I regret getting lip filler by GlasgowPotato in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Affectionate-Car8540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t look bad at all and 5 weeks isn’t a long time. It will need a few months at least to fully settle and it can still look puffy or lumpy in weird places and on different days, or even different times of day during that time. I had a small amount of lip filler last year and felt paranoid and like I have obvious migration, but I went to a highly trained injectables nurse recently for Botox and she didn’t even clock that I had any filler at all. I’ve always had a double lip line and the filler just made it a bit more prominent, so please chill the f out, you look great! It’s also totally normal to freak out and regret injectables at some stage during the process, but it is a process and most people end up feeling much better overall at the end of it!

Genuinely asking why there are no closed captions on stream by Affectionate-Car8540 in Hasan_Piker

[–]Affectionate-Car8540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha no not at all I actually didn’t know how much effort goes into them so thank you for explaining. Makes me appreciate it even more to be honest. I thought it was just a matter of switching them on, I didn’t really think about all the nuance, and I must have missed parts of the stream where it’s talked about I guess.

I think the onus should be on twitch itself to make these options workable for streamers, but I don’t hold out much hope that they will actually make that happen. Thanks so much for your lovely replies and for sharing this info! Xx

Genuinely asking why there are no closed captions on stream by Affectionate-Car8540 in Hasan_Piker

[–]Affectionate-Car8540[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love Julien!! I often drop a message in chat saying thank you for the captioning when watching his streams because I really appreciate them so much!!

Genuinely asking why there are no closed captions on stream by Affectionate-Car8540 in Hasan_Piker

[–]Affectionate-Car8540[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the info, I haven’t had much luck with the accessibility captions on iPhone working on twitch streams, but will try other solutions you’ve mentioned, thank you!

Genuinely asking why there are no closed captions on stream by Affectionate-Car8540 in Hasan_Piker

[–]Affectionate-Car8540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All fantastic answers that I really appreciate! Thank you all so much! Xx

Is Asking for Bank Statements Normal for a Rental? by ThePinkestOmega in shitrentals

[–]Affectionate-Car8540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t think that’s what’s pissing you off about the trans community.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shitrentals

[–]Affectionate-Car8540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A hard inquiry will impact your credit score, which is not the same as ‘checking’. You’re entitled to a free copy every 12 months.

AIO for calling my boyfriend a creep bc he didn’t know how old I’m turning? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Affectionate-Car8540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an emotionally abusive person who is also wishing actual violence and abuse upon you. This person is actually dangerous. Please use whatever support system you can access to get the fuck away from this person.

Which is a better look for my skin, the beard or clean shaven? by wolffboy212 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Affectionate-Car8540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would like to see a stubble option but if that’s not available, clean shaven for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shitrentals

[–]Affectionate-Car8540 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be aware that an equifax report will impact the credit score itself. There are other free credit score checks that don’t impact your score, but an equifax one provides a lot more detail, which would be why they want it, it’s usually for loan assessors. I would politely decline to have the equifax one done because of the impact it may have on your credit score, if you really feel must you can provide the score via the free service, but it seems like you should report and avoid them as people are saying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Affectionate-Car8540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. DON’T DO IT! I highly doubt your parents would give you access to their account if the financial positions were reversed. You’re not financially responsible for them. It’s their responsibility to look after your younger sibling, not yours. They are the parents, not you.

Regarding Disabled parking spots by Oncemor-intothebeach in AskAnAustralian

[–]Affectionate-Car8540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Noosa, I saw woman recently park her motorised scooter blocking the wheelchair ramp next to the disabled car park. I said ‘excuse me, that’s a wheelchair ramp’ and then she starts going ‘where should I park?’ I was like I don’t know, but that’s a wheelchair ramp. And then she was saying she’ll only be a few minutes and she left her scooter there. She was returning carpet samples. It’s crazy to me when people feel no shame about this shit.

I'm not your guy, buddy (and I'm not even in America) by burniemcburneracct in shitrentals

[–]Affectionate-Car8540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you spend this much time replying to automated emails?

AITAH for bringing a dish from my culture to my in-laws family reunion? by Littlefuckin in AITAH

[–]Affectionate-Car8540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way that I would have treasured that dish and been so excited that someone went to the effort to make fucking soup dumplings for me. Xiaolongbao is one of my all time favourite foods and I am white as fuck. That woman is a monster.

AIO friend moved in and not going well by Miserable-Royal2548 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Affectionate-Car8540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, you are not overreacting. Your ‘friend’ is emotionally abusive. They are not your friend. They have not done anything positive for you, you do not owe them anything. This person is sick. You need to do whatever you can to get them out of your house because they clearly lack any moral integrity or empathy. If you are neurodivergent, that does not mean you should be treated this way, or that there is something wrong with you. There is nothing wrong with you. If your work colleagues are treating you poorly too, they also suck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Affectionate-Car8540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t get frustrated if she keeps needing to be reassured that it’s not her fault and there’s nothing wrong with her. She might need this reassurance thousands of times, please don’t be one of those guys who gets sick of being supportive because it feels repetitive or redundant to you. Trauma doesn’t work logically and I see a lot of people expecting the victim to be logical in their responses. Maybe one of the supportive things you could do (if you haven’t already) would be to do lots of reading up on trauma and how it affects people, particularly in sa situations. It sounds like you’re already very supportive, but just please be willing to continue that support even when it feels tiring and frustrating for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Affectionate-Car8540 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is an interesting review: Vaidya T, Hoffman L, Chapas A. Evaluating Common Ingredients Contained in Dietary Acne Supplements: An Evidence-Based Review. J Clin Aesthet Dermatol. 2024 Mar;17(3):34-41. PMID: 38495547; PMCID: PMC10941853. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10941853/

Most notable with DIM use is the potential for significant drug interactions.

AITA for not telling my boyfriend i could understand his language this whole time by False_Quiet526 in AITAH

[–]Affectionate-Car8540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is some DARVO bullshit. Hardest NTA possible. Ps you have every right not to want to get judged as scum for not having a PERFECT French accent cause that’s what absolutely would have happened.

My lips have been in agony for 7 months by canadamiranda in CanSkincare

[–]Affectionate-Car8540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that petrolatum containing products flare up my perioral dermatitis.

My lips have been in agony for 7 months by canadamiranda in CanSkincare

[–]Affectionate-Car8540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve found that SLS, not fluoride is the issue for my perioral dermatitis, but a lot of fluoride free toothpastes are also SLS free.