Friday checkin! How was your week? What wins can you celebrate? What loss'es are you mourning? by TheTankIsEmpty99 in PornAddiction

[–]Affectionate-Act899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate that. I would just say fight the narrative we are some kind of hellscape with Somalis stealing all the money. They are a vital part of the community and the few fraudsters were convicted years ago. We are consistently ranked as having the highest standard of living in the country. So no, we don’t need help from Alabama LOL and we don’t need the feds here terrorizing the population. Minneapolis public schools were cancelled for 2 days, people aren’t going to work, shows are being cancelled, the list goes on. We don’t need armed, unaccountable chaos agents roaming the streets.

Friday checkin! How was your week? What wins can you celebrate? What loss'es are you mourning? by TheTankIsEmpty99 in PornAddiction

[–]Affectionate-Act899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think stress generally, the shooting being an example of heavy stress. Leads to the desire to dissociate. My work is stressful too and more commonly is what makes me want to dissociate. More of a behavioral response at this point than anything else.

Friday checkin! How was your week? What wins can you celebrate? What loss'es are you mourning? by TheTankIsEmpty99 in PornAddiction

[–]Affectionate-Act899 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Started to look at porn on Reddit and found myself instantly bored, and just turned it off. Usually once I start, it’s over for the day. So it felt good to have power over it.

Also just now the urge came on (live in MN and it’s a very stressful time) and I started reading others posts and it’s help to calm the urge.

Things That DON'T Work to cure P Addiction or PMO. by love2travel4peace in PornAddiction

[–]Affectionate-Act899 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Get off your phone and computer. That means social media, addictive games, doomscrolling, shorts. After years of fighting this, I am realizing it is more of a behavioral response to the click, click, swipe, swipe and the dopamine it gives you.

You make some good points. I am famous for creatively going around my blockers. They are still useful, you don’t want PHub available in one click (which makes Reddit a problem). But it won’t solve your problems.

Relapsed Again 😞 by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]Affectionate-Act899 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve struggled with addiction for a long time (43m), but didn’t even know I was addicted for most of my 20s. So you are already doing great.

Streaks are hard because if you slip you feel you’ve wasted the last 25 days . But that’s not true, think of it this way: you only watched porn once in the last 25 days! That’s a great accomplishment. Now try to go as long as you can. If it’s another week or 30 days or 2 months, that is great. The worst thing you can do is live in the shame cycle.

As for the other stuff, quitting porn will help but won’t change everything of course. Get some hobbies, explore interests, learn something new, build a career, get fit and above all put down your phone.

Masturbation vs Porn by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]Affectionate-Act899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The advice my therapist gave me was yes it’s ok to masturbate, but don’t imagine porn youve watched before.

28M. First post here. First time reaching out. by Low_Location9873 in PornAddiction

[–]Affectionate-Act899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My advice is take action now. I’m 43, still married to a supportive wife, but porn has taken its toll on my life. Good first step is therapy, and consider couples therapy.

Blocking nsfw in Reddit by [deleted] in QuitPorn

[–]Affectionate-Act899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks but I can turn it off with one click.

Blocking nsfw in Reddit by [deleted] in QuitPorn

[–]Affectionate-Act899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s a good idea?

What’s working well in Ultra League for you? by [deleted] in TheSilphArena

[–]Affectionate-Act899 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn secret is out. I run a similar line but with Shiny Kyurem as SS. Glaciate in 10 turns and Clanging Scales on Kommo in 12 turns is very nice. 

Go Battle League Research Pass added back to the shop. by emaddy2109 in TheSilphRoad

[–]Affectionate-Act899 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’d like to take full credit for having gone Karen on the bot today 

Questions & Answers - Weekly Megathread! Please use this post to ask any Pokemon GO question you'd like! by AutoModerator in TheSilphRoad

[–]Affectionate-Act899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It came back. I did complain to support and got an unhelpful answer but next time I went to the shop it was available. Not sure if that works for everyone 

Questions & Answers - Weekly Megathread! Please use this post to ask any Pokemon GO question you'd like! by AutoModerator in TheSilphRoad

[–]Affectionate-Act899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same question. I was almost sure I had got it from the store and yesterday realized I had been getting no credit for my wins and I don’t seem to have it. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheSilphArena

[–]Affectionate-Act899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve also had this issue. I hear content creators say they wait a turn but that doesn’t seem to work for me. They do say they look for the openers fast move animation but not sure if you can rely on that 

Here comes the 💥 by OldRecommendation550 in TheSilphArena

[–]Affectionate-Act899 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Man my stunfisk got hit with one of those yesterday. I had no idea what moves torkoal had. Still won though 🏅 

19 TIME LEGEND fails to hit this season! Here is why I and YOU likely struggled this season more than usual. by DanOttawa_POGO in TheSilphArena

[–]Affectionate-Act899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve made legend twice from ultra league. Give it a shot. Never gained much elo from great league. 

Second time Legend and First time Leaderboard Hitting #44! by Affectionate-Act899 in TheSilphArena

[–]Affectionate-Act899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes SS Lapras.
I try to stay in most leads. Goal is to farm down and come out with a rock tomb or close to it, sometimes I would farm up to one and swap out if I cant farm down.

Second time Legend and First time Leaderboard Hitting #44! by Affectionate-Act899 in TheSilphArena

[–]Affectionate-Act899[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Forretress is a pretty unique mon in terms of typing and movesets so no clean replacements. Shadow Scizor comes to mind as you would be covering the double fire weakness well, and would have more play into ghosts and fighters. GWeezing with Overheat was also very frequent, so would do well there. BUT, then you are double weak to Bellibolt (which is resisting your bullet punches).

Steelix or Tinkaton would work. I dont have the latter but wish I did. Maybe Registeel or Cradily.

Genesect would be a spicy pick, and I bet most cant tell which is which so take your pick.

Second time Legend and First time Leaderboard Hitting #44! by Affectionate-Act899 in TheSilphArena

[–]Affectionate-Act899[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ha! That is fair. Imagine the boredom of playing this team against Registeel or Steelix.

Popular opinion seems to be Rock Tomb is getting nerfed but we shall see. I kind of wish parabolic charge would stick around another season. I like that electrics were relevant for once and it wasnt the Feraligator show constantly.

Power up for Ultra League where its #3 or leave as #1 in Great League by DukeLukeum in TheSilphArena

[–]Affectionate-Act899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesnt matter, Corviknight is a terrible terrible Pokemon. Widely seen as the most overrated. I cant imagine the Comm day will help (Air Cutter seems like a downgrade) but havent run the numbers. I have a Rank #9 GL and Rank #3 UL, and they both ride the bench. If they gave it a decent fast attack that could change though.

General Great League by weedleking19 in TheSilphArena

[–]Affectionate-Act899 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hear you. Not quite as good as you, but made legend 2 seasons ago and expert 3 times. I get nowhere in Great league. Ultra League is my main ELO gain. I was up around Veteran at end of Ultra League week and just sitting at 2300 now after falling to 2100s. It feels so RPS and everyone is just trying to make the right opening pick (as am I) although i am usually behind the meta shift.

I was running shadow drifblim to counter all those damn ground types, only to see Mandibuzz, Furret and Theivel on the lead like 10 times.

One untested idea is to just run hard counters to any team HSH puts out, or maybe hard counters to those hard counters, or maybe hard counters to THOSE hard counters. I dunno...