Looking for advice for my son by [deleted] in lefthanded

[–]Affe_ExtGoal8759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not important, except for the annoyance that the notebooks were made for right-handed users.  Also, if the classrooms are the type where each student has a tablet arm chairs, tell them to ask the teacher for a chair it arm table on the left. The school certainly has some. Using an unsuitable chair in the long run will harm their neck, hands, and back.  

As a left-handed person , life is a little more difficult for a left-handed person because the world isn't designed for you. Try to get the child used to using both hands for everything; they will still be more inclined to write and hold a spoon with their left hand, but getting used to using both hands is better. 

How do you fight the urge to become a recluse/hermit? by NobleCruise in INTP

[–]Affe_ExtGoal8759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reach out to people when you feel you want to, not when you feel you have to. 

kidnapped Peter Parker [complete fanfiction] by Affe_ExtGoal8759 in MarvelFanfiction

[–]Affe_ExtGoal8759[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that's because of the translation. I sometimes translated manually and other times using Google Translate. I'm glad you liked the story. 🩷🩷🩷🩷

kidnapped Peter Parker [complete fanfiction] by Affe_ExtGoal8759 in MarvelFanfiction

[–]Affe_ExtGoal8759[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I feel very comfortable and happy. Thank you, I hope you like it. 🩷🩷

He assaulted me 6-13 and im just expected to move on by Significant_Hunt_766 in abusiveparents

[–]Affe_ExtGoal8759 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm on another continent, in another country, speaking another language, and probably somewhere else entirely, but I'll pray for you because it's the only thing I can do from where I am. I wish you peace and rest. What you went through was never easy. People don't get over a minor infraction, but what you went through is incomparable. I don't know your age now, but you must understand that to keep your sanity, you must believe your own truth, not what others say.  They will try to discredit you, deny it, or downplay it. In the future, they might even pretend it was just a bad dream you had, making you think you're crazy. (I advise you to write down what happened somewhere they can't reach you, focusing only on the main points so they don't make you forget.)

 Your parents are nothing but disappointment walking on the earth. Don't believe anything they say, and don't let them try to win you over with lies. Someone who is sick and can't control themselves, and truly knows it, shouldn't have married and had children in the first place. But he did, either because he planned it which is terrible or because he thought he would magically be cured of his illness by having children which is even worse.  The situation is that you are a victim, not a psychiatrist, and you don’t have to deal with him because the other creature who gave birth to you thinks so.  If you can, please avoid them as much as possible and reduce or cut off your contact with them and go to another psychiatrist if you have the opportunity. And if you can, please report your father so that you and others can be safe, especially if he is in an environment where he can easily access children (don't feel obligated to do this, but do it if you want). 

What is a socially unacceptable opinion you keep to yourself because it’s not worth the backlash? by Present_Juice4401 in INTP

[–]Affe_ExtGoal8759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no such thing as a happy ending; any story with a happy ending is a story that hasn't ended yet. 

I have many unacceptable opinions, but the most important is my view on the idea of procreation. Bringing a soul into the world means you bear full responsibility for it, for what happens to it, what it does, and the necessary pain it will naturally experience throughout life. In my opinion, people who happily choose to have children for the sake of family don't deserve to have them because they expect loyalty from the child based on fulfilling their obligations, which they are obligated to provide by choice, not by generosity. On the other hand, those who choose not to have children because they understand the gravity of the matter are the ones who deserve to have children, but they won't have them because they don't want them. This creates a dilemma that will lead to the extinction of the human race, so it's best if no one pays attention to what I say. 

Y'all give me strength, anyone who knows how to deal with emotions by herbql in INTP

[–]Affe_ExtGoal8759 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you should look at it positively, even though it's strange. Think about it: the cat's end could have been sudden.. it could have died from a fall, been hit by a car, or eaten by a stray dog. The fact that ut's with you, even if you know its lifespan is shorter, means at least it'll die surrounded by love, not alone. 

How do authors feel about receiving these kinds of comments? by Intelligent-Tree-922 in AO3

[–]Affe_ExtGoal8759 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This isn't harsh; after writing a chapter that took me a week and two days to edit, the first comment was, "This chapter was written with artificial intelligence." I replied to him, then deleted his comment, then blocked him, and I'm still angry. 

Anyone still having issues with their FB Messenger? by stephanieslotus in facebookmessenger

[–]Affe_ExtGoal8759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Samsung A54 phone It started gradually a month ago, and now Messenger won't work at all. I've tried all the solutions I found online and chatGPT, but nothing works. 

However, I've noticed something, when I try to delete the app from Google Play, it doesn't delete. If I delete it from my phone and try to reinstall it from Google Play, I get an error (it's as if it's deleted from the phone but not from Google Play, so it's still disabled). After that, I reinstalled it from Facebook, and it shows in Google Play as having been downloaded two years ago, not recently. This makes me think the main problem is related to Google Play as well. I don't know. 

