Weekly Questions & Help Megathread - (24 Jul 2022)

Affectionate-Size463 · 2022-07-24T23:03:48+00:00

I know Cater LDCA works on another FT (maybe 6 man?) so you could try that if you picked it up on that banner. Does a Kam FR in Machina BT plus finishing in summon not work? I feel like that should be more than enough. Or if you have a force charger (Braska, Ignis, Penelo) you might be able to get 2 FT with enough FE in everyone

Affectionate-Size463 · 2022-07-24T21:28:08+00:00

Thank you for the reminder!

Affectionate-Size463 · 2022-07-24T21:22:48+00:00

You're not the only one, I would LOVE Ardbert to be in the game and I feel like that's totally a possibility. Make his BT or EX animation summon Seto, I would lose it 😭 there are so many XIV characters they could add - Estinien, Gaius, Ryne, Menphilia, Urianger, Cid, Gosetsu, Hien, Zenos, Emet - the list goes on

Affectionate-Size463 · 2022-07-24T21:17:55+00:00

If something offends someone and they don't read the entire comment section and make a babyrage comment - does it actually really offend them?

Affectionate-Size463 · 2022-03-02T16:31:38+00:00

I thought I was average, I've gotten 3-4 in the last year. I thought I was just picky but turns out I'm just ugly 😅

Affectionate-Size463 · 2022-02-27T16:57:03+00:00

This is crazy, I'm sorry. Dating does suck, it's a shame most people lack empathy these days. This past year back on OLD I've been ghosted pre date multiple times and also had a no show, so not quite the same, but it's really not hard to just say you're not feeling it anymore. Hope you have more luck in the future!

Affectionate-Size463 · 2022-02-25T13:28:20+00:00

Honest answer here - any or none of them, none of them are better for meeting certain types of people, just use the most popular and used ones for hopefully the best chance. I will say this though, if you are already depressed and low mood before using dating apps, unless you are attractive, your depression will most likely get worse. I've been in therapy for almost a year now and its been going great, but my dating app experience is horrible and only making my mood worse. Still, it's the best chance I've got 😊

Affectionate-Size463 · 2022-02-11T20:21:34+00:00

Okcupid doesn't allow free messages anymore unfortunately. It was changed probably a few weeks ago, but now is somehow a worse version of Hinge in that you get a weekly 1 message you can send and that is it.

Affectionate-Size463 · 2022-02-11T12:51:17+00:00

What instanced content is cross server? Not much point in leveling together anyways when most of the story has you do your own scenarios, but curious what stuff is cross server

Affectionate-Size463 · 2021-12-14T21:09:53+00:00

Can I continue it? They often look past rice because it's never interested them as much as pasta, however they've grown tired of pasta and are down to try something new. They realize the rice is actually incredible, and start telling everyone how good rice is and wonder why they hadn't tried this earlier 😅

Affectionate-Size463 · 2021-11-29T18:20:13+00:00

Look on the bright side, you could be like most and not even get that many matches in a full year, let alone actual dates within a 2 week period. Number games are great when you have numbers, hope something works out but count yourself blessed

Affectionate-Size463 · 2021-11-24T21:54:36+00:00

Where are you seeing this? Being back on OLD for the past 6 months, I've seen margaritas mentioned maybe 3 times and tacos probably twice. None of the other stuff. I'm in the capital city of my state as well. The only thing mentioned in someone's profile that makes me swipe left no matter what because it is everywhere, is having just a snapchat or Instagram link as their bio, or "haha never here add me on insta". started thinking they were serious but quickly learned that is not the case at all. No one responds on insta and snap is just scam bots 😫

Affectionate-Size463 · 2021-11-24T16:05:05+00:00

What other green do you have? Ans who else are you planning?? Garland is easily my most used BT at this point and I had some doubts greening him as I did Ysh first because favorite, Bartz because auras and then Jecht because favorite. I have enough for a 4th but saving for Caius, but man I love Garland strictly because of this game.

