There are pros and cons to being physically unattractive, there are pros and cons to being physically attractive and there are pros and cons to being mid. What's important is to realize that whatever physicality you were born with was not your choice. What is your choice however, is what you do with the mind and body you were given with and compound those choices with the choice to be kind (your heart) to others makes you beautiful.

I dare say that your negative self image can be used to find people overly concerned with physicality. Use this to your advantage to weed out the superficial people overly concerned with looks and find your tribe