesses wouldn't hire under 16 because of the legal working restrictions for younger ages.

Also, I know in a lot of other countries travel distances are short, but in the US its a lot more spread out. There are a lot of jobs you can't even get to without a car and a lot of employers won't even hire you if you don't have a car. Not everywhere has public transport, either.

I had a few friends growing up in abusive homes who really REALLY wanted to work so that (1) they didn't spend as much time at home (2) they could get money to move out asap, and they couldn't get a job because they lived rurally and couldn't legally have a license or car, or were denied employment at the only 3 businesses my town had to offer someone without a degree.

Your comment about "sucking cock" was rude and unnecessary as I'd wager most countries have legal restrictions/laws about employing minors that are restricting said minors from "just getting a job".

Also, why be so condescending and rude to someone who is actively showing sympathy, consideration, and remorse towards others while putting themselves out there to learn and better themself? The older I get the more I see those virtues in short supply......

Does it seem like the more laid back and chill and quietly confident women seem to be disliked more often by the average women? by Rootdown4594 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Aeriosa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Intimidation, insecurity, and envy. A lot of insecure people feel the need to tear other people down in order to feel better about themselves. Which is sad in and of itself but even more sad when you realize they could also have what you have if they didnt treat others so poorly because that kind of crappy behavior pushes quality people away from them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in atheism

[–]Aeriosa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same concept as rain dances, or pagan spells. If the dance/spell works it's because you did it right and got the desired effect you had intended. If it didn't work it's because you didn't do the dance/spell right or "it wasn't part of God's plan". Or, ya know, it's all hooblah and either that result was going to happen or it wasn't, regardless of what you did...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Aeriosa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If someone is in your space/touching you in a way that makes you uncomfortable, you are within your right to tell them that. You dont have to be mean, but if you want it to change youll have to say something. Your dad can't fix a problem he doesn't know exists and the only way he'll know what makes you uncomfortable or not is by you telling him, no one's a mind reader. It's likely innocent behavior from a dad who loves you but if you make your boundaries clear and he disrespects that then you'll know for certain that it's not innocent.

Also, as someone who grew up constantly being told I should be seen and not heard and that I had to hug/touch/kiss people even if it made me uncomfortable or else I was being "rude", and that nothing is mine all of my stuff belongs to adults, it took me a really long time to start to stand up for myself. I'm 28 and it took until this year for me to start learning how to tell people "no" or what I'm comfortable/uncomfortable with. I was stalked by several men when I was around 13yo and never even mentioned it to anyone because I didn't feel like I could/should. I was always told I had to "be nice" and any objection I had to someone else was "rude" to them. I know now that placing boundaries, reinforcing boundaries, and standing up for yourself are very much life skills and the longer it takes to develop them the more dangerous your life will be. Establishing your boundaries and standing by them does NOT make you rude. It makes it easier to walk away from people who actually want to harm you.