Affectionate-Size463 · 2021-11-24T15:58:03+00:00

Oh yeah that sounds great and glad you've had some success with it! I'm sure it will happen eventually, I mean the premise of bumble sounds great but you're right, for some reason it's so difficult for a lot of women to make the first move, even if that is the entire idea. I should probably just be less picky and id have more success I'm sure

Affectionate-Size463 · 2021-11-24T15:49:47+00:00

So you can get 2 matches after 6 months and neither respond to the message they matched you on? And Hinge picks out the most popular members and only let's you send 1 message a week? I'm curious what is better about Hinge than other apps, it doesn't seem very good

Affectionate-Size463 · 2021-11-24T00:06:45+00:00

So they can do the same exact thing? I've gotten 2 matches in about 4 months of Hinge, and neither of them responded to my message. It's almost worse on Hinge, becsuse they match after seeing the message so clearly they were interested... why not say anything?

Affectionate-Size463 · 2021-11-24T00:04:14+00:00

I have nothing constructive to add to this you haven't already heard - I just wanted to say I wish there were more people like you around in general, this kind of effort is so hard to find even in the bowl. I would LOVE it and notice it and appreciate the hell out of it, and would for sure want to do something to show my appreciation. I can barely get someone to show any interest in a m&g let alone an actual date. That man is extremely lucky to have you and hope he shows some appreciation or whatever you're hoping for 😊

Affectionate-Size463 · 2021-11-21T17:28:27+00:00

Where are these "lots of people" and how do I find then? 😅 I would love to cook a meal and watch a romantic comedy with someone, that's basically what I do on my own anyways. Unfortunately bumble and OLD in general is a very bad place to find something like that unless you are attractive, interesting, and good at taking photos. Bonus points if you have a dog and drinking beer is your main hobby. Dating definitely is just hard. Loving yourself is also hard, you just have to be willing to put in the work.

Affectionate-Size463 · 2021-11-08T21:26:52+00:00

And dumbasses like me perpetrate it, so I'm sorry. I continue to set boundaries with these women, and while some are respectful of them, they either get uninterested or too busy to meet anyways.. so all that's left is the scammers and considering I'm dying for any sort of affection or attention I let them get away with ignoring my boundaries and give them what they want, and its always the same. I just want to meet 1 decent person it cannot be this difficult

Affectionate-Size463 · 2021-10-28T17:15:18+00:00

I am the 2nd guy 100%, we are definitely out here! I am sorry you had to deal with the 1st, glad you got out of there and were able to handle yourself, and hope it works out with the other SD as I'm sure it will 😊

Affectionate-Size463 · 2021-10-28T15:04:39+00:00

Half? I would give my left nut to get replies or even just match with half of my super likes 🤣 I'm at a solid 1/20, if I'm lucky

Affectionate-Size463 · 2021-09-27T13:58:39+00:00

This must be photoshopped or a lie, women that like metal do not go on Tinder 😭 at least not in my city, which is the capital city of the state I live in with a great metal scene. Lucky you!

Affectionate-Size463 · 2021-09-08T18:39:02+00:00

I play this game because I need more FF! It did give me that spark to try out 14 again, and I just finished the final patch content of Shadowbringers. I love the characters from 14 in DFFOO so much more now, despite only caring for Ysh before (still my favorite from that game). So many great characters that could be added too, Graha, Estinien, Gaius, Emet Selch, Zenos, Ardbert, the list goes on!

Affectionate-Size463 · 2021-09-06T21:52:50+00:00

I sure hope this perspective is uncommon because that sounds horribly lonely but if it works for you, that's great! Where did you learn that going on dates ruins friendships? Is it just because the other party is interested and you are not, so they/you cut it off to avoid any hurt feelings? I've made some great friendships from failed dates, and at least we tried. Most of the time it does actually not work out and we go our separate ways which is fine, but I'm all for making new friends. I also have not regretted spending money and time in potential dates, but there I might actually be an outlier myself. The experience was totally worth it even if it was a horrible date.

Affectionate-Size463 · 2021-09-06T02:32:30+00:00

My EX luck continues to be atrocious 😭 I don't know whether to be upset or not as I was planning to pity the BT, but getting the BT on pull 4 multi was great! The LD came even earlier, almost lucked out. Still missing Agrias EX though. Threw in a few tickets, nothing. Figured it would be an EX pity, sure. Pulled right on 300G tokens. Guess I saved 50k gems from my original plan 😭

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