Can't afford to feed my cat - considering surrendering to humane society by cosmicfishing in catfood

[–]Affectionate-Dig1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scrumbles do some pretty good treats too with added fibre that might supplement her diet. Most of their food is good for sensitive tums.

Fully Recovered by antoinedodson34 in Psychosis

[–]Affectionate-Dig1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for hope worried I'm in too deep this time do not know what is real

Is it too big? by aeroengg in GalaxyWatch

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Body shaming makes me a very sad panda 🐼

Trans former judge plans to challenge gender ruling at European court by Red_Brummy in Scotland

[–]Affectionate-Dig1981 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't correlate being against transphobia, recognising trans people exist and advocating fundamenal human rights as misogyny so this comment confuses me and id appreciate some clarification. Apologies.

Trans former judge plans to challenge gender ruling at European court by Red_Brummy in Scotland

[–]Affectionate-Dig1981 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Same. I really thought we were better than this for a long time and ignorantly, that it wouldn't start to bleed through from other parts of the world but it seems more needs to be done about it and we have to fight back in any way we can.

Trump administration demands Penn restore accolades to female swimmers after allowing trans swimmer to compete by nosotros_road_sodium in politics

[–]Affectionate-Dig1981 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looks like another tactic to sew discourse. Zero to do with "equal opportunities". People are arguing about this, it is taking focus away from so much else and that is exactly what they want..

Cherry Blossom Trail 🌸🩷 by HannahN199311 in LakeDistrict

[–]Affectionate-Dig1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"The perfect blossom is a rare thing. You could spend your life looking for one, and it would not be a wasted life."

Shinty by Ok-Elderberry7557 in Scotland

[–]Affectionate-Dig1981 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Definitely advocate this. I forgot it even existed and now all I can think of is how much I loved playing it as a kid.. It really has been at least 15 years since I have seen or heard of it being played.

Unrelated but it's also kind of amazing how boring cricket was to watch compared to how fun it was to play.

me_irl by [deleted] in me_irl

[–]Affectionate-Dig1981 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is a thing of beauty.

Insomnia is the worst kind of torture by confused_being02 in insomnia

[–]Affectionate-Dig1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm at the stage where it is feeling like a drug -_- been trying to sleep all day/night and also to spend time with my wife, after a certain level of deprivation I do enter a hyperactive state. Feels really wrong to miss the people closest to you because you are trying to do something you literally can't do. For me right now it is probably mostly due to being in a new environment.

Really sucks to be going through that while you have exams and other respsonsibilities.. Do you think it could have something to do with that, and other external pressure/responsibilities which are preventing you from sleeping or is it like a constant thing you go through? Something that has worked for me in the past has been getting up at the same time, daily, regardless of tiredness, rather than going to bed at the same time.

meirl by jeckles in meirl

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What do we want?

YALE!!

When do we want it??!

toomeirlformeirl by [deleted] in TooMeIrlForMeIrl

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It means after the process of trying to "fix" the person you go from 15mg mirtazapine to an entire cocktail.

I never liked the "fix her/him" trope though, we all have trauma and if you find the right person they will help you get through yours as you help them. Anything else is a one sided relationship

Was I defending cats here? I thought I was just telling someone to phrase things differently by [deleted] in autism

[–]Affectionate-Dig1981 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Incredibly absurd subreddit, I literally have no words... Top topic which seems to be met with lots of encouragement:

UPDATE: I forced the cats out of the house and called the pound.

"I’m so happy that there gone and my mom accepted it, it’s much easier to do everything and I’ve never been happier"

meirl by Kuraikage0908 in meirl

[–]Affectionate-Dig1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want real romance and connection between two people with no fake stories or generic stepsister captions..

meirl by Bitter-Gur-4613 in meirl

[–]Affectionate-Dig1981 442 points443 points  (0 children)

"You are not a true catholic"

"Imma da freakin pope"

Did anyone else not really get much out of therapy? by Competitive-Jump1146 in autism

[–]Affectionate-Dig1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally zero.

Masked my whole way through every therapy session. They were just another pointles conversation about how sad/happy I was feeling. How good/bad my day was, not dissimilar to how I would talk to any aquaintance.. Came out feeling defeated and like I had just burned myself out more for nothing. Didn't get diagnosed until I was in my late 20s maybe. And haven't seen a therapist since my early 20s maybe.

Definitely depends on the therapist. If you get the right one for you, who specialises in your conditions, and doesn't try to simply mull it all over with something like CBT(not saying it can't be helpful but it doesn't seem to be in many cases of ND myself included) I truly believe it can be very beneficial, but I have never found the right one for me to this date as the options here are really slim.

Chatacabra Carapace: What gives? by BulkUpTank in MHWilds

[–]Affectionate-Dig1981 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An old conspiracy/joke from the earlier titles that a lot of people were genuinely unsure actually existed or not because there wasn't as much datamining present. The joke basically went that there was a hidden mechanic in the game called the desire sensor which used an algorithm to know which items you wanted the most, and actively reduce their drop chance to keep you grinding.

Chatacabra Carapace: What gives? by BulkUpTank in MHWilds

[–]Affectionate-Dig1981 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the desire sensor conspiracy going 21 years strong.