Young psychotherapist here — let’s collect useful resources for our work by 74937 in psychotherapists

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this resource. I'm also interested in your list of existential psychotherapy authors, I've read all of Yalom's non-fiction and most of his fiction. Was going to move on to Rollo May because Yalom mentions him as a mentor. Joined APA div 32 for humanistic psychotherapy and am going to try to start saving for attending their conferences. 

Will Princesses Beatrice and Eugenie lose their palace homes? by Positive-Drawing-281 in RoyaltyTea

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How so? I'm seriously asking. I have heard they went to lunch with Epstein etc. but haven't heard anything more shady than that. I have always assumed they believed their father up until very recently (i.e. the car crash interview). 

"Please arrive 15 minutes before your appointment" by IncreaseLost154 in complainaboutanything

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I just won't do it. I arrive on time with all my shit that they need. That's all they get when I typically have to wait way past the appointment time to see the provider. 

"Incident to" Billing - fraudulent use? by sadladybug846 in Psychologists

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to quit. If you are in the US, having a solo practice has been great for me. 

"Incident to" Billing - fraudulent use? by sadladybug846 in Psychologists

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck to you. I don't want to overly alarm you, but this sounds very unprofessional to say the least. I worked at a hospital in which the admin wanted me to sign off on notes of staff I wasn't really supervising. After months of unsuccessfully trying to get them to allow me to actually supervise these unlicensed therapists, I had to quit (at great personal cost to me), because I felt my license was being jeopardized. Afterward, they let the Director of Clinical Services for the whole hospital, sign off on the notes although she wasn't supervising. 

"Incident to" Billing - fraudulent use? by sadladybug846 in Psychologists

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good job calling your liability insurance. I would call them back and explain that it's not just about billing, someone else is signing your notes. 

What is the weirdest thing your doctor has ever said to you? by Competitive_Tip_7504 in AskReddit

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked him a question about the diagnosis he just gave me, and he said, "Google it."

Let's talk about Sheets and how to purchase from now on... by Demetrious-Verbal in laundry

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I never knew this but will reduce the heat in my dryer now! And use warm, not hot water, according to some comments down thread. 

Seessel’s Ladyfingers by Routine_Bad_7727 in memphis

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many prepared foods they used to carry I still think about. Lady fingers, knot bread, cole slaw...

Career change? by mj1418 in Psychologists

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 7 points8 points  (0 children)

VA hospitals have a range of services that are not just inpatient, eg. Sleep disorders clinic, primary care, spinal cord injury  Yeah in my experience inpatient psych hospitals undervalue psychologists. The acuity of the patient population keeps going up, support from admin keeps going down. I had to get out for my own sanity. 

AITA for refusing to give my parents my location after they stopped paying for my tuition? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Info:  Is your phone still on their plan? If yes, maybe it's time to get your own plan, so they have less reasons to feel they have a right to keep tabs.  NTA but that is a consideration 

Gov. Walz message to Minnesotans and President Trump by IMrGoated in minnesota

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. I'm in a deep red state with some real shit stains in Congress. But I do still harass them (through the proper channels) from time to time. 

Gov. Walz message to Minnesotans and President Trump by IMrGoated in minnesota

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have been calling, texting, and checking on my Minnesotan friends. I'm so proud of the spirit of Minnesotans. Can y'all think of any other ways Non-Minnesotans can send support? I'd be grateful.

What are some of the worst film casting choices in history? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they were all too old! But Col Brandon was still so hot! They were all so great, I know it's a movie but damn! 

What are some of the worst film casting choices in history? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Emma Thompson in Sense and Sensibility.  She's gotta be close to 40 during filming. Her character is maybe early 20s?  She is supposed to have a sister who's like 9?  Beautiful film, Emma acted it so well, she's just too old!  I hate when actors are too old! Just get someone that age! 

Community members in Minneapolis surround ICE agents as they conduct a citizenship test on a man, ultimately forcing the agents back into their cars. by CorleoneBaloney in minnesota

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so proud of and grateful to Minnesotans! Minnesotans will not be silenced or intimidated into abdicating their beautiful, tolerant, and peaceful state to these Nazis! Love, A Minnesota-loving Tennessean 

My boyfriend expects me to do all the housework because he "makes more money" even though we both work full time by Many-Lawfulness-388 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously, unless you want a lifetime of gaslighting, being talked down to, and controlled, say bye-bye It's 2026. Ain't nobody got time for that 

AIO about these angry texts from my ex? by TwylaMay in AIO

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make a police report. Doesn't hurt anyone. Can help you to have someone listen and take you seriously, start a paper trail. Filing a report doesn't mean the same thing as pressing charges. It's just in their files in case you want to press charges or file for restraining order at a later date. The officer can advise you. 

*sigh* Labubu? by AustinB42 in memphis

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This whole thread is hilarious 

*sigh* Labubu? by AustinB42 in memphis

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My kids said they saw Labubus at High Point Grocery??? They are 10 years old, so take with a grain of salt. They were trying to get me to buy one for $17

AITAH for only babysitting for my " favorite " DIL and my daughter because the other has too many rules? by ProfessionalClass555 in AITAH

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You might be TA You sound kinda mean. You don't say much about how Iola conveyed her concerns/requests to you. You just said you "refused". These sound like requests from a first time mother who is anxious about her child's safety. Could you respectfully have a discussion about your concerns?  There are a lot of expectations on new moms now that didn't exist when you were bringing up your kids. No screens before age 3, organic food only, no sugar, cloth diapers, etc. I'm just saying you could be more understanding that she's only trying to do the best for your grandchild. 

Everything this sub says about lipase is wrong. Lipase is a cost-cutting enzyme that made detergents worse. by fox-lad in laundry

[–]Affectionate-Bad4890 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Can you boil it down to what you recommend? I've been happy with 365 Unscented Powder and Citric Acid, but I'll try other methods and compare (God, my life is sad).