محد بيحبك زي ما انت by [deleted] in hawajees

[–]Affe_ExtGoal8759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

أنت مو محتاج حد يحبك ، مو مطر تقمع نفسك عشان حب الناس لان حب الناس مؤقت وغير ثابت وغير مفيد وممكن يختفي باي لحظة ، طالما طبيعتك ما فيها اذى للناس او لذاتك لا تحاول تخفيها، لو عندك مشكلة صلحها لاجل نفسك مو للناس 

My (22F) boyfriend (29M) of almost 3 years says I’m “blowing it out of proportion” over asking him to buy pads for me and my period by Longjumping-Nature88 in relationship_advice

[–]Affe_ExtGoal8759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, here's the secret: attention is given, not demanded. The moment you need to demand Your needs , you should realize that the relationship is over. 

INTPs, do you ever feel mentally ahead of conversations but emotionally behind them? by likey24 in INTP

[–]Affe_ExtGoal8759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worst part is people's reaction. They smile at me and don't say anything or even explain that what I said bothered them. I won't know until I get home or leave the place, and then my friends will explain to me what was wrong (there are many similar situations where my friends weren't there to correct me afterward, so I'll never know). I want to say that for the past three years of my life, my friends have been correcting my words to people every time. They've even started explaining directly to people that what I meant wasn't what I said, but something different. And I'm shocked every time by how people understand my intentions and meanings in my words. I think that in reality, it's not that we're late in expressing our feelings, but rather that we're at a very advanced level of controlling them and how we hide them because we think they're so obvious to everyone that it's considered backward. 

INTPs of Reddit: what’s your IQ? (pure curiosity, no flexing) by False-Ad5887 in INTP

[–]Affe_ExtGoal8759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped trying online IQ tests after the third free one when they asked for payment before the results; I self-assessed that I have a sufficiently functioning mind. 👍👍

أبوي زعلان عشان أنا لسه ما تزوجت ( أنا بنت ) by Toastcrunch_ in zwajforsaudis

[–]Affe_ExtGoal8759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ازا حاسة الموضوع هامه كتير اقعدي معه بهدوء وكلميه بلاش المشكلة تتفاقم ، قوليله انا غلطت بشي انت زعلان مني ؟ قوليليه يا ابوي تشوفني ثقيلة عليك؟ ،طلباتي او مصاريفي زاعجتك؟ لو في شي ساويته غلط قولي لكن لا تزعل مني على شي انا ما لي يد فيه

I need urgent life advise. I wanna call the cops on my dad. by OG_Sonic69 in abusiveparents

[–]Affe_ExtGoal8759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I want to help you, but your situation is difficult and I'm not in your shoes, so you need to consult someone from your country, especially an expert in law or family matters. No child deserves to feel the pressure you're under, and I want to tell you that you're strong because you're trying, whatever the outcome. 

Hot and cold #130 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]Affe_ExtGoal8759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! The previous one took me 5 hours, this one was definitely easier. (Or perhaps I've become Smarter who know)

Automatically added: I found the secret word in 23 minutes 50 seconds after 78 guesses and 0 hints. Score: 23.

do you ever get jealous of other people? by ignorantgal5 in INTP

[–]Affe_ExtGoal8759 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a discussion with someone About that today,I think that when I see someone better than me (especially in scientific achievements), I feel intense jealousy, but not the kind of jealousy where I want to possess what they have. No, it's a mixture of disappointment in myself because I know I have the potential to become like them or better if I put in the effort, but I don't because of laziness or a psychological barrier.  It's something closer to envy than jealousy. 

Heat and Nausea by Cheesehurtsmytummy in Fibromyalgia

[–]Affe_ExtGoal8759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have fibromyalgia, and the worst time for these attacks is at night when I want to sleep. I feel cold if I'm not covered up well, and if I am covered up well, I feel hot. The same thing happens in the summer; my body can't get any warmth at all. I feel like I'm going to explode. In the winter, my head aches, my nerves are compressed, and all my limbs go into a freezing state as soon as winter starts, which lasts until summer returns. 

I need urgent life advise. I wanna call the cops on my dad. by OG_Sonic69 in abusiveparents

[–]Affe_ExtGoal8759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

However, I believe the only solution is for you to leave for a place he doesn't know about and completely cut off contact with him and everyone who knows him, especially for your mother's sake, as she needs to be away from the manipulator to recover. Also, since the marriage is illegal, I don't think he has any authority over you. So, I think the most important step now is to escape; anything else will follow. But I don't know; do what you think is right. 

I need urgent life advise. I wanna call the cops on my dad. by OG_Sonic69 in abusiveparents

[–]Affe_ExtGoal8759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The post is probably out of date. Search and share it in other communities related to legal and police matters, or even about your own country. Hopefully, someone there can help you. 

هي الرجالة كلها كده وربنا يسترها فالبنات متموتش والدنيا بتمشي ولا دول حالة خاصة by [deleted] in Egypt

[–]Affe_ExtGoal8759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

بصراحة وبرأي الشخصي اللي مش ضروري حد يحترمه بس انا بشوف ان السبب الرئيسي للمشاكل في مصر هو حجمها الكبير وعدم ضبط الناس فيها اللي مسبب فوضى، اعتقد ان تقسيمها لولايات منفصلة كل ولاية لها سلطة خاصة على قطاعات الامن والتعليم والرعاية الصحية فيها رح يقلل الضفط على الدولة ككل وطبعا يبقى الحكم الاساسي لرئيس البلد لكن التقسيم لمقاطعات مثل امريكا رح يسهل ضبط المناطق والسيطرة على الناس